Posts tagged "nookie know-it-all"

Sex Advice: How Do I Tell My Mom To Let Me Grow Up?

"I am an 18-year old college student. I have been dating an amazing guy who is nine months older than me for over two years. He is also in college, but we go to different universities. We have been having sex since I was 17 and the only problem has been my mother, who has

By: Sexpert Lindsay / October 2, 2008

Sex Advice: What Are The Chances I’ll Get Mono?

"How easy is mono to get from brief sexual contact?" -- Curious About The Kissing Disease, via email Mono, short for mononucleosis, is known as “the kissing disease,” and is easily transmitted through saliva. So unless you're not making out during sex (who are you, Julia Roberts?), then you're able to get it through sexual…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / September 24, 2008

Sex Advice: Two Women Wonder About Doing The Uncircumcised

"My boyfriend is uncircumcised and super sensitive when I give him oral. I do enjoy giving head most of the time and I've honestly never received any complaints from previous boyfriends. However, I just haven't found quite the right maneuver that completely blows his mind (no pun intended). Do you have any suggestions?" -- In

By: Sexpert Lindsay / September 17, 2008

Sex Advice: Should I Go On A Sex Hiatus Post-Baby?

"I am a new mother of my fourth child. During the last couple of months of my pregnancy, my husband was uncomfortable having sex with me. I felt rejected, but kind of understood. This led to a good three months of no sex. By the time we DID it, it was awkwardly uncomfortable for me.

By: Sexpert Lindsay / September 4, 2008

Sex Advice: My Guy Won’t Stop Talking Dirty!

"Ugh, the guy I have been dating will not shut the hell up during sex! He's always directing me ("do this…do that") or giving a play-by-play of every second ('I love seeing your breasts bounce, blah blah blah'). How do I politely tell him to BE QUIET?" -- Wishing I Was Deaf, via email Ugh…that…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / August 6, 2008

Sex Advice: Dreaming Of Daniel Craig

Should I be worried that I think about Daniel Craig every time I have sex with my boyfriend? -- Boning For Bond, via email For the most part, fantasies are a healthy part of a sexual relationship. Letting images filter into your mind during sex is natural, and feeling anxiety about them only makes sex…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 30, 2008

Sex Advice: First Time Role-Player

"I want to start role-playing -- how do I incorporate that into my regular sex life with my boyfriend since neither one of us has tried it before and want to start slow?" -- Acting Up In Bed, via email I think there’s two kinds of role-playing: theatrical and emotional. For example, the theatrical would…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 23, 2008

Sex Advice: My Dude Is Totally Into Internet Porn

"Should I be worried that my boyfriend has been secretly watching Internet porn?" -- Dating Mr. Skin Flick, via email Internet porn for guys is like sex for our parents…they all do it, we just don’t want to think about it (and they don’t like to admit it). A healthy amount of porn for guy…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 16, 2008

Sex Advice: I’m Dating Mr. Not-So-Big

"The guy I'm dating is seriously under-endowed. Is this a total deal-breaker?" -- Dick-appointed, via email Have you had sex already? If you have, then you know the answer better than I do. Just ask yourself this: Was it good? When women experience orgasms during sex, it usually has nothing to do with how far…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 9, 2008

Sex Advice: My Girlfriend Has Vaginismus

"My girlfriend has Vaginismus. We have a great relationship and we hook up orally and with hands a good amount. Unfortunately, because of her condition, we can't have sex because it is really painful for her. Obviously I am never going to push it on her because it is WAY harder for her than it

By: Sexpert Lindsay / July 2, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: His Cigs And Your Cervix

"Can a woman get cervical cancer if a smoker routinely goes down on her?" -- Paranoid About My Puffer, Houston, TX There hasn’t been any real medical research to support this claim, but you’re not totally crazy. If I had to take a guess, I’d say having a smoker go down on you is like…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 13, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Doin’ The Crimson Wave

"How can my husband and I mess around when I'm on my period? I'm a little squeamish about it, but he doesn't want to go off sex for a week." -- Flirting With Aunt Flo, Olympia, WA A tampon isn’t the only thing you can insert when you have your period. In fact, sex while…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 11, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: His G-Spot

"What's the scoop on the male G-spot?" -- Where's Waldo?, via email The main difference between the male G-spot and the female G-spot is that one is waaaay easier to find. Wanna guess which one? If you said male…you’re right. It seems to me that if God were super smart, he would have reversed that.

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 9, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Anti-Depressants & Libido

"I'm on anti-depressants that have totally killed my libido but have made me feel much better in every other way. Should I consider switching to something different because of the sexual side effects or is there a way to increase my libido without coming off my meds?" -- Pill Popper, via email The sucky thing…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 6, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Squirting Stats

"What percentage of women ejaculate and why?" -- Squirt Alert, via email Female ejaculation (aka shooting or gushing) has been a topic of discussion for hundreds of years. Even Aristotle pondered about “vaginal expulsions”. Which I THINK begs an even different question: Aristotle was so good in bed he made women gush?

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 4, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Scratch & Sniff

"The skin around my vagina itches a lot. I've taken a look and there doesn't seem to be any rash or visible problems of any sort – what could be the problem?" -- Snatch Attack, via email Most likely you have a yeast infection, especially if you're experiencing abnormal discharge (white and clumpy). However, a…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / June 2, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: My Boyfriend Has Herpes

"The guy I'm seeing just told me he has herpes – what should I know to keep myself infection free should we decide to have sex?" -- Don't Want This Gift Thanks, via email Kudos to your guy for telling you early on. I can only imagine how awkward that conversation must be. "Hey, ca…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 30, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Low Tide For The Crimson Wave

"I've heard about the various birth control pills that you can take to go without your period for a few months and longer. Are they really safe and recommended?" -- Banning Aunt Flo, via email Have you seen that SNL skit (clip after the jump!), where the women are going ape sh*t because they haven't…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 28, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Curious About Nymphomania

"What is the technical definition of a sex addict?" -- Potential Nympho, via email The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” Translated, that means that a sex addict is not…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 23, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Grossed Out By Oral

"I hate giving blow jobs, but my boyfriend loves them. How can we compromise?" -- Not Into Head, via email Sssssshhh!!! Are there any boys around you right now?? Did anybody hear you?? I hope for your sake there aren’t, because if that sentiment got around, you might as well have a scarlet letter o…

By: Sexpert Lindsay / May 21, 2008
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