Posts tagged "guy talk"

Guy Talk: Why You Never Heard From Me Again After Our Amazing First Date

Think of the best first date you ever went on.

Got it? Okay, what did you do immediately afterwards?

If you’re like some women I’ve been out…

Dennis Hong | July 25, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: A Guide To Faking Male Orgasms

There was nothing wrong with her. She was not to blame. She was the apotheosis of lust, comprising every element of cisgendered sex from the grrrl-next-door to the bust-down. I…

Frank Soliel | May 7, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: I Took My Wife’s Last Name

I’ve always prized the uniqueness of my first name. Pronunciation is lost but the singularity is worth the explanations and corrections during introductions. After my wife Olivia and I were…

Aryon Hopkins | April 12, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: 4 Gift Giving Guidelines For Dudes On Valentine’s Day

Alright, gents, the holiday of all holidays is upon us. That’s right, the heart shaped mongoose has stretched its legs, and like the lazy lion relying on the hunt, we…

Noah Wunsch | February 10, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: On Drunken Logic

Drunken logic is a beautiful thing. When that perfect amount of booze sloshes around the canals of your brain, dipping here, crashing there, telling you that it’s probably a really…

Noah Wunsch | February 5, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: How Deleting My Facebook Profile Saved My Love Life

I’m known amongst my friends as a serial dater. I enjoy going on first dates. Or I used to. In the last few years, I began to feel an encroaching…

Noah Wunsch | February 3, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: I Was Offered Money To Masturbate

The e-mail simply read: I’ll pay you $350.


I lay down and thought about this. I thought about a three, a five and a zero.

Noah Wunsch | January 11, 2012 - 2:02 pm

Guy Talk: On Making The First Move

It’d been a nice night with mixed drinks and homey Brooklyn fare. The conversation hadn’t teetered, except in those first moments when we were testing the waters. Dipping our feet.

Noah Wunsch | December 30, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: How To Break Up With A Girl (From A Guy Who’s Done It Wrong A Few Times)

One of the most difficult ordeals a guy can face is the delicate matter of ending a relationship that his girlfriend still wants to continue, especially if he still cares…

Mark Radcliffe | November 21, 2011 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: Why Cougars Are Better Than Silver Foxes

Hugo’s piece was originally published at the Good Men Project Magazine.

Both at the Good Men Project and at my own blog, my most popular posts in terms…

Hugo Schwyzer | November 7, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: Learning To Be A Husband, Not A Son

Not so long ago, my wife and I were talking to a recently-divorced friend of ours. She’s younger than we are, in her early thirties, and as far as she’s…

Hugo Schwyzer | September 6, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Guy Talk: What’s The Difference Between Privacy And Secrecy?

Last week’s discussion about guys, porn, and honesty raised a number of interesting questions. How much truth do we owe our partners about what we do when they’re not around…

Hugo Schwyzer | July 28, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Guy Talk: How Professional Women Can Objectify Men (And Why Waitresses Don’t)

Fact: women are too often judged solely on their appearance, and treated differently based on how they measure up to men’s ideas of what they should look like. This much…

Mark D. White | July 15, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: Lust Doesn’t Have To Ruin A Platonic Friendship

There are few more famous snippets of film dialogue than this exchange from the 1989 Blly Crystal and Meg Ryan classic, “When Harry Met Sally”:
Harry: You realize of…

Hugo Schwyzer | July 5, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: Dads, Hug Your Daughters

“I was always daddy’s little girl. We did everything together. He was my hero. My father was always there with a hug for me; when I was little, he let…

Hugo Schwyzer | June 15, 2011 - 3:00 pm

Guy Talk: Can Male Masturbators Catch A Break?

Male masturbators can’t seem to catch a break. Despite the assumption that every guy has masturbated, is masturbating, or will masturbate, self-pleasure has been getting a bad rap for 3000…

Hugo Schwyzer | May 16, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Guy Talk: Mythbusting Bisexual Men

“You’re either gay, straight, or lying.”

I first heard that oft-repeated phrase when I was an 18-year-old freshman at UC Berkeley. I was at my first meeting of the…

Hugo Schwyzer | May 11, 2011 - 2:00 pm

Guy Talk: I’ve Got Multiple Inches Of Love

I don’t think I have a small penis. I mean, I’ve stared at it all of my life. I can wrap my fingers around it, so I know it’s not…

John DeVore | May 10, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: How To Check Out Women

It’s been over 30 years, but I still remember the day Jenny Talbot caught me staring at her boobs.

Jenny and I sat next to each other in a…

Hugo Schwyzer | April 28, 2011 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: In Defense Of Dating Your Coworkers

Before I start here, I need to explain why the distinction between the type of “work” I’m talking about here is different from the typical kind of “job” drudgery lamented…

Tim Donnelly | April 22, 2011 - 1:00 pm