Posts tagged "opinion"

The Soapbox: Oh Please, Pinterest Isn’t “Killing” Feminism

My name is Amelia. I am a feminist. I also have a Pinterest account. If a recent lengthy piece on Buzzfeed (wait, Buzzfeed does "lengthy"?) is to be believed, these two things are antithetical. According to Amy Odell, the editor over at Buzzfeed's lifestyle vertical, Shift, Pinterest is "killing feminism." So, as a feminist who…
By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / October 2, 2012

The Soapbox: Some Friendly Advice For That 22-Year-Old Girl Who Wishes She Was Poorer

Some thoughts for Taylor Cotter (the 22-year-old girl who wrote about wishing she could be poorer on the Huffington Post): Right now things kinda suck. I know. You wrote an oblivious-sounding piece about how you kind of wished you were getting the chance to be poor and scrappy in your 20s, like artistic people…
By: Kate Fridkis / July 16, 2012

The Soapbox: On School Dress Codes And Slutty Wednesday At Stuyvesant High School

By now you’ve probably heard of the prestigious New York City high school that protested what they perceive as a discriminatory dress code by instituting a “Slutty Wednesday”—a day in which students came to school in outfits that deliberately violated the code. According to news reports, the school’s dress code is pretty basic. It require…
By: Melissa Petro / June 12, 2012

The Soapbox: Leave Lolo Jones And Her Virginity Alone!

I have to respectfully disagree with Alexandra Gekas' recent Soapbox excoriating Olympic hurdler Lolo Jones for considering her virginity "a gift I want to give my husband." Taking Jones to task for how she's decided to pursue her sexuality strikes me as yet another way to be holier-than-thou, through a feminist lens, almost the…
By: Rachel Kramer Bussel / June 1, 2012

The Soapbox: Why Lolo Jones’ Reason For Staying A Virgin Infuriates Me

In a recent interview on HBO’s “Real Sports with Bryant Gumbel,” 29-year-old American hurdler Lolo Jones told Mary Carillo that Olympic qualifying is nowhere near as difficult as her struggle to remain a virgin until marriage. Jones said she publicized her vow of chastity because she wants other girls who have made the same decisio…
By: Alexandra Gekas / May 29, 2012

The Soapbox: Fashion Policing Can Be Brutal

A note about this piece: The Frisky obviously regularly features our own brand of celebrity fashion policing (The Good, The Bad & The WTF, generally). When Sally, who regularly writes for us, pitched me this topic, I thought she had a valid point, one that many share and that she would argue well. Having her…
By: Sally McGraw / November 22, 2011

Does Everyone Really “Deserve” Love And Happiness?

The other day, I posted a letter in my "Dear Wendy" column from a young woman who said she couldn't understand why she didn't have a boyfriend despite being very pretty. She went on to admit that she has very little to say in social settings, has begun resenting her friends in relationships because…
By: Wendy Atterberry / September 13, 2010