Posts tagged "etiquette"

Dear Wendy: “Will My Brother’s Obnoxious Fiancée Ruin My Graduation Party?

I'm graduating from college in June. I've had a lot of setbacks and ups and downs that I had to deal with in order to get to where I am now, so I'm planning a party to celebrate my accomplishment. The problem is I do not want my older brother's fiancée to attend. We do…

By: Wendy Atterberry / February 25, 2010

Dear Wendy: “Is It Normal To Stop Wanting To Spend Every Second With My Boyfriend?”

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. He goes to school in Rhode Island and comes home to New Hampshire every weekend. So I always keep my weekends free and make plans with him around my work schedule and his. I guess we've kind of been in that stage where we…

By: Wendy Atterberry / February 17, 2010

How To Tactfully Hit On A Cute Guy At Thanksgiving Dinner

Thanksgiving is a time to spend with family and friends. Sometimes this family event may have an unexpected guest: a cute, single guy. When such a treat comes your way, seize the moment in a feminine, ladylike fashion. Seating. Right away, you will want to be seated next to this hottie; however, this is a…

By: ShawnTe Pierce / November 26, 2009

How Do You Expect Your Family And Friends To Treat Your Ex?

When you break up with someone, how do you expect the people in your life to treat your ex? This Sunday's "Modern Love" column in The New York Times explored that topic in an essay by Charles Antin. Antin had an amicable, cold-turkey breakup with his girlfriend of five years, and then found himself morosely…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / November 24, 2009

A Boy Should Bow Just Slightly

I can't help but love this retro etiquette missive which instructs boys to only shake hands with a girl if she offers her hand and to otherwise BOW. When did this go out of style? [via Planet Mabel]…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / November 4, 2009

Are Social Media Sites Like Twitter And Facebook Making Us Rude?

Last week, I had the pleasure of sipping Earl Grey at the Russian Tea Room while listening to Anna Post (Emily's great-great-granddaughter) and anthropologist Genevieve Bell discuss etiquette as it pertains to technology. The event was hosted by Intel, which just completed a study on tech etiquette that shows that people believe there are unspoke…

By: Catherine Strawn / October 27, 2009

Should We Mind Miss Manners’ Salutations For Same-Sex Couples?

Not that you ever send snail mail any more, but Miss Manners received an interesting question from a reader yesterday: How should she address letters to same-sex married couples? I guess Mrs. and Mrs. Jones looks a little like a typo? “Thank you for not contributing to the general rude-ing down (the equivalent of dumbing…

By: Jessica Goldberg / September 22, 2009

Eight Conversation Killers to Avoid

Recently, I was taking in a rare sunny day on my lunch break, when I ran into an acquaintance. The first thing she said to me wasn’t “Hi” or “How are you?” but “Wow, you look so tired!” I don’t even remember my immediate response because I was too focused on my depleting self-esteem levels.

By: DivineCaroline.com / June 17, 2009

Keepin’ It Classy: Making Plans With Friends

This week in "Keepin' It Classy," I received a letter from a lady who is trying to get back out onto the dating scene, but she's confused about current social mores:“I’m recently single and although I’m not quite yet ready to mingle, I do want to go out with my old girlfriends. Now that I…

By: Simcha / May 25, 2009

Keepin’ It Classy: Can I Back Out On Being A Bridesmaid?

This week, I received a letter from a woman who's having commitment issues about her friend's wedding. Here's what she has to say about her cold feet: “I met up with my old college roommate to celebrate her engagement. Although I hadn’t seen her in years, when she asked me to be a bridesmaid, I…

By: Simcha / May 18, 2009

The Tyranny Of The Tardy

I have a friend—bless her heart—who is habitually late to everything! It all started when Lynn went to work for me as a freelance editor. She never showed up when she said she would, always arrived looking like the mad scientist with hair askew and papers flying out of her cramped notebooks, and as breathle…

By: DivineCaroline.com / April 23, 2009

Rewriting The Rules Of Etiquette: What’s In a Name?

A couple weeks ago I addressed the issue of a woman changing her name when she marries. I expressed that although I don’t plan to change my name when I get hitched this summer, I respect and appreciate every woman’s right to choose what’s best for her. I reject the notion some have expressed that…

By: Wendy Atterberry / April 9, 2009

Would You Wear White To Someone Else’s Wedding?

Spring is here, which means many of us will be spending all of our weekends for the next four to five months going to wedding after wedding after wedding. When you're an adult, weddings are the closest thing to high school proms or homecoming dances. Unless you're a socialite who attends charity balls on a…

By: Catherine Strawn / April 4, 2009

The Girls Of Hedsor Hall: What Makes You Feel Like A Lady?

Today at noon, MTV is turning out the ladies! No, not in their typical Spring Break style, but real, proper ladies. They’ve taken a smattering of girls gone wild and sent them to a British finishing school in hopes that they'll reform and refine themselves (or at least stop drawing on their eyebrows!). As student…

By: Simcha / March 1, 2009

Miss Manners: Public Restroom Etiquette

It's often assumed that women are the cleaner sex, but when it comes to public restrooms we often forget our manners. Since we're tired of seeing and hearing inappropriate things in the restroom, we thought we'd remind ourselves and you of public restroom etiquette. We'll be posting this in the restroom down the hall.

By: Annika Harris / February 27, 2009

The Frisky Gift Guide: Don’t Forget Your Manners

‘Tis the season to shower the people you love – and, of course, get a little soaked yourself -- with pretty wrapped packages. While giving and receiving can be oh so joyful, it can also create a serious amount of stress and anxiety. Puzzled about who on your list actually deserves a present - and…

By: Chelsea Kaplan / December 6, 2008

Dating Don’ts: How Not To Become A Party Pariah

Though I can’t remember his name, I can still recall the face of the guest who whipped out a handful of Ziploc bags as a long ago Christmas party was winding down. “Do you mind if I take some of these cheese puffs home with me?” he half-asked, shoving the leftover snacks into a bag.

By: Judy McGuire / December 4, 2008

Poll: Should You Wear White To A Wedding?

Guests were told to wear ivory to Jay-Z and Beyonce's wedding on Friday (that's Gwyneth Paltrow arriving, above); I wore a white dress with black piping to a friend's wedding in October and got dirty looks (but only compliments from the bride, thank you very much); traditional etiquette says that wearing white to a wedding…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / April 7, 2008

The Nookie Know-It-All: Threesome Etiquette

What are some easy steps to having a threesome where no one gets hurt? -- Menage A Trois, Greenwich, CT You’d think there’d be a Threesome for Dummies or Emily Post’s Guide to Entertaining Your Third Party…but alas, there’s not. Instead, you’ve got me.

By: Sexpert Lindsay / March 12, 2008
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