Research has indicated that as much as 90 percent of people lie in their online dating profiles. Women in their 20s and 30s slyly deduct anywhere from five to 20 lbs. from their weight, while men tend to lie about income, education level and, yes, relationship status. Yikes.
Here, we count the ways regular folks get creative while creating sexier versions of themselves online. Keep reading »
This should come as a shock to absolutely no one — I am back on the online dating wagon! After trying and failing to find love on the internet, oh, three (wait, four?) times in the last year or so, I’m dipping my toes into the waters once more, only this time, I’ve switched sites. (And I’m not telling you which — a gal needs a little privacy.) There’s a whole new batch of hotties and notties with profiles to peruse, yet many of the dudes are making the same mistakes I have seen time and time again. Here are 10 online dating profile faux pas that I am sick to death of seeing. Keep reading »
Last week I complained about the challenging time I was having on my latest foray into online dating. A little while later, Susannah IM’d to say: “You need to change your profile. And I am going to do it for you.” Oh, hooray! To be honest, I had been considering having someone I trust rewrite my profile for me, since I wasn’t sure if I was doing a great job of “selling” myself. Susannah was the first to volunteer, and, as she is rather blunt, I knew she wouldn’t pussyfoot around doing it right. After the jump, read my original online dating profile and then check out Susannah’s version. Stay tuned to see whether my luck with the fellas improves after being Susannified. Keep reading »
Ah, the interwebs and its wealth of possibilities for meeting that special someone. Many users of the site SeekingMillionaire.com thought they were flirting with Guess model Bree Condon (left) — but in reality, they were talking to a 24-year-old dude by the name of Justin Brown. For two years, Brown maintained a profile on the site and swindled rich guys into sending him gifts, by sharing nudey photos he created using his Photoshop skills. He never met one of these millionaires in person, obviously, but he did have long phone chats with them. “I’d been talking to this person for three months,” said John Carbona, a private investigator who was reeled in by Brown’s ruse but eventually realized that something was fishy. “I’m telling you this guy has either had his gonads removed or he is talking through a voice synthesizer.” Carbona called the cops, who tracked down Brown and caught him with an iPhone and puppy purchased by one of the millionaire suitors. Others gave up heftier gifts—a Miami Beach doc evidently spent more than $15K on the fake Bree. Oopsies? [Huffington Post] Keep reading »
A guy friend told me last month that despite his ability to meet women when he’s out, he has several online dating profiles. He, like some of my other friends, suggested I set up an account on Match.com or its equivalent now that I’ve reentered the dating scene after several years.
When I gave him the same line I’d given other people—“I don’t think I need to”—he said, quite matter-of-factly, “Everybody needs to. It’s just how things are going to be now.” Keep reading »
Although there’s still a certain inexplicable stigma attached to it, I am a huge proponent of online dating. I met my long-term boyfriend that way and the majority of weddings I’ve been to over the past couple years have been for couples who’ve met via the internet.
So whenever I hear a friend whine about how they never meet anyone, I give them the online spiel. Heck, Nerve.com should be paying me a commission because I’ve talked so many people into joining.
But as awesome as online dating is for expanding your dating pool, there are also some negatives. The biggest being that it can bring out the worst in people. And by people, I mean you.
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