I have a few friends who cannot make it anywhere on time. We’re all busy and yet, I still manage to make it to places on time. What can I do to make them show up?
As someone who was awarded the “most punctual” award in eighth grade, I totally feel your pain. I’m of the mindset that if you’re on-time, you’re already five minutes late. Unfortunately, not everyone holds that tenet dear.
Before we get to how to address your friends, let’s make sure we’re on the same page for a second, because “being late” means different things to different people. We can all agree that five minutes late is annoying, but understandable. Thirty minutes late is irritating, but as long as your friends give you the courtesy of letting you know that they’re running behind, you can catch up on social media on your phone or have a beer until they show up. Anything over an hour late is inexcusable unless a life and death situation is involved. Like, they better be sprinting to meet you with a crazy story involving $100,000, a tub of chocolate pudding and Ryan Gosling’s erect penis if they’re gonna pull that shit. Keep reading »