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Love & Sex

Even though we look forward to the holidays as a well-deserved break from the daily grind, it can still be difficult to get “in the mood” when you’re fighting mall traffic and dealing with relatives.

In fact, feeling tired and stressed is probably the number one libido-killer.

That’s why it couldn’t hurt… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

The new movie “The Social Network” opens with a brutal breakup scene — which has inspired a frenzy of articles around the Internet where people post their favorite movie breakups.

Onscreen breakups fall into two categories: Either they’re way more dramatic than anything you ever imagined — and therefore allow you to live out… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Want to increase the probability that you’re going to have at least one, and maybe multiple, orgasms the next time you have sex?

“It’s the foreplay, stupid.”

Okay, well I know that we women aren’t stupid and our partners aren’t either, but sometimes the obvious answer is staring us right in the face. READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Quick quiz: A 38-year-old man you don’t know well asks you to dinner. He is married, you are married. Is he hitting on you? Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

But say your lover’s penis is small. I’m talking really small. A micro-penis. Well, if size really does matter to him, and to you, there are some surgical and non-surgical options to help with that. [Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

If you believe porn, men need only do two simple things to send a hot blonde like Jenna Jameson into orbit. In reality, we women know better.

The porn industry has done many bad things, but it has also created a generation of men who are less hot in bed.

And for that,… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

I hear cosmetic surgery advertisements all the time on the radio: breast enhancements, tummy tucks, liposuction, and vaginal rejuvenation.

Okay, the first three are obvious. But that fourth one? Vaginal rejuvenation? Does my vagina need to be made young again? I didn’t know it was old.

Actually, vaginal rejuvenation surgery is supposed to… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

What are some signs that I shouldn’t marry my boyfriend?

The first thing that leaps to mind is, “If you have to ask …” Having doubts doesn’t necessarily mean you should never marry him, but you are wise to heed that quiet but insistent voice in your head until you are completely sure he’s… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

According to relationship experts, all the sexy lingerie in the world won’t give you the intimacy boost of a simple, calm, daily conversation — about yourselves.

Why don’t you … schedule a 10-minute check-in chat? Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Do sex and orgasm go together like peanut butter and chocolate? There’s no denying that both do taste great together (unless you are allergic to peanuts). But you could have one without the other, right? Right? Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn’t? Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

One my husband’s biggest gripes is that he’s always in debt to me. And I’m the collections agent knocking down his door, refusing to offer him a deal to somehow pay it off once and for all. Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Something happened in the “Sex and the City 2″ movie that really had me thinking, If I was in that situation, what would I have done?

**Spoiler warning … proceed with caution.** Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

After the birth of our first child, my libido plummeted. Things went from bad to worse in my relationship, and my husband was accusing me of abandoning him. So I made a sex agreement: Twice a week, I’d do it, whether I felt like it or not. Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

It’s great when birth control works to our advantage. It’s horrible when the way it works is to stop us from having sex in the first place! This week, one CafeMom finds herself, for medical reasons, needing to use condoms for a few months. But she’s getting objections from an important player in the scenario. READ MORE »


Guys

Ya know, there are some things in life that just aren’t meant to be understood. The duck-billed platypus. In-laws. Celery. How Charlie Sheen gets work. So trust me when I say, yes, absolutely, men are really that enthralled with those two pieces of female flesh. Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Is it possible that my husband’s foreskin irritates me? I’ve only had sex with two men, and my husband is the uncircumcised one. After about five minutes, it feels like I’m being pulled and pinched inside. We’ve tried lubrication. Why would his uncircumcised penis cause me so much pain? Read more … … READ MORE »


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