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First Time For Everything: Dating A Couple

I met Greg* through a dating website and we talked online and  then on the phone for about a week. I was very hesitant because I had never tried online…

Chloe Monroe | October 13, 2011 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Phone Sex

As I laid on the couch, having a very regular, very non-inspiring evening alone watching baseball, I got an onslaught of sexts from the woman I was dating. After a…

Amelia McDonell-Parry | September 23, 2011 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Hitting The Big O

In the spirit of Columbus, Magellan and Lewis and Clark, I spent my teenage years as a fearless explorer of uncharted carnal terrain, reporting back to my tight-knit group of…

Rebecca Wiegland | September 13, 2011 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Fisting

In my early 20s I was still new to relationships and sex with women. I hadn’t yet completely identified as a lesbian and the idea of sleeping with a woman…

Lila Starr | August 24, 2011 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Posing Nude

My first concern when preparing for my appointment was: What I should wear? Sure, I was going to be stripping down to nothing, but maybe I could strip down to…

Steph Auteri | August 12, 2011 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship

I really didn’t know what polyamory was until I fell into it at 27. I was arguing one day with a couple I’d been sleeping with for about a month,…

Anya James | April 30, 2010 - 4:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Sex Parties Helped Me Overcome My Intimacy Issues

I double-checked my bag: Wallet, bus pass, lip gloss. A bottle of cheap wine. A variety pack of condoms. My favorite vibrator and a pair of handcuffs.

My…

Steph Auteri | February 12, 2010 - 4:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Screwing My Gay Best Friend

“I’ve never even kissed a woman,” Adam said. One of my best friends on the planet, Adam was unequivocally gay—the kind of caricature personality who lisped, wore pink, plucked his…

Anonymous | October 20, 2009 - 2:00 pm

First Time For Everything: A May-December Romance

We met when I delivered his mail, a task performed by all the interns. But I liked to think I was different: I was an eager little NYU journalism student,…

Jessica Wakeman | September 23, 2009 - 4:29 pm

First Time For Everything: The Gratifying One-Night Stand

As a single lady who has lived in a big city for years, and now moved to a new one, I’ve had my fare share of one-night stands. I’d never…

Anonymous | September 8, 2009 - 1:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Swinging

When I first set out to write about swinging for an article about the lifestyle, the last thing I expected was to find myself nodding when a slim, curly-haired brunette…

Diana Vilibert | September 3, 2009 - 2:00 pm

First Time For Everything: Rough Sex

I thought I’d had “rough sex” before; I’d been spanked on my butt plenty of times, had my hair pulled, even been caned once while strung up with my hands…

Rachel Kramer Bussel | August 17, 2009 - 2:30 pm