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Cynthia Nixon On How Being Gay Is A Choice For Her

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“I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a gay audience, and it included the line ‘I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay and gay is better.’ They tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people, it’s not, but for me, it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me. A certain section of our community is very concerned that it not be seen as a choice, because it doesn’t matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not. … Why can’t it be a choice? Why is that any less legitimate? It seems we’re just ceding this point to bigots who are demanding it, and I don’t think that they should define the terms of the debate. I also feel like people think I was walking around in a cloud and I didn’t realize I was gay, which I find really offensive. I find it offensive to me, but I also find it offensive to all the men I’ve been out with.”

– Cynthia Nixon from “Sex and the City” explained her midlife change to lesbianism in this weekend’s New York Times Magazine. Cynthia had been in a relationship with a man for years, with whom she had two children, and after they split, she got into a relationship with a woman, with whom she has had another child through the help of a sperm donor. I guess I don’t understand why people are so obsessed with putting labels on other people’s sex lives (and yes, I am thinking back to the Girl Talk essay we ran recently about a lesbian who enjoys sex with men). Sexuality is a spectrum and it’s complicated and it’s never going to fit into neat and tidy little boxes; people who obsess about who gets to call themselves what are just wasting everyone’s time. I also love what Cynthia said about not letting other people try to “define my gayness for me.” She’s so smart, strong, kickass and awesome. Cynthia Nixon is the kind of celebrity that you wish celebrities in general were more like. [NY Times Magazine]

Who We Would Cast In “The Carrie Diaries”

Sex and the City 2” shook me free of my Carrie/Samantha/Miranda/Charlotte addiction. These days, I can’t even watch reruns of the show without getting flashbacks to that awful Abu Dhabi market scene. And yet, I’m kind of interested in the prospect of a TV show based on The Carrie Diaries, Candace Bushnell’s prequel to the show. Apparently, The CW is interested in optioning the property, and are gunning for Josh Schwartz and Stephanie Savage—the dream team behind “The O.C.” and “Gossip Girl“—to produce it.

This actually makes a whole lot of sense. The CW specializes in excellent trashtastic high school series. Not to mention that this one would different from “Gossip Girl” since Carrie grew up in suburban Connecticut. And hello, Carrie went to school in the ’80s, so I am picturing lots of neon and lace gloves. Keep reading »

Evening Quickies: Could “The Carrie Diaries” Become A Show On The CW?

  • Forget about a movie: The Carrie Diaries could become a show on the CW. Josh Schwartz and Stephanie Savage, the brains behind “Gossip Girl,” are rumored to be producing the prequel to “Sex & The City”, which introduces us to a 17-year-old Carrie Bradshaw when she lives in the Connecticut suburbs. [Nymag.com]
  • In response to the suicide by “Real Housewives” hubby Russell Armstrong earlier this week, Ice-T tweeted, “Bad joke … But alotta those wives would make me consider it [suicide].” Oof. Too soon, Ice-T. [Gossip Cop]
  • David Cross and Amber Tamblyn are engaged! Now here’s one celeb couple we love to pieces. Mazel tov, you two. [Huffington Post]
  • Hollywood thinks Denise Richards’ memoir, The Real Girl Next Door, might make a good flick. Well, there is certainly a lot of drama. But who could possibly play Charlie Sheen on the big screen? (Don’t you dare say Ashton Kutcher.) [Huffington Post]

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“Sex And The City” Gets The Taiwanese Animation Treatment


So, the Next Media Animation company in Taiwan is known for making low budget, quick-turnaround animations of current events for Taiwanese news shows. They just put together a new video about the planned “Sex and the City” prequel, which is supposedly going to star Blake Lively, Selena Gomez, Emma Roberts and Elizabeth Olsen. Out with the old walker-using Samantha, and in with the new, younger, self-involved versions of themselves! [YouTube] Keep reading »

“Sex And The City” In A Parallel Universe

The trailer for “I Don’t Know How She Does It” begins with a voiceover of Sarah Jessica Parker waxing philosophic about why parents don’t get enough sleep. A few seconds later, she’s at a party with three friends, standing next to a redhead (Christina Hendricks) and across from a brunette and a blonde (Busy Phillips). Later, she walks down a very familiar brownstone-lined street. Add in some lingering shots of Manhattan, and a teaser of her at dinner with a swashbuckling ladies man. In other words, it seems like an alternate universe “Sex and the City” where Carrie got marred earlier and had two kids. What do you think—will you be going to see this one? [Huffington Post] Keep reading »

Quickies: How Much Would Carrie Bradshaw’s Life Cost? And What Are “Jersey Shore Studies”?

  • How much would Carrie Bradshaw’s life cost? A blogger crunched the numbers and those Manolos, Cosmos and condoms add up. [Refinery 29]
  • Hugh Grant was allegedly in “deep negotiations” to replace Charlie Sheen on “Two and a Half Men” but things petered out when Hugh realized he’s so much better than that. [NYMag.com]
  • Speaking of Charlie Sheen, his ex-girlfriend/ex-goddess Bree Olson is posing for Playboy. [The Superficial]
  • Lindsay Lohan has been sentenced to 120 days of home confinement, instead of jail, in addition to her community service. Wonder how that’s going to work. [Celebuzz]

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