Posts tagged "sexpert"

Dr. Ruth Says Women Can’t Refuse Sex If The Man Has A “Very Aroused, Strong Erection”

Ohhhhh, Dr. Ruth. I know Dr. Ruth Westheimer, at nearly 87, is what we can safely consider a senior citizen and should thus, maybe, be given a pass for having antiquated opinions about sex, gender and consent. But, again, she is Dr. Ruth, sex therapist and author of the forthcoming book, The Doctor Is In: Dr. Ruth on Love, Life,

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 2, 2015

Girl Talk: Dating As A Sex Writer

While watching your partner have sex with another person is common enough to play a vibrant role in swinging and orgies, and to spawn porn parodies like “One Flew Over the Cuckold’s Nest,” in general it’s safe to assume that a conversation regarding your partner’s sexual history rarely ends well. Recalling Amsterdam trips at 19…

By: Sophie Saint Thomas / November 13, 2014

Sex Advice: How Do I Tell My Mom To Let Me Grow Up?

“I am an 18-year old college student. I have been dating an amazing guy who is nine months older than me for over two years. He is also in college, but we go to different universities. We have been having sex since I was 17 and the only problem has been my mother, who has

By: Sexpert Lindsay / October 2, 2008

Sex Advice: What Are The Chances I’ll Get Mono?

“How easy is mono to get from brief sexual contact?” — Curious About The Kissing Disease, via email

Mono, short for mononucleosis, is known as “the kissing disease,” and is easily transmitted through saliva. So unless you’re not making out during sex (who are you, Julia Roberts?), then you’re able to get it through…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / September 24, 2008

Sex Advice: Should I Go On A Sex Hiatus Post-Baby?

“I am a new mother of my fourth child. During the last couple of months of my pregnancy, my husband was uncomfortable having sex with me. I felt rejected, but kind of understood. This led to a good three months of no sex. By the time we DID it, it was awkwardly uncomfortable for me.

By: Sexpert Lindsay / September 4, 2008

“The Joy Of Sex” Gets A Woman’s Touch

The Joy of Sex, the groundbreaking tome of the swinging ’60s and ’70s, changed the way America felt about fornication. Originally written by Alex Comfort, it took on taboos like bondage and was all about harnessing the sexual revolution purely for pleasure. Now, over three decades later, it’s new and improved, this time thanks to…

By: Simcha / August 27, 2008

Sex Advice: My Guy Won’t Stop Talking Dirty!

“Ugh, the guy I have been dating will not shut the hell up during sex! He’s always directing me (“do this…do that”) or giving a play-by-play of every second (‘I love seeing your breasts bounce, blah blah blah’). How do I politely tell him to BE QUIET?” — Wishing I Was Deaf, via email

By: Sexpert Lindsay / August 6, 2008

Fox News Does Kinky Sex

Ah, Fox News. We hardly knew ye! Most Americans know the Fox News Channel as the home of some of this country’s most famously conservative pundits, Bill O’Reilly and Sean Hannity among them — and Roger Ailes, a former Nixon adviser, is the network’s president. But, as it turns out, FOXNews.com aims to take a…

By: Susannah Breslin / August 5, 2008

Sex Advice: Dreaming Of Daniel Craig

Should I be worried that I think about Daniel Craig every time I have sex with my boyfriend? — Boning For Bond, via email

For the most part, fantasies are a healthy part of a sexual relationship. Letting images filter into your mind during sex is natural, and feeling anxiety about them only make…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 30, 2008

Sex Advice: First Time Role-Player

“I want to start role-playing — how do I incorporate that into my regular sex life with my boyfriend since neither one of us has tried it before and want to start slow?” — Acting Up In Bed, via email

I think there’s two kinds of role-playing: theatrical and emotional. For example, the theatrical…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 23, 2008

Sex Advice: My Dude Is Totally Into Internet Porn

“Should I be worried that my boyfriend has been secretly watching Internet porn?” — Dating Mr. Skin Flick, via email

Internet porn for guys is like sex for our parents…they all do it, we just don’t want to think about it (and they don’t like to admit it).

A healthy amount of por…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 16, 2008

Sex Advice: I’m Dating Mr. Not-So-Big

“The guy I’m dating is seriously under-endowed. Is this a total deal-breaker?” — Dick-appointed, via email

Have you had sex already? If you have, then you know the answer better than I do. Just ask yourself this: Was it good?

When women experience orgasms during sex, it usually has nothing to do with…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 9, 2008

Sex Advice: My Girlfriend Has Vaginismus

“My girlfriend has Vaginismus. We have a great relationship and we hook up orally and with hands a good amount. Unfortunately, because of her condition, we can’t have sex because it is really painful for her. Obviously I am never going to push it on her because it is WAY harder for her than it

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 2, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: His Cigs And Your Cervix

“Can a woman get cervical cancer if a smoker routinely goes down on her?” — Paranoid About My Puffer, Houston, TX

There hasn’t been any real medical research to support this claim, but you’re not totally crazy. If I had to take a guess, I’d say having a smoker go down on you i…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 13, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Doin’ The Crimson Wave

“How can my husband and I mess around when I’m on my period? I’m a little squeamish about it, but he doesn’t want to go off sex for a week.” — Flirting With Aunt Flo, Olympia, WA

A tampon isn’t the only thing you can insert when you have your period. In fact,…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 11, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: His G-Spot

“What’s the scoop on the male G-spot?” — Where’s Waldo?, via email

The main difference between the male G-spot and the female G-spot is that one is waaaay easier to find. Wanna guess which one?

If you said male…you’re right. It seems to me that if God were super smart, he would have…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 9, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Anti-Depressants & Libido

“I’m on anti-depressants that have totally killed my libido but have made me feel much better in every other way. Should I consider switching to something different because of the sexual side effects or is there a way to increase my libido without coming off my meds?” — Pill Popper, via email

The sucky…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 6, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Squirting Stats

“What percentage of women ejaculate and why?” — Squirt Alert, via email

Female ejaculation (aka shooting or gushing) has been a topic of discussion for hundreds of years. Even Aristotle pondered about “vaginal expulsions”. Which I THINK begs an even different question: Aristotle was so good in bed he made women gush?

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 4, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Scratch & Sniff

“The skin around my vagina itches a lot. I’ve taken a look and there doesn’t seem to be any rash or visible problems of any sort – what could be the problem?” — Snatch Attack, via email

Most likely you have a yeast infection, especially if you’re experiencing abnormal discharge (white and clumpy). However,…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 2, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: My Boyfriend Has Herpes

“The guy I’m seeing just told me he has herpes – what should I know to keep myself infection free should we decide to have sex?” — Don’t Want This Gift Thanks, via email

Kudos to your guy for telling you early on. I can only imagine how awkward that conversation must be. “Hey,…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 30, 2008
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