Posts tagged "etiquette"

I Put On Makeup In Public — Deal With It

This morning on the subway, I overheard two men cattily complaining that it grosses them out when women put their makeup on in public. As someone who recently became one of those women, it made me want to whip out an eyelash curler and inflict some acute torture on them both. Why does this bother…
By: NYMag.com / October 15, 2012

10 Annoying Airplane Behaviors That Should Probably Be Illegal

Over the past few years, I've traveled quite a bit and been pretty lucky when it comes to airplane seatmates. I've been fortunate enough to sit next to friendly, polite, interesting people who respect my personal space but will happily tell me thrilling tales about their childhood spent in a religious cult when prompted. That…
By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / October 4, 2012

Republican Politician To Offer Class On “Posture, Deportment And Feminine Presence.” Yes, Seriously.

Update: 4p.m. Well, that was quick. State Senator Mary Marty Golden's website has canceled the event. I guess you'll have to learn your feminine wiles elsewhere. [New York Observer] Please tell me this is a joke. This is a joke, right? The office of a Republican politician in Brooklyn, New York, will be offering…
By: Jessica Wakeman / July 3, 2012

Dating Don’ts: Putting Your Foot In Your Mouth On A First Date

On Friday night, I had an online date that really fizzled. Everything was going just fine over chips and guac until he majorly stuck his foot in his mouth. He started talking about his ex-girlfriends (always a red flag!) and mentioned that several were depressed. He ended up giving much more than he got back in these…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 22, 2012

How Not To Be An Awful Person At The Nail Salon

All I wanted to do on Sunday was get a mani/pedi so my nails didn't look so chipped and busted. Kicking back with a crinkled copy of Allure while Top 40 radio blares overhead is the closet thing modern women have to bliss. But instead of being a zen experience, my local nail salon was railroaded…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 21, 2012

Dating Don’ts: Just Say No To Negging

His teeny little profile picture was cute. He was the right age range and city. But when I opened the online dating message from this random dude, this is what he said: Isn't feminism a little obsolete? Men and women are equal nowadays. In fact, the balance is tipped in your favor. Of all the…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 8, 2012

The Official Frisky Girl Code Of Conduct

Ladies, look, we think it's high time we stop snarking on each other and start supporting one another. To that end, we've developed an official Frisky Girl Code of Conduct, based on what we wish our friends, coworkers and female strangers might do to help us out. The Frisky Girl Code Of Conduct is also…
By: The Frisky / March 15, 2012

Woman Arrested After Fighting With Flight Attendant Over Painting Nails During Flight

Southwest Airlines passenger Jeanie Daniels is butthurt because she was jailed for 10 hours after arguing with a flight attendant about painting her nails onboard. While flying from California to Texas, Daniels whipped out her nail polish and began giving herself a manicure until a flight attendant came by to tell her other passengers were complaining…
By: Jessica Wakeman / March 8, 2012

The Soapbox: This Might Sound Crazy, But Let’s Bring Back Good Manners In Dating

Over the summer, I had a first date with an attractive, smart guy who emailed me over an online dating site. C— was Harvard-educated, a lawyer, and a dead ringer for the actor Terrance Howard (i.e. super hot). We had a lovely conversation and was a total gentleman until the end of the date: he…
By: Jessica Wakeman / December 8, 2011

Have You Ever Fought With Friends Over Clothes?

I was at a flea market this weekend with a friend, relishing in my new discovery that yes, despite the fact that I am only five-feet tall, I can actually wear three-quarter-length skirts as long as I wear heels, when I happened upon the perfect new skirt. The only trouble? My friend Sarah thought it…
By: Julie Gerstein / June 7, 2011

How To Date Multiple Guys Without Being Shady

Ladies, there is absolutely no shame in diversifying your dating portfolio. In fact, it's highly encouraged to put your eggs into lots of different baskets while you're a free agent, as long as you can do it without being a total dick. There is an art to dating multiple guys at once while keeping your…
By: The Frisky / April 8, 2011

Holiday Rant: What’s Up With Blank Christmas Cards?

Like most of you, my mailbox has been filling with Christmas cards over the last couple weeks from extended family members and far-flung friends of my husband's and mine whom we haven't seen in an eternity. And while it's nice to get mail other than bills and junk, I can't help but feel a little…
By: Wendy Atterberry / December 22, 2010

Do You Believe In A Birthday Greeting Hierarchy?

Way back in the stone age when I was a kid, there were only a handful of popular ways you could wish someone a happy birthday. There was the face-to-face method. There was the tried and true phone call. And there was the always-thoughtful greeting card. These days, with email, text messaging, e-cards, and social…
By: Wendy Atterberry / October 27, 2010

Money 101: 10 Financial Etiquette Questions Answered!

Around the same time I started raking in the big bucks (courtesy of the Tooth Fairy), my father started enforcing the rule that the topic of money was off-limits in polite conversation. There was no, “Hey, how much was your incisor worth?” in my house. And the one time I asked my dad the amount…
By: Colleen Meeks / September 13, 2010

Arizona Teacher Makes Chivalry A Classroom Rule

Teacher Cord Ivanyi, a Latin instructor at Gilbert Classical Academy, was tired of seeing boys physically push aside girls as they rushed through the classroom door. So at the beginning of this school year, Ivanyi told his students the new classroom rules about chivalry: boys would hold doors for girls; boys would ask…
By: Jessica Wakeman / April 1, 2010

Relationship Q: How Long Before You Drop A Deuce?

New relationships are all about keeping up the lie. "I don't have any flaws. And I most certainly do not poop!" Right? It’s amazing how long one can go pretending their no-no factory never pumps out any by-products. But oh, the truth will set you free. So we asked our Frisky BFFs, guys and gals:…
By: Simcha / March 22, 2010

Why You Should Always Ask A Woman To Reveal Her Age

Today is my birthday. I'm 26 years old today — but I look much younger. With my big, brown eyes and round cheeks, people who don't know me often mistake me for being in my early 20s or even in my teens. (It probably doesn't help matters that my maturity hovers around the "Yo Gabba…
By: Jessica Wakeman / March 11, 2010

Dear Wendy: “Will My Brother’s Obnoxious Fiancée Ruin My Graduation Party?

I'm graduating from college in June. I've had a lot of setbacks and ups and downs that I had to deal with in order to get to where I am now, so I'm planning a party to celebrate my accomplishment. The problem is I do not want my older brother's fiancée to attend. We do…
By: Wendy Atterberry / February 25, 2010