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A Professional Dominant On Navigating Consent & Respecting Boundaries In BDSM

Recently, I’ve been talking to people in the BDSM community about the sexual assault allegations made against porn star James Deen by a dozen women late last year, and noticed…

Mistress Matisse | January 7, 2016 - 2:00 pm

True Story: I Attended A Luxury BDSM Weekend

Queue my domme spirit quest.

Rachel White | August 4, 2015 - 2:00 pm

6 Feminist Roleplays For The Bedroom

Feminist sex is the sexiest sex, we all know it. Your bedroom game is probably already so stellar that Beyonce’s recording a song about it at this very moment, but…

Lucy Doyle | May 26, 2015 - 12:15 pm

What Kind Of Kinky Sex Did Tori & Dean Have Before He Cheated?

Oof, last night’s episode of “True Tori,” one of the biggest car wrecks of a reality show I’ve ever watched, was a doozy. Quick recap: “True Tori” is a Lifetime…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | May 21, 2014 - 1:30 pm

6 Ways The New York Times (Of All Places) Got It Right About Kinky Sex

The New York Times Style section has gotten the memo: 50 Shades Of Grey is a book the ladies be readin’. Cue interviews with various and sundry New

Jessica Wakeman | February 28, 2013 - 3:00 pm

5 Myths About Kinky Sex From “50 Shades Of Grey”

As someone who has identified as kinky for over a decade, both professionally and personally, I have to admit I was absolutely appalled when the 50 Shades trilogy first hit the mainstream. I read…

YourTango.com | August 11, 2012 - 1:30 pm

Girl Talk: On Calling A Man “Daddy” In Bed

He liked to talk in bed — a lot, and always dirty — and, as part of his rhetorical repertoire, he liked to tell me about other women he’d been…

Callie Fitzgerald | June 14, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Mind Of Man: The Freakiest Sex I Ever Had

The old cliché warns against judging a book by its cover, and this is especially true when sizing up a lover. You just can’t tell how sexually adventurous a person…

John DeVore | September 14, 2011 - 1:00 pm

20 Things We Could Never Do, In Bed

If you’ve read our writing about relationships and sexy times, you can just imagine how spicy we Frisky bloggers’ single lives have been. Certainly, we have heard it all and…

Simcha | April 12, 2010 - 12:00 pm

Did You Ever Hit A Guy — Because He Wanted You To?

Ever hit a guy — on request? Last week, Single Guy blogger wrote about his weakness for a good smack on the cheek. His fetish for pain had us curious…

Lemondrop | February 17, 2010 - 1:50 pm

Mind Of Man: The Freakiest Sex I Ever Had

The old cliché warns against judging a book by its cover, and this is especially true when sizing up a lover. You just can’t tell how sexually adventurous a person…

John DeVore | September 16, 2009 - 2:00 pm

MSNBC Thinks Kink Is SO 2008

People have been doing it since the dawn of time. In fact, it’s the alluring, torrid, mind-blowing, all-consuming sex explosion that has spawned our entire existence as a species! While…

Simcha | January 8, 2009 - 9:30 pm

Quickies!: Margaret Cho Is Maaaad!

Find out who pissed off funnygirl Margaret Cho. [Tango]
Abortion is never an easy choice. [College Candy]
Engaging in kinky sex isn’t a mental illness, but the American Psychiatric Association…

Annika Harris | September 18, 2008 - 8:00 pm

Quickies!: Kinky Sex Equals Happiness For Australians

An unusual sex survey has found that Australians who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practice “normal” sex. [Sydney

Annika Harris | August 25, 2008 - 8:30 pm