Posts tagged "thoughts from guys on our im"

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Should You Dump A Woman If She Won’t Give Head?

This morning we asked if you should dump a guy if he won't give you oral sex. So far, the majority of you -- nearly 50 percent -- have said, "Yes. If he's a selfish lover, he'll be selfish in other ways too. See ya!" A little over 36 percent of you are willing to…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / October 6, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Far Would You Go To Impress A Woman?

I didn't realize this, but apparently a lot of dudes are willing to do a lot -- including embarrassing the crap out of themselves -- in order to impress a woman. Or at least sleep with her. Find out just how far, after the jump. How willing are you to embarrass yourself to impress a…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / September 29, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Do We Avoid The Friend Zone?

Recently, a number of good friends of mine told me they're getting into the friend zone with guys they're interested in romantically. I had a little bit of advice for them, but then realized this was the perfect opportunity to reunite with some old friends. Thoughts from the guys on our IM, after the jump.

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / September 21, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Was Your Worst Sexual Performance?

Last night, while I was writing my piece on the 7 types of sex that don't have to count, I IM'd with a guy friend of mine, who said the one sexual experience he doesn't always count is the one in which he, um, sucked. Which got me thinking of the bad sex I've had…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / July 7, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Are Your Style Dealbreakers?

In the latest issue of GQ, Neel Shah writes that he went on a blind date with a woman who immediately turned him off by wearing "faded True Religion jeans." He then goes on to describe how a girl's style plays a big part in whether or not he could date him. While Shah's example…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / July 1, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Have You Ever Lied About Your Sexual Experience?

On an early date with my ex, we were discussing sexual experiences (what, me discuss sex?!) and he told me that he had had a threesome. Months later I found out that he had lied. I wasn't mad about it, but because it was such an odd thing to make up, I've never forgotten it.

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 9, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Do You Feel About Marriage?

Ahh, marriage. Certainly men think long and hard about whether they want to get married right? Or maybe the answer is a no brainer, requiring very little obsession and thought and magazine purchasing? Being that it's Wedding Week on The Frisky, and because I'd hate to leave the fellas out of such a sexy topic,…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 2, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: When Do You Decide You’re Going To Bone Someone?

This week I was pulling together questions from men about the things they wonder about women. One of the questions was, "How quickly do you decide if you're going to have sex with a guy?" I thought the question was an one that could easily be turned around on men. The question is not, "How…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / May 28, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Can A Woman Be Bad In Bed?

Most people like to think of themselves as good in bed. Sometimes, they can be very, very wrong. It's pretty easy to spot a guy who's crap in the sack -- he jackhammers, he doesn't hit any of the right spots, he's like an octopus -- but what do guys find so awful they'd consider…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / May 20, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Have A Virgin Fantasy?

Sometimes I think men get a raw deal. There are so many assumptions and rumors about what guys are attracted to and what they have sexual fantasies about -- often perpetuated by magazines, websites, and books that speak to them (Men's Health, I'm talking to you!). Ultimately, I think most of these are myths. For…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / May 15, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Would You Ever Violate Her Privacy?

The other night, when I was having dinner with a guy friend who told me my engagement history might scare off some guys, we also discussed the issue of privacy in a relationship and how big of a deal it can be when that privacy is violated. He maintains that checking your partner's email, cell…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / May 6, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Always Pay The Check On A Date?

Yesterday I wrote about a recent trend: More and more dates end in split checks. Several of my married female friends -- and their husbands -- were dismayed and shocked to hear about this, and so were some of you. Some believe that whoever does the asking should do the paying, while others think the…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 28, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Google Stalk Your Dates?

Marie Claire's Diana Vilibert has something crazy to admit: "Give me his name and 30 minutes, and I'll give you his life story as told through Google, from the name of his childhood pet to a comprehensive collage of ex-girlfriends. I'm all for exhaustively Googling dates and digging up what's out there." And she's not…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 21, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Often Do You Get Tested?

It's STD Awareness Month! We've been talking a lot about the icky stuff you can get while bumping uglies, while Dr. V has urged you to have as much fun as you want, so long as you wear a condom. In the past, we've talked to the guys on our IM about how often they…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 15, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: The First Time He Went Down

I remember my first blow job as if it was yesterday. A stairwell, in a bar, with a guy named Dave Wolf, who, just in case you might forget his last name, had a wolf tattooed on his shoulder. I was a late bloomer, sorta, so my first beej came when I was 19. But…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 7, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Why Didn’t You Text/Call Me Back?

Do you watch the show "Tough Love"? I don't, but both Annika and Simcha have caught episodes and claim that it rivals my beloved "Millionaire Matchmaker." That remains to be seen, but Steven Ward, the frat boyish matchmaker on the show, did have a rule that kind of rocked my world. "Text on a need…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 1, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Do The Seasons Affect Your Interest In Sex And Relationships?

Spring has arrived! I can practically smell the sunscreen and the delightful ocean breeze. But with the heat comes a question -- do men suddenly get a little skip in their step when spring arrives that signals a sudden interest in flirting and non-committal sexy times? I've heard the theory that people, especially men, prefer…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 25, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Are Your Friends In Your Spank Bank?

Last night I had the pleasure of guesting on Cosmo Radio on Sirius. One of things we discussed (in addition to the Hottest Guys With Irish Blood and Paul Rudd) was the public's obsession with the ins and outs of celebrity sex lives. How weird it must be for, say, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie,…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 18, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Michelle Obama, Awesome?

I can't hide it. I, and basically every other woman I know, think Michelle Obama is the bee's knees. She rocks my world. I look up to her, I want to raid her closet, I aspire to have the same grace and poise and intelligence and confidence and parenting abilities and knack for wearing belt…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 12, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Long Should You Fight To Save A Struggling Relationship?

After liveblogging four hours of "The Bachelor" over the last two days, it's no wonder I cannot get Poo-Poo Bach (as he was renamed last night), Sloppy Seconds (aka Molly), and Melissa out of my mind. As a result, it inspired this week's Thoughts From Guys On Our IM topic, specifically breakups, and how much…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 4, 2009