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Girl Talk: On What It Means To Be A Real Friend

Friends We Need
Six types of friends every woman needs. Read More »
Digital Friendships
Is the computer killing our bonds with friends? Read More »
FB Friends To Keep
Because they're so fun to stalk! Read More »

In fall of 2010, I went through maybe one of the lowest points in my life. I was dumped over IM by my live-in boyfriend (yes, that one) and due to a zillion circumstances outside of my control, my work life was in complete chaos. I walked around for weeks with a burning feeling in my stomach, unable to eat or sleep and in a total daze. I committed the cardinal sin of crying at work, and begged a doctor friend to write me a prescription for anxiety meds (I didn’t have health insurance at the time). I went to therapy. I bought self-help books on cognitive therapy to try and shake the shitty, negative thoughts that constantly ran through my head. I felt like a raw nerve with absolutely no hope of ever healing.

So I did the completely sensible thing, and bought a plane ticket to Barcelona. Keep reading »

Matchmaker, Matchmaker: 8 Tips For Setting Up Your Friends

Jewish Matchmaking
WTF comments from an Orthodox Jewish matchmaker. Read More »
Patti Matches Pippa
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Who would "The Millionaire Matchmaker" set her up with? Read More »
Dating Don'ts: Holidays
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Beware these holiday booby traps. Read More »

I love bringing people together, and am what Malcolm Gladwell would call a “connector.” If you’re telling me about how you really love comic books, I’m going to hook you up with my friend who’s selling a bunch you might want. You want a new assistant at your office? My friend’s younger brother is the perfect kid for the job. Or you need a new apartment? I’ve got a buddy who’s a Realtor who can help find you a place. And in that same way I love helping my friends make love connections. Over the years, I’ve introduced a few couples (one met while there was a destructive indoor fireworks show happening at my house on New Year’s a few years back) and have also been the object of a set up or two. And I’ve learned there are a few helpful rules you should observe when trying to make sparks fly: Keep reading »

The Drunk Girl’s Battle Cry: I Made Bad Choices Last Night

Drunk Is A Feminist Issue
Why women everywhere should be concerned about binge-drinking. Read More »
I Quit Drinking
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What happens when our author quit her epic boozing. Read More »

As of late, I feel as though my friends and I are in a Doors song, specifically “Riders On The Storm.” We are making the poor decision to ride into a the perfect storm of broken hearts and alcohol, combined with the fact that we’re in our mid- to late-twenties and freaking out about it. Which also means that we should know better. Yet we continue to get knocked down, and then get up again, because you ain’t ever gonna keep us down.

We need to calm our tits.

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The Electric Charge Of A Symbiotic Power Friendship

Toxic Friendships
15 toxic friends you need to dump ASAP. Read More »
Friendship Facts
7 things we've learned about friendship since high school. Read More »
College Friendships
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Friendships at college aren't about having one big clique. Read More »

I’m reading this book called Joe Cinque’s Consolation, which tells the true story of a real life trial of two women –  Anu Singh, who injected her boyfriend Joe Cinque with heroin and watched him die, and Mandhavi Rao, Anu’s best friend who might have assisted her in the process. The story is complicated, of course, by mental illness and dependence and all kinds of other things, and you should read the book by Helen Garner if you get the chance. But what I want to talk about is Garner’s spot-on assessment of Singh and Rao’s relationship, one that she calls a “symbiotic power arrangement,” because I think we’ve all had one of these at one time or another (even if it didn’t lead to murder).

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How To Lose Friends And Alienate People

FB Friends To Keep
Because they're so fun to stalk! Read More »
DIY: Friendship Bracelets
A fun DIY project that'll bring you back to middle school. Read More »
Friends With Kids
Oh look, an ensemble cast that does not look godawful. Read More »

Do you find that you have just too much support? That people like you too much? That you’re just up to your eyelashes in friendships? Me too, comrade! Here’s how to destroy all of that.

It’s really important to pick fights with your friends. If there’s something that isn’t a big deal, it’s your job to make it as big a deal as possible. If they don’t see your point of view, it’s because they’re selfish idiots. You, by default of being you, will always be correct. Don’t put up with their guff. Storm out of the room. Keep reading »

We Want To Go To There: 5 Fabulous Girlfriend Getaways

Romantic trips with your lover are nice, soul-searching solo traveling is great, but honestly, it’s hard to beat a vacation with your BFFs. Whether you’re looking to relax and recharge or recreate the most ridiculous scenes from “The Hangover,” we’ve rounded up five amazing girlfriend getaways you’ll never forget. Click on the gallery to check ‘em out, and tell us: what’s your dream girlfriend getaway?

Traveling Alone
Why one woman prefers to travel the world -- solo. Read More »
Travel Diary: I Heart Italy
Hang with Winona in Italy! Read More »

Would You Use A Website To Make New Friends?

FB Friends To Keep
Because they're so fun to stalk! Read More »
Friends We Need
Six types of friends every woman needs. Read More »

Online dating is totally cool now — but would you use the Internet to find new friends? A slew of new sites–like SocialJane and GirlFriendCircles–have launched to help women make platonic connections with other women.

Why do women use these sites? Sometimes it’s that they’ve moved to a new city and are craving new friends. Other times, it’s that they’re simply hoping to widen their friendship circle. Writer Rachel Bertsche told The New York Times that she used the site GirlFriendCircles after relocating to Chicago to be with her husband. Bertsche says she definitely felt a stigma searching for new friends online. “This is horribly embarrassing. You say, ‘I’m looking for new friends,’ and people hear, ‘I have no friends.’ ” Keep reading »

Girl Talk: The Evolution Of Female Friendship

FB Friend Dealbreakers
These Facebook infractions will get you unfriended. Read More »
New Vs. Old Friends
The allure of new friendships over old ones. Read More »
Friends We Need
Six types of friends every woman needs. Read More »

When I was wee, I was best friends with the girls who were handy. Neighborhood kids, playgroup participants, and the like. In grade school, I gravitated toward girls who were brainy like me. Since book smarts were considered to be at odds with potential popularity, and since I had more going in the Brains Department than the Social Graces Department, I sought out equally bookish girlfriends. High school was pretty much the same as grade school, but in college, I ran with girls who shared classes, activities, or interests with me. And after college I befriended women who worked with me. Longstanding friendships from school and activities sometimes lingered, but new friends were drawn almost exclusively from my coworker pool.  Keep reading »

Style Stealer: Kristen Bell And Rachel Bilson’s Dynamic Duo

SS: Jennifer Aniston
We're obsessed with the outfit she wore in Paris! Read More »
SS: Taylor Swift
Her retro summer look is oh so cool. Read More »
SS: Fergie
How to get Fergie Ferg's business-like florals. Read More »
SS: Melanie Laurent
How to make black lace work for spring. Read More »

How cute are BFFs Rachel Bilson and Kristen Bell? I friggin’ love that Kristen Bell is wearing jeans that are technically “ankle length,” but since she’s such a micro-mini person, they actually look long on her. We’ve found those cute jeans, along with everything else that Kristen and Rachel are wearing, and you can have it all by clicking after the jump.

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7 Life Lessons We Learned From Tubing This Weekend

Life Lessons From RuPaul
12 life lessons Ami has learned from "RuPaul's Drag Race." Read More »
Ugly Duckling Lessons
Life lessons from a former ugly duckling. Read More »
Dowton Abbey Sex Lessons
Sex lessons we learned from watching "Downton Abbey." Read More »

This past weekend, Amelia and I, plus 15 of our friends, went tubing down the Delaware River. Tubing is about my favorite thing in the world. I consider it the best “sport” for lazy people because you can be outside and on the water, but you don’t actually have to do much. And as Amelia and I found out, you can learn a lot from tubing, the river, and hanging with friends in your skivvies.

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