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Guy Talk: What Dudes Need To Know About The “Friendzone”

Let’s talk for a minute about the “friendzone.”

Don’t worry, fellas, this isn’t a lecture. It’s an advice column, because there is something you deserve to know: There…

Dan Solomon | January 3, 2013 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: Our First Date Was Nothing Spectacular

Today, December 7th, marks the one-year anniversary of my first date with Melissa.

I wish I could say that I knew from our very first date that this…

Dennis Hong | December 7, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: I Don’t Regret Cheating

Do you know how, on job applications, they always ask if you’ve ever been arrested? And then they invariably follow it up with, “If yes, please explain?”

Do…

Dennis Hong | November 13, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: No Man Is Worth Waiting Around For

At some point, you’ve probably fallen for a guy who just isn’t in the “right place” when you meet him. Maybe it’s obvious from his inability to communicate his feelings.

Dennis Hong | October 5, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: I Date Outside My Race Because My Race Doesn’t Want To Date Me

In case my last name doesn’t make it obvious enough, I’m Asian. At the same time, as some of my friends have noticed, my last few girlfriends have all been…

Dennis Hong | September 19, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: The Real Reason Women Shouldn’t Make The First Move

Maybe you catch him standing at the other end of the bar, slyly checking you out. Maybe you met him before and flirted with him, but he never asked for…

Dennis Hong | September 5, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: 5 Ways That Men Are Also Hopeless Romantics

Here’s a poorly kept secret: Men are also from Venus. That’s what I’ve learned after six years of writing for The New York Times wedding section—also known as the Ladies’ Sports Pages.

Devan Sipher | August 27, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: Why I’ll Act Like A Jerk If I Break Up With You

In the 2007 remake of “3:10 to Yuma,” Christian Bale’s character loses his leg while fighting in the Civil War. As compensation, the government gives him a sum of money,…

Dennis Hong | August 7, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: Why You Never Heard From Me Again After Our Amazing First Date

Think of the best first date you ever went on.

Got it? Okay, what did you do immediately afterwards?

If you’re like some women I’ve been out…

Dennis Hong | July 25, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: A Guide To Faking Male Orgasms

There was nothing wrong with her. She was not to blame. She was the apotheosis of lust, comprising every element of cisgendered sex from the grrrl-next-door to the bust-down. I…

Frank Soliel | May 7, 2012 - 1:00 pm

Guy Talk: I Took My Wife’s Last Name

I’ve always prized the uniqueness of my first name. Pronunciation is lost but the singularity is worth the explanations and corrections during introductions. After my wife Olivia and I were…

Aryon Hopkins | April 12, 2012 - 12:00 pm

Guy Talk: 4 Gift Giving Guidelines For Dudes On Valentine’s Day

Alright, gents, the holiday of all holidays is upon us. That’s right, the heart shaped mongoose has stretched its legs, and like the lazy lion relying on the hunt, we…

Noah Wunsch | February 10, 2012 - 1:00 pm