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5 Myths About Kinky Sex From “50 Shades Of Grey”

As someone who has identified as kinky for over a decade, both professionally and personally, I have to admit I was absolutely appalled when the 50 Shades trilogy first hit the mainstream. I read…

YourTango.com | August 11, 2012 - 1:30 pm

NOFX’s Fat Mike Talks His BDSM Lifestyle, Persecution For Being Kinky

“I haven’t always been open but I always felt lucky that there was something in my life that I felt passionate about. I think most people don’t feel that way…

Jessica Wakeman | July 31, 2012 - 1:40 pm

Hotel Replaces Bedside Bibles With “50 Shades Of Grey”

Christian Grey is damn near God-like — at least according to guests’ bedside tables in The Damson Dene Hotel. Bibles have been booted and E L James’ BDSM erotica novel…

Daley Quinn | July 25, 2012 - 9:20 am

The Soapbox: Misunderstanding “50 Shades” & Kink Is Hurting Those Of Us Who Practice

I haven’t exactly kept it a secret around here the way that I’m sexually wired. For the most part, though, the only person whose opinion matters on the subject is…

Jessica Wakeman | July 5, 2012 - 2:00 pm

First Time For Everything: A Spanking Party

“Call me in one hour and tell me your boyfriend dumped you,” I told my girl friend as we stood outside the movie theater where we had just seen “Magic…

Jessica Wakeman | July 3, 2012 - 2:00 pm

8 Ways To Be Positive You’re Sex Positive

Here in the land of lady blogs, most of us believe that sex and exploring your sexuality is a great thing. “Sex positive” is the go-to term for this, which…

Rachel White | May 9, 2012 - 2:00 pm

FL Library Removes “50 Shades Of Grey” From Shelves

50 Shades Of Grey may well be one of the worst-written books ever. But being a blight on the face of literature isn’t the reason Brevard County Public Library in…

Jessica Wakeman | May 7, 2012 - 3:40 pm

Now You Can Learn Spanking, Kink In Actual “50 Shades Of Grey” Classes

One NYC-branch of sex shop Toys In Babeland is (wisely) capitalizing on the new “mommy porn” 50 Shades Of Grey craze with cocktail party classes teaching Kinky Sex 101. The open-to-the-public…

Jessica Wakeman | April 20, 2012 - 12:20 pm

A Handy Dandy Guide To Troubleshooting Bad Sex

Let’s be honest: sex is not always the softly focused oxytocin bath that Cosmopolitan magazine spreads make it out to be. Sometimes sex is a romp on dirty sheets with…

Jessica Wakeman | March 29, 2012 - 1:00 pm

7 Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Vanilla Girls

Are you ladies more kinky than you’re admitting? Considering the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, the erotica book burning the laps of lady readers across the country, I’m guessing you…

Rachel White | March 16, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Nancy Grace’s Fart Turns On “Flatulophiliacs” & 10 More Crazy Sexual Practices We’re Totally Unaware Of

It was the toot heard ’round the television: Nancy Grace let one rip on “Dancing With The Stars” and she’s been trying to live down the mockery ever since. It…

Ami Angelowicz | October 10, 2011 - 11:20 am

Girl Talk: Just Because I’m Kinky Doesn’t Mean I’m Easy

I’ve been off and on various online dating sites for, oh, four years now. By far, the stupidest part of online dating is the utter futility of most of the…

Jessica Wakeman | March 8, 2011 - 2:00 pm

A Woman Walks Into A Spanking Party And …

Somehow the best description and the worst characterization of a spanking fetish occurred in the same article on Salon.com in a piece by Frisky contributer Anna David called “The Joy…

Jessica Wakeman | February 13, 2011 - 2:00 pm

How Kinky Is Your State?

How kinky is your state? Holla, Midwest! Whatchu been up to in the boudoir? Do share. [Animal New York]

Ami Angelowicz | February 2, 2011 - 11:40 am

In 2010, Bordello Chic Is The New Home Decor Trend

The LA Times takes a closer look at “bordello chic,” the latest trend in interior design that is sexing up businesses and nightclubs on the Left Coast. At club Voyeur,…

Susannah Breslin | January 5, 2010 - 4:50 pm

You’re A Good Boy, Aren’t You?

At Erotica 2009 in London, a woman walks the convention floor with her compliant male friend. [Uncoached] …

Susannah Breslin | January 4, 2010 - 12:10 pm

Career Move Or Really Weird Sexual Fetish?

Earlier this week our own Dr. V told us about seven surprising sexual fetishes that perhaps we hadn’t heard about before. A robot fetish, balloons, sneezing? Well, OK. If she…

Wendy Atterberry | October 30, 2009 - 11:50 am

Doin’ It With Dr. V: 7 Surprising Fetishes

We all have hot buttons that love to get pushed. Like watching a good movie your new beau picked out, a new sexual partner has the potential to show you…

Dr. V | October 26, 2009 - 3:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Rough Sex

I thought I’d had “rough sex” before; I’d been spanked on my butt plenty of times, had my hair pulled, even been caned once while strung up with my hands…

Rachel Kramer Bussel | August 17, 2009 - 2:30 pm

Internet Porn Is The Best Sex Ed A Teen Could Have

Woe betide the sexual being who has a kinky fetish but doesn’t have internet access. You could waste years of your life—decades, even!—fretting that you’re the only sick f*** who…

Jessica Wakeman | August 12, 2009 - 6:10 pm