Yesterday I was idly reading the comments on one of my posts on The Frisky when a partner link caught my eye: “7 Things You Shouldn’t Tell Your Boyfriend.” Shouldn’t tell your boyfriend? I thought. I always told my boyfriend everything. Like, EVERYTHING. He knew about my bouts with depression. He knew about my brother’s struggles with drug addiction and alcoholism. He knew about how much I owe in student loans. He knew about my spanking fetish. He knew about my desire for dominant/submissive sex. He knew about the May-December romance I had with a 37-year-old man when I was 22. He knew when I farted and burped and had the flu. He knew what I looked like in sweatpants, in no makeup, and in sweatpants and no makeup. During the two years that we dated, he was my best friend Why wouldn’t he know these things?
Then a light went off in my head. I picked up my cell phone and dialed Amelia. “Do you think the reason our relationships didn’t work out is because our partners were our best friends first, instead of our lovers?” I asked. “Do you think we didn’t keep the romance alive?” Keep reading »
Of all the aspects that were difficult about my recent breakup from my boyfriend of two years, the hardest was moving out of the apartment that we shared together. You can verbally say all kinds of things: we’re broken up, we’re on a break, we’re seeing other people, whatever. Those words might change from day to day. But pulling your sundresses off the closet hangers feels final. Same goes for taking your face wash out of the shower. I built a life, a relationship, with someone and then all of a sudden, it was just my things in an apartment that was now his. Keep reading »
Last week I told you about 20 things couples should do before they move in together. Hopefully, you’re clear on what needs to be done before you move in with your sweetie, but you may still be confused about what changes need to happen once you start sharing an address and merging your lives a little more intimately. Let me help clarify things for you. After the jump, 20 things couples should stop doing once they move in together (if they haven’t already). Keep reading »
Whether you’re getting hitched or embracing the modern tradition of premarital cohabitation, moving in with your significant other is a big deal. From fighting for the covers every night to waking up with the person you love each morning, this new chapter in your life may be rife with happy moments and potential conflicts. While there’s no foolproof plan for avoiding relationship complications after you move in together, following these tips will help make the transition that much easier. Keep reading »
Just a year and five months after being caught smooching on camera in a hotel and subsequently denying that they were having an affair, Eddie Cibrian and LeAnn Rimes are shacking up together. Eddie and his two sons will be moving into LeAnn’s house, which is in a gated community in Los Angeles. And reports make it sound oh-so-romantic. A source tells People that the move is happening because Eddie’s lease is up and clarifies that it won’t be “an overnight thing,” but will happen slowly over a month. Another source tells E! Online, “Eddie and the kids are moving in with Leann to save money since Eddie lost his ‘CSI’ job. Mason is moving into the dog’s old room, and Jake is moving into LeAnn’s office.” Wait, the dog used to have a whole room? [People, PopEater]
Today, LeAnn confirmed the news on Twitter. “@peoplemag got it right! Thx for fairly and honestly reporting private, but happy news!” she said.
We do actually wish these two the best. But moving in is a big deal, especially when kids are involved. So, after the jump, some unsolicited advice. Keep reading »