thoughts from guys on our im

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Is Dita Von Teese Correct That Men Like Watching Women “Get Ready”?

Last week, burlesque star Dita Von Teese had me scratching my head at something she said in an interview with Into The Gloss. Dita, who is publishing an offbeat beauty…

Jessica Wakeman | October 29, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Do Men Think About Valentine’s Day?

Confession? I love Valentine’s Day. I know it’s not cool to admit, but I’m a big soppy romantic at heart. Any day devoted to chocolates, flowers and other showy displays…

Jessica Wakeman | February 3, 2012 - 10:00 am

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Worry About Being A “Toxic Bachelor”?

The “toxic bachelor.” It was a term we’d never really heard of until a 33-year-old male friend, fresh off a breakup, mentioned it. “I want to settle down,” he said.

Julie Gerstein & Amelia McDonell-Parry | February 1, 2012 - 10:00 am

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Want A Woman To Cook For You?

Men and food: the relationship is deep and intertwined. Ever since the days when a man clubbed a pterodactyl on the head and dragged it back to the cave for…

Jessica Wakeman | November 4, 2011 - 11:00 am

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Are Your Pre-Date Nerves?

Guys — they’re just like us! In this episode of “Thoughts From Guys On Our IM,” the boys who make up our chat list confess what makes them nervous before…

Julie Gerstein & Amelia McDonell-Parry | August 2, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Are You Honest About Your Porn Use?

In a piece for The Good Men Project, Hugo Schwyzer writes about the many men he’s talked with who lie to their girlfriends/wives about the amount of porn they watch.

Julie Gerstein & Amelia McDonell-Parry | July 22, 2011 - 2:59 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: When Do You Tell A Dude Sex Is Off The Table?

Ladies, get ready, I’m about to have a TMI moment with y’all. A couple of months ago, I went on a date with a guy, and we seemed to really…

Julie Gerstein | June 10, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Do You Consider Romantic?

Ahh, romance. Always thought about in terms of what women want — flowers (peonies for me, thanks!), slow-dancing to Kenny G, dinner at fancy French restaurants with overly rich food,…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | March 25, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Would You Ever Have A Cohabitation Agreement With Your Girlfriend?

In today’s New York Post there’s an interesting “trend” piece about unmarried couples who are drawing up formal and informal “cohabitation agreements” before moving in together. (Bonus! Our own Mind…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | February 23, 2010 - 6:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Handies Versus Blowies, Part 2

You know, sometimes a gal reaches the end of her research, sits there for a moment and says to herself, “I don’t think I have enough information to fairly come…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | February 10, 2010 - 1:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Handies Versus Blowies, Discuss!

Last night I was skimming the new issue of Glamour and came across an article called “12 Things Guys Wish You Knew in Bed,” written by a dude named Adrian…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | February 1, 2010 - 5:30 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Would You Take A Male Contraceptive Pill?

Ahh, the pill. I’ve been off and on the birth control pill for years and have been lucky enough to not have many annoying side effects. But lately there’s been…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | January 14, 2010 - 1:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Has A Girlfriend Ever Hit You?

Ever since Tiger Woods was in that car accident last week and rumors swirled that his wife Elin Nordegren had scratched his face during a fight (and may have gone…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | December 9, 2009 - 2:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Much Porn Do You Watch?

The other night, the new BF and I were chatting and somehow the topic of conversation landed on porn, as it is prone to do when you’re dating someone like…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | November 24, 2009 - 6:30 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: What Do You Think Of Women With Tattoos?

I think I’ve mentioned this before, but I have two mildly unfortunate tattoos. Annika just got a new tat, bringing her grand total to eight pieces of ink. The reasons…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | November 10, 2009 - 6:20 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Are You Cool With Sex Toys In The Bedroom?

First there was the Succu Dry, a sex toy for men with a fanged orifice; and then today we introduced you to a vibrating ring that dudes can masturbate with…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | October 27, 2009 - 4:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Are Men Or Women Better At Fighting?

I know, I know, how do you define “better,” right? But I think most people would agree that men and women tend to have different fighting “styles,” which really becomes…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | October 21, 2009 - 12:00 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: When Was The Last Time You Cried?

In the time I have been interviewing the guys on my IM about everything from anal sex and condom use to masturbation and cheating, they have never been as uncomfortable…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | October 15, 2009 - 4:30 pm

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Will You Stick Around If You Can’t Stand Her Friends?

You know what’s nice? When you meet someone and they’re awesome and you like them and they like you and BONUS, their friends RULE. And you know what sucks? The…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | October 14, 2009 - 12:00 pm
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