Posts tagged "girl talk"

Girl Talk: I’m The Uncool Older Sister

I used to be a cool older sister. I had all sorts of secret older sister knowledge. So when I told my little brother Gabe that I was a witch and I could fly, he believed me. That was pretty awesome. I was seven, and he was four. "If you don't unload my section of…

By: Kate Fridkis / April 6, 2012

Girl Talk: He Was The Prom Queen

When I received a Facebook request from a statuesque woman named “Carol Lee,” I knew the face but not the name. Mentally, I scanned my Midwest childhood, former life as a musical theater dancer, and transition into grad school. I have always loved colorful people, and she did look familiar. “Do you remember me?” Carol…

By: Ann Votaw / April 3, 2012

Girl Talk: Why I Ditched The Scale

I started watching what I ate around third grade. A boy in my class had made a crack about my weight -- an aspect of my physical self I'd never even pondered before -- and, suddenly, I was self-conscious about and uneasy in my body. I didn't dive into actual, formal diets until much later,…

By: Sally McGraw / April 2, 2012

Girl Talk: On Being The Other Woman

Even though I’m not necessarily proud of it, I will admit I’ve been the other woman … more than once. Come to think of it, I’ve been tempting guys since middle school. I’ll never forget the time the Seventh Grade Love of My Life walked the mile with me in gym class. Neither of us liked to…

By: Kate Richlin-Zack / March 29, 2012

Girl Talk: My Husband And I Have Separate Bank Accounts

My husband is my best friend in the world. I'm sure I've caused several cavities just by saying so, and can hear a few of you making gagging noises through my computer screen right now. But hey, it's true. He's amazing and he understands me better than anyone. He's the only person who doesn't annoy…

By: Sally McGraw / March 27, 2012

Girl Talk: Why I Brought A Scale Back Into My Home

It's been seven years since I owned a scale. Back then, I was 19, and obsessively chronicling my calories, workouts, and incremental weight changes. 105 one day. 106 would send me into a panic attack. 106.5 put me over the edge. When a handful of months later, I'd find out I was 121, my world…

By: Leonora Epstein / March 26, 2012

Girl Talk: The Pregnancy Test

I am a writer. I have been a writer since age eight, when I penned a dramatic tale about a girl who gets asked to the prom by the school bully. He turns out to be really nice, and they end up getting married. It was daring, featured some witty dialogue, and suggested an attractio…

By: Kate Fridkis / March 23, 2012

Girl Talk: I Had A Miscarriage

As I lay on the floor next to my boyfriend getting ready for to play another round of Dance Central on our Xbox, I thought to myself , Something is wrong with you. You are too happy. Less than 72 hrs before, I had a miscarriage. I lost the baby we were so excited to…

By: Kristol Roberts / March 22, 2012

Girl Talk: Love After Cancer

I was on the way to the hospital when he called to arrange our first date. Sobbing, I pressed "Ignore" and tried to steady my breathing. I wondered if I would live to take him up on his offer for coffee — I'd blurted out "I only drink tea," and now, I wished I had…

By: Lindsey Claire / March 20, 2012

Girl Talk: I Would Be Happy To Be The Breadwinner

Growing up, my parents made about the same amount of money, which wasn't all that much; we were solidly on the lower end of the middle class. As far as I was concerned, we were fine and when I would picture my life someday as an adult, I never imagined or aspired to make a…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 16, 2012

Girl Talk: I Make My First Dates Compete At Quiz Night

By the time you’ve reached your 30s, you have likely been on dozens of first dates. Be they through a set up, a slurry meeting in a bar, a random encounter on the street or an online dating website, the first date almost always goes through the same motions: Non-alcoholic Beverage + Light Snack, Small…

By: Annie James / March 15, 2012

Girl Talk: I Am Setting The Pace Now

After seven years single (give or take six months here and two months there), I've realized how much I've underestimated the concept of pacing. A major factor in compatibility is how quickly (or slowly) two people want their relationship to move, and whether or not that speed matches. In my experience, if both people are…

By: Ami Angelowicz / March 13, 2012

Girl Talk: I Created A J-Date Profile For Madonna

After half a century on this planet, Madonna has creative expression and power, intellectual curiosity, beautiful children, financial security (and then some), and a team of friends and colleagues who she can love and trust. Only one thing is missing. Madonna needs a mensch. A good man, a stand-up guy with means and influence. “Mensch”…

By: Wendy Shanker / March 13, 2012

Girl Talk: I’m Going Back To Therapy To Deal With My Anger

Last week, my mom and I were on one of our regular "dates," headed to see the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit at Discovery Times Square. Times Square is definitely an area of NYC that most New Yorkers try to avoid unless necessary -- it's overrun with tourists, who make it difficult to get to your…

By: Annika Harris / March 12, 2012

Girl Talk: Madonna Is Down With The Swirl

Madonna's book was large and black, with SEX embossed on the front. The coffee-table book of all coffee-table books was an enigma to me, sort of like Madonna herself. One day she was telling you to “Open Your Heart” and the next she was telling you to open your legs, but whatever her message, people…

By: Tamara Lynch / March 12, 2012

Girl Talk: I Use Birth Control For Health Reasons

One spring afternoon when I was in high school in New York City, I had a bizarre health scare. A friend and I had been lounging by the Hudson River pretending to read and philosophize but really gossiping about our schoolmates — acting exactly our age. That afternoon, I had miserable symptoms as I always did whe…

By: Sarah Marian Seltzer / March 9, 2012

Girl Talk: I Am Not A Victim Of Dating

Ugh, it's so unfair. What did I do to deserve this? No one ever asks me out. Dating -- or whatever you want to call the experience of interacting with the gender to which you are attracted -- can be a very frustrating experience. Generally, we meet a lot of people before a connection i…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / March 6, 2012

Girl Talk: How Kirk Cameron Tried To Ruin My View Of Sex

When I tell people that once, when I was in 7th grade Sunday school class, I was shown a video starring Kirk Cameron and his wife Chelsea Noble that illustrated the dangers of sex with laughing carnival workers and evil clowns, they don’t believe me. Well, here it is (presented in three parts, after the…

By: Jamie Beckman / March 6, 2012

Girl Talk: I Went To Prom With My Bully

Yesterday, Lady Gaga launched her anti-bullying foundation, Born This Way, at Harvard University. This got me thinking of my own days as a bullied pre-teen—and the sweet revenge I was able to exact on my young male tormenter. Halfway through sixth grade, I switched schools. I’d been living on Cape Cod with my sister, mother,…

By: Kiri Blakeley / March 2, 2012

Girl Talk: On Dating Younger Guys

His name was Patrick, but everyone referred to him as "the 17-year-old." That was how his number was saved in my phone. I met the 17-year-old while visiting my 17-year-old cousin in the burbs. I was 22. The cousin brought me to a high school party. Patrick was in the corner, tall and spidery with…

By: Rachel White / March 2, 2012
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