Posts tagged "sexpert"

The Nookie Know-It-All: Curious About Nymphomania

"What is the technical definition of a sex addict?" -- Potential Nympho, via email The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” Translated, that means that a sex addict is not…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 23, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Grossed Out By Oral

"I hate giving blow jobs, but my boyfriend loves them. How can we compromise?" -- Not Into Head, via email Sssssshhh!!! Are there any boys around you right now?? Did anybody hear you?? I hope for your sake there aren’t, because if that sentiment got around, you might as well have a scarlet letter o…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 21, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Big Lipped Lass

"I have seriously huge labia and I am way concerned that guys will think my vagina is ugly. Am I being ridiculous?" -- Labia Majorly Majora, San Francisco, CA Yes you are! Labia majora (the technical name) vary greatly from woman to woman. No two vaginas are alike…which means there are tons of women out…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 19, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Orgasm Stats

“What percentage of women have an orgasm during intercourse? The stats I've read really seem to vary, with some studies making it seem kind of rare. Is that true?” - Curious About Climaxes, Cleveland, OH General statistics (which vary as much as your orgasms do) show a whopping 75% of women failing to reach orgasm…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 12, 2008

Talk Sex Gets Finished Off

Let’s talk about sex, baby -- one last time. Sue Johanson, the sweetest little grandma with the dirtiest big mouth, hosts the well-loved question and answer program Talk Sex With Sue Johanson on Oxygen. After six seasons, which aired in five languages and in 20 countries, the show is getting a happy ending with thi…

By: Simcha / May 7, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Do All Guys Love Oral?

"Do any guys NOT enjoy oral sex? Do they enjoy it more than actual sex? -- Seeking Sucking Stats, Duck, NC A guy that doesn’t like oral sex is like a monkey not liking bananas. If they ever found one, they’d put it in a museum instead of a zoo. Very few people (girls and…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 23, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: His Pleasure Zoneage!

"What are some hot spots on guys' bodies?" -- Hand Me A Map, Athens, GA I don’t know if you know this, but an area called “the penis” is a definite hot spot on a guy. Usually licking, stroking, or inserting this area makes the guy go CRAZY. Aside from that, there are a few…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 21, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Chronic Diddler

"If I masturbate too much will I be unable to get off when a guy goes down on me?" -- Solo Satisfier, Baltimore, MD Unlike guys, the more a girl masturbates the more likely she is to have an orgasm during sex (intercourse or oral). Masturbating might actually help you achieve an orgasm FASTER. The…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 18, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Lost Orgasm

I've been dating a guy for about a month and a half. Every thing is great -- similar outlooks on life, we share a lot of opinions on things etcetera -- except for one thing. In that time period, during our above average sex life, I've climaxed once. ONCE. His technique is just fine, but

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 16, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Pregnancy Signs

Uh, I think I might be pregnant. What are the earliest signs of pregnancy? How soon after conception will a home pregnancy test work? -- Bun In The Oven?, Burlington, VT The # 1 sign of pregnancy is a missed period. It might sound super obvious, but unless women are on the pill they ca…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 14, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Potty Sex

If you're going to have sex in a public restroom, is it better to use the women's or the men's? -- Lovin' In The Loo, San Jose, CA If you’re at a Minneapolis airport and happen to be a Senator, I highly recommend using neither. But if you aren’t, I think you should ask yourself…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 11, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Morning After Etiquette

Whenever I sleep over at a new guy's place, I am never sure what to do/how to act in the morning. Am I supposed to leave? Am I supposed to stay and pretend to be sleeping? Also, how do I hint to a guy who has slept over that it's time for him to leave?

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 9, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Love Bites

I'm having a problem with hickeys, and I was wondering if you could tell me how to get rid of them—fast. -- Bruisey, Providence, RI Are you dating a 12-year-old? Do people STILL give hickeys? I’ll stop sounding like a grandma…but one more thing: If you want to get rid of them so fast, why…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 7, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Your Sexual Tool Kit

My husband came into the relationship with some fun sex toys, but after awhile, I decided it was a little weird to play with toys someone else had used. Any advice on how to build a sex toy starter kit I can call my own? -- Using Used Goods, Los Angeles, CA After awhile??? So…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 4, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Back Door Business

My boyfriend and I have decided to try anal, but I've heard it's good to sort of 'warm up' first. Are there tricks to getting myself relaxed enough? I've heard porn stars have enemas or stop eating a day before. Do I have to go to all that trouble? What if it comes up more

By: Sexpert Lindsay / April 2, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Going Down

"Is there a secret to being awesome at oral sex? I'm not sure if I'm doing it well, and I'm not about to discuss my technique with my friends." -- Needing Lessons, Santa Fe, NM The real secret to oral sex that nobody ever talks about is that you have to be into it! You…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 31, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Spicing It Up In The Sack

"Lots of things about my relationship are great, but the sex is vanilla — my boyfriend is weirded out by my collection of sex toys, and isn't willing to experiment. What should I do?" -- In Need Of Spice, New Orleans, LA I think this depends on what kind of toys you have. If your…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 28, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: A Magnum Man

"I am dating a new guy and I want to have sex with him, but he's extremely well endowed. If I start having regular sex with him will I stretch my vagina permanently?" -- Dating Mr. Big Unless his penis is the size of a 9 lb. baby, the answer is “no.” Vaginas have a…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 26, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Makin’ A Break

"What's the best way to exit an awkward morning-after?" -- Pullin' The Slip in Akron, OH Planning a hit and run? The best way to get out of dodge is usually the most obvious. Tell your boy-toy you’ve got plans. If it’s a weekday, tell him you’ve got an early work meeting. If it’s a…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 21, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Pregs On The ‘Rod

"Can you really not get preggers if you have sex on the last days of your period?" -- Hating Condoms, Cleveland, OH How many times have you heard an “Oops” story? Every Christmas there’s always that relative that drinks too much eggnog and says something like, “You know, Larry was a mistake. We were done…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 19, 2008