swingers

Celebs

According to The National Enquirer, Rachael Ray’s husband, John Cusimano, is a regular patron of an exclusive, members-only NYC swingers club called Checkmate. What a great name, by the way. But back to their marriage. Cusimano was allegedly a member at Checkmate since before he married Ray seven years ago. Sources say he’s been spotted at… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

My husband casually mentioned some people he knows at work who are swingers. He brought it up matter-of-factly, but I detected a note of serious interest! Could my husband actually be suggesting we become swingers!? What do I make of this!? Read more … … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

I stiffen as I enter the party, taking it all in. Moms (not MILFS) mill around in pastel lingerie. Nude men pass by, penises bobbing beneath their beer bellies. A DJ to my left plays Kid Rock’s “Cowboy.”

On the spiral staircase, someone’s legs spread in the air and a man stands, humping… READ MORE »


Celebs

We were already wary of Snooki’s new boyfriend, Jeff Miranda, since the “Jersey Shore” castmates and even his “friends” think he’s a fame whore. But now it’s come out that he used to promote for a private swingers club! Apparently, Miranda got off on going to the X-rated events. A source says, “Jeff loved these… READ MORE »


Guys

Just kidding! Guys like this on the prowl make me wish I was married with 19 children living under a rock. Ew. Sir, you give vacation sex and speedos a bad name. [Dangerous Minds] … READ MORE »


Love & Sex

I don’t know a whole lot about the wild world of swingers, but I’m thinking that Lyn and Linda from upstate South Carolina (is that a real geographical location?) aren’t getting too much action from their personal video ad. These good-looking swingers with fashionable feathered hair are looking for fun, friendly people willing to… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

When I first set out to write about swinging for an article about the lifestyle, the last thing I expected was to find myself nodding when a slim, curly-haired brunette asks if she may take off my panties. It’s a windy Friday night and I’m in a cozy, apartment-style swing club in Midtown Manhattan, my… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

If you’re thinking of taking a swing at it, being prepared is key if you don’t want your first time at a sex club to be your last.

Establish Ground Rules. Before stepping foot in a club — especially if you’re going with a significant other — know your limits. A few weeks… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

“My boyfriend wants to start swinging. He says it has been something he’s wanted to do for a long time. It has nothing to do with being bored with our sex life, but he feels it could add a new dimension to the way we have sex and love each other. I trust him andREAD MORE »


News

Fans of The Dark Knight, which made an estimated $155.3 million in its opening weekend, are just as insane as the Joker. [Candy Kirby]
Writer Erin Mantz steps into the world of a suburban swingers club, to do research, of course. [Tango]
Sure, spreading office gossip may feel therapeutic at first, but the guilt can… READ MORE »


Celebs

Couples in Hollywood seem to have a 99% divorce rate. But it’s those rare few who can keep it together. Like Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith. How do they do it? According to MSN, the prince says he can get fresh with whomever he wants, so long as he doesn’t rub it in Jada’s face… READ MORE »


News

Muffin Top: Why yes, there IS such a thing as too small! [College Candy]
A domestic violence activist was killed by her ex-boyfriend this weekend. [Feministing]
Important questions to ask in a relationship, without sounding like a psycho. [Boinkology]
How not to become a desperate housewife. [Guardian U.K.]
A teenage sex change. [Tango]
Five common… READ MORE »


News

One of the upcoming shows getting lots of buzz is Swingtown on CBS — I don’t think it has an official release date yet, but I’m psyched. The show centers around couples in the 1970’s who are into swinging — i.e. partner swapping. How did a show like this end up on CBS? READ MORE »


Love & Sex

Figuring out whether or not you’re a swinger doesn’t seem like it would be all that difficult. There’s not really any gray area: Either you are, or you aren’t. So if you find yourself relating to a few of the “100 Signs You May Be a Swinger” but don’t consider yourself a swinger, there can… READ MORE »