Posts tagged "jealousy"

Make It Stop: “I Can’t Stop Being Jealous Of My Boyfriend’s Ex”

My boyfriend, Sven (not his real name), and I have been together for about seven months. And while he’s incredible, there's just one thing that makes me uncomfortable. My BF is very close with his ex-girlfriend Veronica (not her real name either). They hang out with each other one-on-one, share a circle of friends and commo…
By: Anna Goldfarb / January 16, 2015

Life After Dating: My Husband’s Best Friends Are Women & I Think It’s Great

Last week, our new dude dating columnist Dater XY wrote a provocative piece about how his best friend is a woman and some ladies he meets online dating can't handle that. With a few exceptions, commenters on that piece agreed Dater XY is shit outta luck. "I don't see a way out of…
By: Jessica Wakeman / September 8, 2014

9 Tips For Taking On Jealousy

Of all the ugly emotions out there, jealousy has to be one of the worst. It can feel childish, petty and almost like a primal rage. But it's also inescapable; jealousy is almost like an epic equalizer, because everybody feels it now and then. On the path toward emotional growth, jealousy is one of the hardest…
By: Claire Hannum / July 11, 2014

Girl Talk: 5 Red Flags That Told Me To Leave

He seemed sweet at first. In fact, he had many sweet moments. But then there was the other stuff … Abusive behavior isn't as simple as we, as a society, want it to be. We often think that the kinds of signs that tell you a man could be abusive are very obvious. We imagine…
By: Meghan Murphy / July 10, 2014

Ask A Married Guy: “Will My Boyfriend Get Over The Fact That I Hooked Up With One His Friends Forever Ago?”

I've been dating this guy for a while now and last night he called me while he was with his friends. Our conversation was normal until he suddenly asked, "Did you hook up with one of my friends?" I tried to deny it, but after he asked me several times, I just finally said "Yes."…
By: Tom Cowell / May 12, 2014

Dater X: When Exes Intimidate

It's been a month to the day since I met Andrew, my surprisingly charming OKCupid run-in who recognized me and introduced himself out at a bar. We've been hanging out pretty consistently over the last few weeks, going on dates every few days, and continuing to get to know each other. I can honestly…
By: Dater X / May 7, 2014

Life After Dating: You, Me And The Green-Eyed Monster

I remember the very first time that I felt jealous and possessive of my husband. It was back when we were still dating. One weekend, he and his friends did a Bloody Mary bar crawl; I abstained because I've never been a big fan of Bloody Marys, but I was happy to look through the…
By: Jessica Wakeman / March 31, 2014

True Story: Somehow, I’ve Become Obsessed With My Ex-Boyfriend’s Ex-Girlfriend

I recognized her immediately: the soft, brown golden retriever-like eyes that turned down at the corners, the blonde, slightly over-processed hair and tan skin with a smattering of freckles that betrayed her Southern sorority girl roots despite her New York fashion girl get-up. It was 2010 and I was working behind the cheese counter at…
By: Lauren Gitlin / January 21, 2014

Woman Diagnosed With Delusional Jealousy Makes Her Fiancé Take A Lie Detector Test Every Time He Leaves The House

It's normal to get pangs of jealousy when your partner talks about his "really awesome" coworker, maybe to the point of stalking her just a little bit on Facebook, but it's not normal to make him take a lie detector test…
By: Ami Angelowicz / November 15, 2013

Amy Poehler Talks Jealousy

The green-eyed monster: it's nice to know that even super-successful, "Saturday Night Live"-starring, Golden Globes-hosting, Tina Fey-best-friending Amy Poehler has had to slay that one. Her advice on how not to let jealousy make you a bitter person might proves Amy might be most rational person in Hollywood!
By: Jessica Wakeman / December 26, 2012

How To Convince Your Facebook Friends You Have The Perfect Life In 10 Simple Steps

Do you ever scroll through someone's Facebook feed and think, "Wow, this person's life is absolutely perfect"? They go on amazing vacations, have a hot, attentive husband, a spotless home, a dream job, and a total lack of bad hair days. It's easy to forget that someone's online identity is just that: a carefully constructed…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / August 15, 2012

10 Celebs We’re Totally Jealous Of

There are lots of reasons you might be jealous of Diane Kruger. She's a famous movie star. She dates Joshua Jackson. She's unbelievably beautiful. But here's why I wish I could be her: the bitch lives in Paris. She and Joshua Jackson wake up every day to coffee and croissants at her favorite…
By: Julie Gerstein / July 20, 2012

Dubious Study Finds That Women React Aggressively Toward “Sexy” Peers

Ugh. The very last thing we (i.e. women) need is a "study" claiming to observe women's snarky reactions to another woman dressed sexily. The lead author of the study begins with a quote that is concerning in and of itself: "I was convinced, having lived a life as a woman, that we're not as pleasant…
By: Rachel Krause / November 29, 2011

Dear Wendy: “Is My Friend Jealous Of My Career Options?”

I recently received a job offer from the company I interned with this past summer for next June after I graduate. I’m not sure if I want to accept this offer (because I am still questioning what field I want to work in and whether I’d have the ability to transfer into another position from…
By: Wendy Atterberry / November 16, 2011

Dear Wendy: “My Boyfriend Won’t Quit Working With His Ex!”

I decided to take a break from a six months relationship with my boyfriend. We did not establish any term or rules regarding the break, and he didn’t ask me how long the break would be. He said that he wished I would have told him the reasons for the break earlier as he would…
By: Wendy Atterberry / October 20, 2011

Dear Wendy: “I’m Jealous Of My Boyfriend’s Friendship With His Ex”

My boyfriend is still friends with his ex-girlfriend of a year, who also happens to be friends with all of his friends. They all hang out often and I see that they still talk over text messages and in person. I really feel uncomfortable and that it's unfair that he's still friends with her whe…
By: Wendy Atterberry / June 22, 2011

Dear Wendy: “What’s The REAL Reason He Doesn’t Want To Date Me?”

A week ago I met a really nice guy and we hit it off right away. We both are newly single and expressed to one another that we were just looking for someone to go out and spend time with. We went on our first official date a couple of days ago and it went…
By: Wendy Atterberry / May 31, 2011

Sweet Jealous Vs. Crazy Jealous: A Primer

As just about any episode of "Jersey Shore" can prove, there's nothing more poisonous to a relationship than unbridled jealousy. (*cough* Ronnie and Sammi *cough*) Nothing is quite so off-putting as the insecurity that makes you not trust someone — or makes your partner think you can't be trusted. But let's be honest:…
By: Jessica Wakeman / April 5, 2011

Girl Talk: Can You Ever Truly Be Happy For Someone Else?

When I told my best friend I was happy for her because she was pregnant, it couldn't have been further from the truth. The truth was that her announcement ruined my day, my week and my self-esteem. It added pressure to my already pressurized mid-30s brain and kept me awake at night with images of…
By: Annabelle Charbit / November 29, 2010

Do You Have A Hate Crush On Any Of Your Female Friends?

Female friendships can be complex and more often than not, they are. We asked 15 women from across the country to answer a question that is getting more attention recently: Do you have a hate crush on any of your female friends? The answers may surprise you.
By: R. Elizabeth C. Kitchen / October 23, 2010
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