Posts tagged "domination"

A Guide To Doing Anal With Your Boyfriend

As a professional dominatrix, and an all-around kinky lady, I love anal play. Your bum can play a delightful role in all sorts of fun, from a casual roll in the hay to the darkest, kinkiest scene ever. Sadly, homophobia and traditional sexual values mean that relatively few straight men consider asking to receive anal.

By: Margaret Corvid / September 11, 2014

Here’s A New Trailer For “Kink,” James Franco’s Documentary About BDSM Porn

"Kink," a documentary about the porn web site Kink.com, debuted in January at the Sundance Film Festival. Yesterday, the film, which explores the largest BDSM online porn empire, released a new trailer in anticipation of a limited release. I've heard complaints about the film — it's "boring" (which is unfortunately always something that some kinky…

By: Jessica Wakeman / August 21, 2014

Funny Girl Sex Guide: What Women Want In Bed But Might Be Afraid To Ask For

These days, I may be the queen of TMI, but I wasn’t always so comfortable talking about sex, let alone asking for what I wanted in bed. In the last few years, I’ve been a lot more openminded and in the process learned which kinky activities get me off — but asking for them? Sometime…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / June 17, 2014

Gabrielle Reece Is A Submissive Wife To Husband Laird Hamilton

Professional volleyball player Gabrielle Reese is promoting a new memoir, My Foot Is Too Big For The Glass Slipper, which hops on the bandwagon of a somewhat popular theme for memoirs-by-strong-ladies these days: she says her life and marriage have improved by being "submissive" to her husband, pro surfer Laird Hamilton. …

By: Jessica Wakeman / April 16, 2013

The Soapbox: On Abuse Within Kink (Or This One Time Some Really Bad Stuff Happened To Me)

Recently I went home with a kinky man after our first date. The experience phased in and out of being consensual throughout the night. I distinctly left his apartment feeling violated and I continued to feel violated for several days after. We found each other online because both of us were interested in dominant/submissive (D/s)…

By: Jessica Wakeman / March 14, 2013

Girl Talk: I Was A Dominatrix For A Day

I flogged a man last night. Despite my Bettie Page-lite haircut and a propensity for sexual experimentation, this is not something I have done before. I did have a very brief flirtation with the field of professional dominatrix-ing, but I never got beyond the training phase due to both a poor collegiate work ethic and…

By: Emily McCombs / November 4, 2010

Girl Talk: I Wanted To Be Dominated

I texted him as soon as I woke up. "What do you want me to wear today?" I brushed my teeth and washed my face while I waited for him to text me back. "White button-down shirt. Tuck it in. Your jeans. Flats. Put your hair in a ponytail. Send me a photo." I dressed…

By: Jessica Wakeman / March 2, 2010

5 Moves Women Love In Bed, But Can Be Too Afraid To Ask For

I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I've come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guy…

By: Jessica Wakeman / March 1, 2010

Why Do Strong Women Like To Be Dominated?

Imagine a woman: She has a college degree and a job, she pays for her own house and car, and she's not intimidated by any man for any reason. She's smart, independent and strong. Isn't it a puzzle, then, that she has sexual fantasies of being dominated? Actually, researchers say, it makes perfect sense.

By: Jessica Wakeman / May 29, 2009

Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Do You Like To Be Dominated?

I haven't met many men that like to be dominated on a regular basis, but most gals I know like to take charge in the bedroom, at least from time to time. Aside from obvious dominate/submissive relationships, how do regular ol' Joes feel about women taking charge between the sheets, both is subtle ways --…

By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / February 25, 2009