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Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: How Often Do You Say “I Love You”?

I think there are two schools of thought when it comes to saying the words “I love you.”

  1. Say it sparingly, saving it for those moments when you truly want to communicate the depth of your caring for another person.
  2. Say it as often as you’d like, because if you feel it, no amount of times could possibly cheapen or properly convey the sentiment.

I must admit, I subscribe to the latter, though I didn’t put much thought into it until recently. My ex and I said “I love you,” oh, 10 times a day, easily. He said it and I said it back. I said it and he said it back. We both said it and we both said it back, up until, oh, an hour before we broke up. Hence, I’ve thought about what it means to say “I love you” a lot or a little. I still think I am the type to say it a lot, but I’ve definitely learned that others are not like me, particularly many men, but as I don’t want to generalize, I went to the guys on my IM to find out what their ILU philosophy is. Keep reading »

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Have You Ever Faked An Orgasm?

Yesterday, Simcha told us all about how anywhere between 11 and 25 percent of men have faked an orgasm, due to exhaustion, disinterest, performance anxiety, and, uh, boner loss. So, if those numbers are accurate, surely a few of the guys on our IM have faked it once or twice? One guy fessed up, while a few others seemed utterly confused as to how such a thing is possible anyway. (Apparently, they’re under the impression that our lady bits gush man-juice evidence post-sex.) Check out what they had to say, after the jump. Keep reading »

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