Posts tagged "spanking"

5 Essential (And Naughty!) BDSM Tips For Beginners

When I first became interested in sex, or sex with people other than myself I should say, I was immediately turned on by the world of BDSM, albeit, at an early age. There was something illicit and natural about the kinkiness that it didn't take much for me to warm up to it. Back then,…

By: Kristin Collins Jackson / March 3, 2015

Frisky Q&A: Joanna Angel Talks About The Evolution Of BDSM, Safe Words & Her New Sex Toy Line

Joanna Angel is the queen of alt pornography. With hot pink streaks through her raven hair and a petite frame adorned with colorful tattoos, the Brooklyn native “punk princess” of porn created her production company, Burning Angel, shortly after graduating from Rutgers University with degrees in literature and film. This time of year, Joanna i…

By: Sophie Saint Thomas / January 23, 2015

Miley Cyrus In Trouble For Getting Spanked Onstage With The Mexican Flag

Oh Miley, just stop.  The pop princess is in trouble with the Mexican government after she got spanked onstage with a Mexican flag while twerking in a comically large prosthetic butt. (Which, in and of itself, is UGHHH.) The incident occurred in Monterray, Mexico on Tuesday night and officials are investigating possible desecration of the…

By: Jessica Wakeman / September 18, 2014

Anne Rice’s BDSM Erotica Trilogy Sleeping Beauty Heads To TV!

Your TiVo queue just got unbelievably hotter: a BDSM erotica trilogy by Anne Rice, under the pen name A.N. Roquelaur, is headed to TV. The popular books, The Claiming Of Sleeping Beauty, Beauty's Punishment and Beauty's Release, will be adapted into a TV series for the channel Televisa USA. Your mom bought these compulsively readable…

By: Jessica Wakeman / September 15, 2014

Funny Girl Sex Guide: What Women Want In Bed But Might Be Afraid To Ask For

These days, I may be the queen of TMI, but I wasn’t always so comfortable talking about sex, let alone asking for what I wanted in bed. In the last few years, I’ve been a lot more openminded and in the process learned which kinky activities get me off — but asking for them? Sometime…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 17, 2014

New Spanking Law Would Make It Legal For Parents To Leave Kids Black And Blue

Right now, child protection laws in Kansas only allow spankings that don't leave marks. Democratic State Rep Gail Finney has proposed a bill that would legalize 10 types of hand spankings and smacks to use while punishing your child. Parents can also give permission to others to spank their children. Read more on The Stir...

By: The Stir / February 21, 2014

How To: Spank And Get Spanked

It's tricky to find out how many people are doing it, but you don't have to look further than pop culture to see we've got spanks on the brain: paddlings make appearances everywhere from old episodes of "I Love Lucy," to the 2004 flick "Along Came Polly," to Broadway's hit show "Spring Awakening." The posterior…

By: YourTango.com / January 18, 2014

Ranking Cosmopolitan‘s “12 Kinky Quickies” Sex Moves On A Scale Of 1 – 4 Handcuffs

Couples who engage in kink in the bedroom are happier and more secure in their relationships, according to a study cited in the October issue of Cosmopolitan. Girl, you don't have to tell me this! BDSM sex, when it is safe, sane and consensual, is pretty amazing for all partners. But hold up for a…

By: Jessica Wakeman / September 20, 2013

Wacko App Allows You To Measure How Hard You Spank Someone With Your Phone

Yes, with your phone. Because who doesn't want to explain to the gal at the Android store that you cracked your screen whacking someone on the ass so you could measure the intensity of a spanking? A $1 app called Spanking Meter— which "doesn't support violence against mobile phones, tablets or women," mind you —…

By: Jessica Wakeman / June 5, 2013

True Story: I Worked As A High-End Stripper

"What do you feel about going topless?" he asked me over the phone. I hesitantly replied, "Well, I guess I’m okay with it. But will they be able to touch my boobs?" There was an awkward pause on the other end of the line. "Yes, but you’ll never have to do anything more. I promise."…

By: Anonymous / April 2, 2013

6 Ways The New York Times (Of All Places) Got It Right About Kinky Sex

The New York Times Style section has gotten the memo: 50 Shades Of Grey is a book the ladies be readin'. Cue interviews with various and sundry New Yorkers who are involved in the kink scene, from sexual submissives to fire players. Actually, this article was written by a friend of mine named

By: Jessica Wakeman / February 28, 2013

What Your Sexual Fantasy Says About You

Maybe you're planning to try something special, sexually speaking, this Valentine's Day. Or maybe you're a human being and you have sexual fantasies year-round and not just on February 14th. Yes, that sounds more accurate. The fact is no matter what day of the year, most of us have recurring themes in our erotic imaginations.

By: Ami Angelowicz & Winona Dimeo-Ediger / February 13, 2013

9 Sex Toys To Try This Valentine’s Day

We all know from Cupid and Hallmark and Victoria's Secret that Valentine's Day is supposed to be the sexiest, sultriest, panty-droppingest day in existence. We also know that's not actually going to happen. But you can try, can't you? Your partner probably isn't going to turn into Christian/Christina Grey for the night. But that doesn't mean you…

By: Jessica Wakeman / February 7, 2013

Fetishes 101: All The Basics About Having A Sexual Fetish Or Paraphilia

"I have a shopping fetish!" "I have a total fetish for caramel-covered popcorn — it's my favorite snack!" "She watches the Kardashians' shows because she has a weird Kim fetish. She's wants to dress like her so badly." You've probably heard a comment like this at least once a week your entire life. These sorts of

By: Jessica Wakeman / January 18, 2013

Modern Love Tackles One Woman’s Spanking Fetish

The New York Times Style section usually emits more groans from me than cheers. Remember that piece about how bangs are "in"? And how women wear dresses? So I was ecstatic this week to see the Modern Love essay is by Jillian Keenan, a woman with a spanking fetish who is struggling to come out…

By: Jessica Wakeman / November 9, 2012

Nun Spanking On “American Horror Story: Asylum”!

So, "American Horror Story" came back last night for season two, "Asylum," and I have A Lot Of Feelings about it. (SPOILERS, obviously): Queen Jessica Lange was divine, of course, and I loved the lesbian and interracial marriage subplots. But while the first season was creepy and even messed with you psychologically at times, thi…

By: Jessica Wakeman / October 18, 2012

15-Year-Old Texas Girl Spanked By Vice Principal For Cheating

A mother in Texas is livid: not that her 15-year-old daughter was paddled at school for cheating on a test — both mom and daughter actually approved the punishment — but that she was spanked by a male vice principal. Taylor Santos, 15, a sophomore at Springtown High School Texas,  allegedly let another student copy her…

By: Jessica Wakeman / September 24, 2012

First Time For Everything: A Spanking Party

"Call me in one hour and tell me your boyfriend dumped you," I told my girl friend as we stood outside the movie theater where we had just seen "Magic Mike." "If the party's weird and I want to leave, I'll say 'Oh my God, are you okay? I'll come meet you!' Got it?" "Sure…

By: Jessica Wakeman / July 3, 2012

Japanese Butt Robot Proves Her Creator Is An Ass Man

Meet SHIRI, the Japanese butt robot. She's legless and headless, but seems to enjoy a sensual massage to the silicon skin covering her posterior. Like a human woman, her artificial muscles can react to being spanked, caressed and groped. As this video helpfully notes, "The user may also feel SHIRI bracing after feeling a sla…

By: Jessica Wakeman / May 13, 2012

Now You Can Learn Spanking, Kink In Actual “50 Shades Of Grey” Classes

One NYC-branch of sex shop Toys In Babeland is (wisely) capitalizing on the new "mommy porn" 50 Shades Of Grey craze with cocktail party classes teaching Kinky Sex 101. The open-to-the-public classes will be free; the first 25 kinkster guests will go home with a Christian Grey-approved goody bag: a paddle, necktie, satin bondage kit, edible…

By: Jessica Wakeman / April 20, 2012
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