This weekend, we posted an excerpt from a YourTango piece called “How To Tell If A Guy Likes You,” written by Evan Mark Katz, a self-proclaimed “dating coach” for “smart, strong, successful women.” The thesis of his piece — which he advocates in his book, Why He Disappeared — is that women would have much more success in dating and love if they practiced “mirroring.”
Basically, it means you don’t do anything unless he does it first. You don’t call. You don’t text. You don’t make plans. If he doesn’t make an effort, that just means he’s not very motivated to be your partner. Case closed.