Posts tagged "the soapbox"

The Soapbox: On Using The C-Word

Anthony Weiner's communications director calling a former intern a "cunt," "slutbag" and other slurs is just one aspect of the choppy waters surrounding the sex scandal-ridden NYC mayoral candidate's sinking campaign. But of all the what-are-they-thinking? Weiner campaign moments in the past few weeks, it is the one that has stood out i…
By: Jessica Wakeman / August 1, 2013

The Soapbox: On Anthony Weiner, Kate Middleton & Who Should Have The Right To Privacy

Yesterday was a big day: the Royal Baby! Carlos Danger! New York City mayoral candidate Anthony Weiner's wife Huma Abedin publicly "forgiving" him for his latest sexting/Internet affair gaffe! While Kate and Wills were unveiling their new baby, Weiner was doing damage control and responding to claims that he'd bee…
By: Julie Gerstein / July 24, 2013

The Soapbox: Sometimes I Don’t Understand Feminists

I don't know if I'm the right kind of feminist. Oh, my principles are in the right place -– birth control and abortions for those who want/need them; equal pay for equal work; full participation in government and society; equal funding for girls' sports; the right to wear whatever the hell I want and not…
By: Sara Benincasa / July 22, 2013

The Soapbox: Mourning The Death Of Trayvon Martin & Reevaluating Racial Politics In America

As I sit in my living room, the familiar sound of rotating blades of a helicopter whoosh above me. I can hear them, hovering. They’re following the Oakland protestors who have taken to the streets outraged by the not guilty verdict in the trial of George Zimmerman. “No justice, no peace,” they shout…
By: Shanelle Matthews / July 16, 2013

The Soapbox: Tumblr Can’t Save Us From The “Pornpocalypse”

Last month, Blogger sent an email to any blogs flagged as having "adult content," informing them that they had only four days to remove all adult advertisements on their blog or face deletion. My Twitter feed exploded with sex writers trying to figure out what exactly Blogger considered “adult” in both their…
By: Molly Ren / July 15, 2013

The Soapbox: Feminism Deserves Better Than “Sex-Negative Vs. Sex-Positive”

As a feminist, kinky person and sex commentator, I am the target audience for Jillian Horowitz’s xoJane essay "I’m a Sex-Negative Feminist" — and that’s exactly the point. Part of the site’s "Unpopular Opinion" series, I can only surmise that the essay, like others before…
By: Rachel Kramer Bussel / July 11, 2013

The Soapbox: Why Men Need Abortion As Much As Women Do

Liberal guys like me are often kind of squeamish when it comes to talking about abortion. I mean, we support it. We describe ourselves as pro-choice. We share the ridiculous things that asshole Republicans say on Facebook. (Did you hear the one about the masturbating fetus…?) If we’re straight, and we maybe decide…
By: Dan Solomon / June 19, 2013

The Soapbox: Hey “Dr. Who,” It’s Time For A Time Lady

On June 1, actor Matt Smith, star of cult TV favorite “Doctor Who,” announced he would be leaving the show at the end of December. This declaration sent shockwaves through the nerd-o-sphere and left everyone asking the question, “Who will be the next Doctor?” As a result, the Internet has been flooded with heated debate…
By: Lauren Hunter / June 7, 2013

The Soapbox: In Defense Of The Crotch Selfie

This piece originally appeared on Role/Reboot. Republished here with permission. Warning: Some parts of this article, and individual hyperlinks, are explicit, and may be considered NSFW. There’s a lot of pressure to have a good vagina. Rapper Missy Elliott’s mysterious “Pussycat” is a ballad from a woman to her…
By: Melissa Tapper Goldman / June 4, 2013

The Soapbox: What Do Rape Jokes Make Rapists Think?

The Internet Rape Joke Wars have been waged, on and off, since at least last year, when comedian Daniel Tosh responded to a woman who had challenged him during his set about the number of rape jokes he wa…
By: Dan Solomon / June 3, 2013

The Soapbox: Where Are The Pubes On “Game Of Thrones”?

If you watch HBO’s tit-laden nigh-incoherent castle-intrigue juggernaut "Game of Thrones "(or as I like to call it, “The Peter Dinklage Show”) you’ll remember that a couple weeks ago there was an episode with a scene involving two prostitutes. HAHA, JUST KIDDING, THAT’S EVERY EPISODE. That doesn’t help distinguish them at all. Anyway, just trust…
By: Lesley Kinzel / May 31, 2013

The Soapbox: On Black Women, Exercise And Our Hair

One day in college, during track practice, I wore a bandanna to my work out. I was having a spectacularly bad hair day and that thin piece of printed cloth made me feel safe from criticism. My coach, who was a hard ass, wasn’t having it and ordered me to take it off immediately. I…
By: Shanelle Matthews / May 29, 2013

The Soapbox: I’m Sick Of Being Told I “Must Accept” My Body

I do not like my nose. Although I no longer hate it with the same gusto I did at 15, I still do not accept it. I do not like my thighs; they’re huge and riddled with stretch marks thanks to a growth spurt at 12, and my stomach refuses to be flat – but…
By: Amanda Chatel / May 28, 2013

The Soapbox: How My Old School Dad Raised Me To Be A New School Feminist

This piece is crossposted with permission from Role/Reboot. My dad grew up a poor boy from a small fishing village, just minutes away from the site of Shakespeare’s "Othello." He spent his childhood playing along the walls of the great Venetian fortress. His village dates back to antiquity, his childhood colonialism, and…
By: Katerina Zacharia / May 24, 2013

The Soapbox: How To Talk To Girls

Dear Gentlemen Of The World: Hello. My name is Sara Benincasa. Pleased to meet you. I'm an author and a comedian and a human with a vagina, otherwise known as a "lady-person." I'm about to school you in exactly how to tell a stranger lady that she is great. I'm also going to teach you…
By: Sara Benincasa / May 20, 2013

The Soapbox: It’s Not Just That I Don’t Want Kids, It’s Also That I Don’t Like Them

Last week, I was in a conversation on Facebook in which I admitted to not liking kids. (My comment: “Real talk: I don't actually like babies, actually, or children.”) I thought about taking it down as soon as I posted it. An hour later, I was still thinking about taking it down. No one paid…
By: Chanel Dubofsky / May 16, 2013

The Soapbox: I Don’t Want Your Yellow Fever

As a kid, I was used to standing out for lots of reasons, like my "Star Wars" obsession or the black eyeliner and vampire chic that made up my high school wardrobe. I never expected my race to be one of those reasons. I grew up as an Asian-American among Asian-Americans, so I certainly wasn’t…
By: Kelly Kanayama / May 10, 2013

The Soapbox: On Women Hating “Game Of Thrones”

"Game of Thrones" is one of my favorite shows on TV, not just right now, but of all time. I must be some kind of magical unicorn, because by virtue of the fact that I have a vagina -- I literally just double-checked and, yep, still packing lady parts -- I am supposed…
By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / May 8, 2013

The Soapbox: I’m Short, But That Doesn’t Mean You Can Treat Me Like A Child

I have a specific problem when it comes to dating. I mean, I have many problems (I'm attracted to unavailable guys, ranging from gay men to to fictional characters), but there's one that has significantly affected me. I'm short. I'm 4'11''. I've been this size since I was about 12 years old. So, NO, to…
By: Mallory Schlossberg / May 6, 2013

The Soapbox: You Are Not A Good Guy

"It's unfortunate because he's a great guy, he just has stupid advisors around him." This is Reebok CEO Uli Becker, as tweeted by Footwear News, speaking about the rapper Rick Ross. Amongst Ross' "great guy" credentials? Rapping in a song by Rocko the following lyrics about drugging and raping…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 3, 2013
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