It’s something every girl has wondered: am I good in bed? Sure, like kissing, much of it may have to do with compatibility—what might be hot for one guy could be just plain freaky to the next. But no matter what your guy’s preferences are, here are the 7 signs to know that you’re rocking his socks off:
1. He clenches his hands and feet. A physical sign that a guy is in complete ecstasy is if he’s clenching his hands and feet. When you see your guy doing this, take it as a sign he’s holding on for dear life, making sure that the encounter doesn’t end prematurely. After all, what you’re doing to him at the time might be just a little too good.
2. He wants to do it again right away. When you’ve really blown his mind, he won’t be able to get enough. Just thinking about the sex you had will be so arousing that he’ll want to do it again. So, if he seems particularly virile, pat yourself on the back sister … you’re doing something right. Read more…
Our favorite nut job, Courtney Love, has a theory about why she is a supposed love goddess in bed. She thinks it’s because she’s ugly. Uh, she’s kidding right? I suspect it’s more because she’s crazy, and men dig crazy chicks. In a recent interview, Courtney bragged, “Pretty girls just lie there. Us girls who grew up a little more homely have to try a lot harder. That’s why pretty girls never threaten me—it’s like, yeah, you want to take me on? Go for it.” Gosh. I feel scared for anyone who is a notch on her bedpost. Is this true, Gavin Rossdale? [New York Post]
But honestly, Courtney’s theory made me think there might actually be a needle of truth in her haystack of crazy. I’m not really a “looks” girl, but the pretty boys I’ve snagged have been incredibly boring in the sack. Like a lifetime of beauty gave them a case of the lazies. After the jump, Frisky staffers sound off about sexytime skills. “Ugly” vs. “Pretty.” Who is better? Cast your vote in the comments. Keep reading »
I have never met a woman who thought she was bad in bed. I have known plenty of women who can rattle off an impromptu, critical dissertation on the carnal failings of most men. “He didn’t get me off.” “He treated my nipples like Xbox control sticks.” “He came before his pants were off.”
No, not all women are great in bed. Is the onus on dudes to break the bedsprings? I say no. It is both of our responsibilities to be the best lay possible. There are women who kick back Cleopatra-style and dare their men to please them. Women who use men like giant, hairy vibrators, and women who are so eager to please, it can be overwhelming. Keep reading »