not the one

Guys

The only really positive thing about still being in the dating game in my 30s is that I spend a lot less time wasting my time. After all these years of dating Mr. Wrongs, I can immediately spot the signs that I am going to have to send him back into the sea for some… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

In the latest issue of Glamour, there’s this really interesting feature called “How I Knew” which features short little essays by men on “how they knew” certain things: “How I Knew I Really Would Marry Her,” “How I Knew I Was Going To Cheat,” etc. My favorite of the bunch was “How I Knew She… READ MORE »


Love & Sex

OK, first of all, let me make it clear that I don’t believe in the concept of “the one.” I think each of us has more like the “top 40″ or even “winning 100,” depending on how much ground you cover. But even in a world brimming with possibilities, at some point in our lives… READ MORE »