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“Undateable” Actor Chris D’Elia Calls #YesAllWomen “Terrible” And “Shitty”

Misogynists Hate Men Too
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Misogyny hates women -- but some men aren't safe either. Read More »
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#YesAllWomen: Women Tweets Stories Of Their Personhood Being Violated
Women tweet stories of their personhood being violated. Read More »
Elliot Rodger Reading List
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Thoughts on misogyny in the wake of the UCSB massacre. Read More »
"Undateable" Actor Chris D'Elia Calls #YesAllWomen "Terrible" And "Shitty"

During a chat with HuffPo Live on Thursday, comedian Chris D’Elia, who stars in some sure-to-be-canceled show called “Undateable,” decided to weigh in on the Twitter hashtag #YesAllWomen. To recap: the hashtag was launched following last Friday’s mass murder near UC Santa Barbara, which shooter Elliot Rodger justified in a misogyny-drenched, 137-page manifesto and in a YouTube video called “Elliot Rodger’s Retribution.” Twitter was flooded with stories from women of having their personhood violated by men assuming ownership, just as Rodger felt that women owed him sex, love, attention, and adoration, and intended on killing them for not delivering it. These stories illustrated what women fear even if “not all men” engage in those behaviors. While upsetting, it was inspiring to see women of all sorts come together in solidarity to share their stories. Chris D’Elia, it seems, wasn’t as impressed:

“I think that it’s terrible that a lot of these people tweeting about this—using this hashtag—I think that it’s a little bit shitty to what actually happened. I think that what happened was terrible, people died, and somebody’s like, ‘A guy looked at my butt, that’s not cool, #yesallwomen’? I think that that’s kind of rude to the people that lost their lives.”

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#AllMenCan Crowdsources How Men Can Be Good Allies

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#YesAllWomen: Women Tweets Stories Of Their Personhood Being Violated
Women tweet stories of their personhood being violated. Read More »
Elliot Rodger's Fury
Elliot Rodger
Not all men are dangerous, but yes, all women do live in fear of it. Read More »
Elliot Rodger Reading List
todays lady news
Thoughts on misogyny in the wake of the UCSB massacre. Read More »
all men can

“Hashtag activism” gets a bad rap. My thoughts? Hey, it can’t hurt. And I like the idea behind the hashtag #AllMenCan, especially since I think it’s a natural reaction for any human to feel defensive (hence the all-too-common refrain “Not all men!”). It looks to have generated yesterday from the Twitter user @PenguinGalaxy. #AllMenCan crowdsources ideas on how men can be good allies in a world where violence against women runs rampant. It pains me that we live in a society where we have to say things like “all men can talk to their sons and daughters about what consent means” and “all men can nurture the boys in our lives, reassure them and *show* them that men and boys can and do cry and show emotion.” But that’s the world we live in, sadly. Anyway, PolicyMic has a particularly good roundup of guys who participated in the hashtag holding signs, such as this gentleman above. Frisky readers who are men, perhaps you might think about participating yourselves? [PolicyMic]

The Soapbox: Misogynists Hate Men, Too

#YesAllWomen
#YesAllWomen: Women Tweets Stories Of Their Personhood Being Violated
Women tweet stories of their personhood being violated. Read More »
Elliot Rodger's Fury
Elliot Rodger
Not all men are dangerous, but yes, all women do live in fear of it. Read More »
Elliot Rodger Reading List
todays lady news
Thoughts on misogyny in the wake of the UCSB massacre. Read More »
Elliot Rodger

The absolute dumbest argument I’ve heard in response to Elliot Rodger’s killing spree last weekend was this: Rodger killed more men than women, so this had nothing to do with misogyny (subtext: So shut your feminist pie-hole).

It takes a lot of logical leaps to make that conclusion when you look at the overwhelming evidence to the contrary, not least of all the fact that Rodger himself explicitly stated that he hated women, that his purpose was to kill as many women as he could, that he felt that women were less than human, that his motivation was that he felt spurned by women.  To wit, from Rodger himself: “I don’t know why you girls aren’t attracted to me, but I will punish you all for it.”

It’s not important what the numbers are, to me.  The ratio of men to women killed or injured is largely circumstantial, and they don’t mean anything anyway, because — despite what a fair number of people apparently believe — misogynists hate men, too. Keep reading »

Elliot Rodger’s Parents Release Statement Expressing Their Grief

Elliot Rodger's Parents Release Statement Expressing Their Grief
"The feeling ... can only be described as Hell on earth."

This morning, a friend of Peter and Chin Rodger, parents of Isla Vista killer Elliot Rodger, appeared on ABC News to read a statement on their behalf:

“We are crying in pain for the victims and their families. It breaks our heart on a level we didn’t think possible. The feeling of knowing that it was our son’s actions that caused the tragedy can only be described as Hell on earth.”

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Elliot Rodger's Fury
Elliot Rodger
Not all men are dangerous, but yes, all women do live in fear of it. Read More »
Isla Vista Killer Identified
7 People Killed Near UC Santa Barbara, Including Gunman, Who Acted In "Retribution" For Women Rejecting His Advances
Elliot Rodger killed six and himself in "retribution" for female rejection. Read More »
Elliot Rodger's Racism
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"I always felt as if white girls thought less of me because I was half-Asian." Read More »

The Soapbox: “I Always Felt As If White Girls Thought Less Of Me Because I Was Half-Asian”: There Should Be More Discussion About Elliot Rodger’s Racism

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It feels like the entire Internet is having one big argument about Elliot Rodger, the 22-year-old who murdered six people near the UC Santa Barbara campus before killing himself last Friday.

Did he mostly have a problem with misogyny? Did he mostly have a problem with mental illness? Did he mostly have a problem with a spoiled and entitled upbringing? Is it possible it could be a combination of all of these things?

Like many people this weekend, I read (okay, briskly skimmed — he was not a good writer) his 140-page “manifesto,” “My Twisted World: The Story Of Elliot Rodger,” looking to better understand this tragedy. There’s plenty to unpack there, what with his misogynist, crazy ideas about women deserving to be placed in concentration camps and only used for sex. But what hasn’t gotten quite as much media attention is the area where Elliot Rodger’s misogynistic entitlement and his racist views intersected.  Keep reading »

A Reading List On Elliot Rodger, Misogyny & Toxic Masculinity

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There have been so many pieces analyzing UC Santa Barbara shooter Elliot Rodger and his extreme misogyny towards women. Here are a few must-read pieces:

Today’s Lady News will return to its normal news-roundup column tomorrow. 

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