Posts tagged "life advice"

Make It Stop: “My Twin Brother & I Took Separate Paths In Life — But He Still Resents Me For It”

Make It Stop is a weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least…
By: Anna Goldfarb / January 6, 2015

Make It Stop: “My Dude Is Having A Rough Time And I Want To Encourage Him — But Without Sounding Like His Mommy”

The dude in my life is going through a rough time -- career-wise, financially, etc. -- and I think it's starting to impact his sense of, like, manliness. I'm a super nurturing person and I really want to encourage him to keep at it and basically tell him I'm proud of him, but I know…
By: Anna Goldfarb / December 26, 2014

Make It Work: How To Tackle The Job Search Without Losing Your Shit

Losing your job sucks. There’s no two ways around it. It’s a really shitty feeling to go into work one Wednesday, sit down at your desk, answer three emails and then be summarily dismissed. Regardless of whether you were fired or let go, it still stings. After you leave the office for the last time,…
By: Megan Reynolds / December 15, 2014

Make It Stop: “My Best Friend Won’t STFU About Her New Boyfriend”

My best friend is in a new relationship. I’m really happy for her, but it seems like she ONLY wants to gab about this new fella, who I’ll call Louis. We talk about Louis for—I’m not kidding—hours on end. She doesn’t even ask about how my day’s going, she just talks endlessly about this guy:…
By: Anna Goldfarb / December 12, 2014

Make It Work: How To Quit Your Job

There comes a time in everyone’s career when you will quit your job. You will stand in your boss’s doorway, cock your head and say, “Do you have sec?” You will quietly shut the door. You will sit down in that weird chair reserved for guests and your boss’s jacket, palms sweating, and tell him…
By: Megan Reynolds / December 8, 2014

Make It Stop: “An Old (Married!) Friend From High School Is Putting The Moves On Me On Social Media”

I'm in a happy, committed relationship. I just reconnected with a friend from high school who has a spouse and a daughter, and although it was fun to hang out, immediately after we did so, he started flirting with me and talking about how he had feelings for me in high school. It's clear that…
By: Anna Goldfarb / October 24, 2014

Thinking About Quitting Your Job? Follow Karlie Hustle’s Advice!

I'm not thinking about quitting my job, but if I was, I would follow Karlie Hustle's advice to the letter. Hustle recently quit her job at New York City's Hot 97 radio station -- you may recognize her from the VH1 reality show…
By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / October 19, 2014

Make It Stop: “All The Guys I Date End Up Being Really Self-Absorbed”

I’m 31 and live in Brooklyn. My problem: I keep attracting perfectly nice, smart, but utterly self-absorbed men. I'm a giver and a nurturer. I like listening to other people talk about their problems/interests/days/whatever. I like offering advice and think I'm good at it. I truly am happy to show my partners that I l…
By: Anna Goldfarb / October 9, 2014

Make It Stop: “My BFF Won’t Stop Competing With Me And Copying Everything I Do!”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at…
By: Anna Goldfarb / October 2, 2014

10 Tips For College Ladies (From A Recent College Grad)

Life would be so much better if we could have a yearly chat with our past, present and future selves, where we share pressing details about the future and give ourselves necessary advice. Sadly, that is not the case and we often go through new, life-changing experiences -- like college -- with little help or…
By: Tiffanie Drayton / September 9, 2014

4 Essential Travel Tips For The Chronically Anxious

So if we’re not all clear on the fact that I deal with sometimes-crippling anxiety as a result of PTSD yet, let’s just put that out there now. I tried to cure it by going on a big adventure, thereby exposing myself to constant emotional stimulation/isolation and it turned out to be an unsuccessful…
By: Rebecca Vipond Brink / August 8, 2014

How To Ignore The Relentless Flow Of Sexist BS So You Don’t Live In Constant Rage

As you all know, the Supreme Court of what is apparently a democratic republic founded on the principle of individual liberty and respect for the diversity of humanity decided this week that women aren’t included in that vision because $$$ > women OBVIOUSLY. Thanks, capitalism! I’ve noticed that a lot of you guys are upset…
By: Rebecca Vipond Brink / July 3, 2014

Winona Forever: There Will Only Ever Be One Winona Dimeo-Ediger

It literally almost hurts to type this: today is our dear, sweet, funny, weird, hilarious Winona's last day. I know. I KNOW. After nearly four years at The Frisky (first as a part-time blogger and then as a full-time staff member), Winona is following that amazing spirit of hers and embarking on a new adventure,…
By: The Frisky / July 2, 2014

10 Life-Changing Cleaning & Organizing Tips For People With ADD

For pretty much my whole life, I've been a huge slob. We're talking gigantic piles of clothes on the floor, dirty dishes all over the house, disgusting bathroom, "What is a duster and how do you use it?" levels of slobbery. I have ADD, and I always found it nearly impossible to focus long enough…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / July 1, 2014

4 Ways To Stay Positive When Shit Happens

I’ve had my share of unfortunate incidents. There was the time I visited a friend in Boston and within six hours was hospitalized with a stomach virus. Another time, while out dancing with friends, my hand collided with someone’s glass, shattering it and tearing my hand open.  The day before my summer internship in New…
By: Sophie Leon / June 29, 2014

Girl Talk: Seriously, Listen To Yourself

A few weeks before my wedding, I was in the dinnerware section of Macy’s with my friend Sam. I was talking about all the things that were wrong with my relationship, and she asked me, “Are you sure you want to do this?”  My response: “At this point, I’ve put so much effort into thi…
By: Rebecca Vipond Brink / June 27, 2014

The Pros & Cons Of Different Travel Partners

I believe that traveling is always a good experience (even a terrible vacation will give you stories to tell for years to come), but who you choose to travel with will make a big difference in what kind of experience you have. A cross-country road trip with your three best friends will be…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / June 21, 2014

10 Things You Should Always Buy In Bulk

I've been trying really hard to live a more minimalist lifestyle lately. I'm super choosy about the clothes I buy, have been cutting down on clutter like whoa, and am aiming to live in a super cozy storage container within the next 10 years. Now, that being said, no…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / June 17, 2014

Girl Talk: In Favor Of Following Your Heart

My best friend works at a handmade art market in Portland. She meets a lot of interesting people when she's sitting at her booth selling necklaces -- earth mamas who share recipes for homemade toothpaste, wood carvers who claim very matter-of-factly that they were born on a different planet, chakra healers and aura seers and…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / June 13, 2014

Help Turn One Of Dear Sugar’s Best Advice Columns Into An Animated Short

Hands down, my favorite advice columnist ever is Dear Sugar over at The Rumpus, best known as Wild memoirist Cheryl Strayed. Her collection of advice columns, Tiny Beautiful Things, sits on my nightstand and is a regular resource when I need a little inspiration, motivation or just a reminder that I can find resilience within. That's why I'm so psyched to…
By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 2, 2014
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