Posts tagged "dating tip"

Dating Don’ts: The Worst (And Best) Ways To Break Up With Someone

So, your relationship is coming to an end. You woke up one morning, rolled over and looked at the person next to you and felt nothing but anger, resentment, revulsion. You putter through your morning routine and start building the ammunition you need to finally get out of this relationship once and for all. The…
By: Megan Reynolds / November 4, 2014

Dating Don’ts: Three Tinder Strategies To Consider

Tinder is pretty basic, and at this point, everyone knows the drill. Swipe right if you like what you see, swipe left if you don’t. Message people at your leisure, while spending a lot of time dodging dicey messages from dudes you probably don’t want to talk to. Easy enough, but maybe your Tinder strategy…
By: Megan Reynolds / October 21, 2014

Dating Don’ts: 10 Places To Have Sex, Ranked From Best To Worst

Most people have sex in the pedestrian enclaves of their bedroom, on a Wednesday night, after prime-time television but before “The Daily Show." It’s a simple affair, but it's beautiful, because it works. The bedroom is a safe space with ALL the creature comforts you want when you’re doing it: clean sheets, water in plentiful…
By: Megan Reynolds / October 14, 2014

Dating Don’ts: How Not To Be A Jerk When You’re Dating Someone At Work

Working with someone that you’re dating takes a special kind of mental and emotional fortitude, the ability to keep two parts of your life distinct, with clear boundaries. It’s hard in the modern workplace. We spend so much time at work, and workplaces are getting more and more casual, making the boundaries shifting and fluid.
By: Megan Reynolds / October 7, 2014

Dater XY: Fun Is More Important Than Sex

When I was younger, when it came to my relationships I was mostly concerned with sex. (I assume this is shocking to no one.) I definitely had meaningful relationships, but at the time sex that was the crux of what I wanted. But as I grew older, sex became relatively less important while other qualities increased…
By: Dater XY / September 19, 2014

Dating Don’ts: Assorted Lessons & Observations From Watching “Dating Naked”

"Dating Naked" is a show on VH1 in which complete strangers gather at a resort somewhere tropical and mosquito-ridden and go on carefully staged dates with strangers, completely naked. It may sound like a ratings gamble, another entree in the already overrun category of dating shows, but the thing about it is that it’s actually…
By: Megan Reynolds / September 16, 2014

Dater XY: My Best Friend Is A Woman

My best friend is a woman. My best friend in college was a woman. In fact, a majority of my closest friends since college have been women. And this presents a problem in my dating life. There isn't one single reason why I have more female friends than male ones and if you looked at…
By: Dater XY / September 5, 2014

Dating Don’ts: What Your First Date Outfit Says About You

First dates inspire a low-level nausea and roiling dread for a variety of reasons. It could be horrible or  it could be amazing. Meeting a stranger at a bar contains a world of untold possibility. Maybe they’ll be your soulmate, someone that makes your heartstrings zing and your loins quiver. Maybe they’ll be the worst…
By: Megan Reynolds / September 2, 2014

Dating Don’ts: Is It A Booty Call Or Nah?

We've all been there. Someone you were hot and heavy with will suddenly disappear, as if wiped from this earth, only to reappear in the form of a typo-laden text message one night while you’re doing a face mask in your sweatpants. Like that mosquito that you try endlessly to kill before going to sleep,…
By: Megan Reynolds / August 19, 2014

Dating Don’ts: 5 Real Life Dating Lessons From “Kim Kardashian: Hollywood”

Kim Kardashian: Hollywood is a game in which a normal human being dresses themselves in a variety of hilariously tarted up clothes, changes their hair a lot and pursues fame with the same relentless zeal of The Frisky staff at a J. Crew sample sale.
By: Megan Reynolds / August 12, 2014

True Story: I’m A Woman Who Gets “Man Flu”

As a child, I was sick with relative frequency. I remember returning to third grade after a month off with mono, several pounds lighter, and my skin pale from lack of exposure to sun. As I walked in, all Colin from The Secret Garden, the bitchiest girl in the class announced "You’re, like, always sick."…
By: Phylisa Wisdom / August 8, 2014

Dating Don’ts: How To Handle Rejection In Dating

Like conducting a job search, online dating is an exercise in patience, compatibility, and, sometimes, rejection. It’s not romantic, but to a certain degree, the search for a suitable partner is not unlike the job hunt. You use the internet to varying degrees of success, clicking and writing emails and then clicking some more, and…
By: Megan Reynolds / July 29, 2014

Dating Don’ts: 5 Scenarios In Which It Is Totally Okay To Ghost

My best friend went on a date with a man who seemed fine at first — they sat at a neighborhood bar and talked for hours. They went on a second date, but this time, the dude tried every trick in the book to get her to come to his place and have sex. She…
By: Megan Reynolds / July 16, 2014

Funny Girl Sex Guide: 7 Things Men Say To Impress Women (That Really Don’t Work)

When it comes to dating, we all do silly things to impress the object of our affection. Women may spritz and slather a variety of chemical substances on their bodies, feign an interest in or knowledge of some subject, perhaps having to do with a ball, or make a big show of nailing that particularly…
By: Amelia McDonell-Parry / July 9, 2014

Dating Don’ts: Is It Really So Bad To Photoshop Your Online Dating Profile Pic?

I got into an debate with my friend the other day about a topic that I never thought I'd have to discuss — photoshopping your online dating profile picture. She's a recent adopter of OKCupid, and is what I would consider a power user,…
By: Megan Reynolds / June 24, 2014

Dating Donts: Let’s Talk About The Rules

I was sitting with a couple of smart women that I respect when the subject of dating came up, as it tends to do. “I read The Rules, and it changed my life,” one friend told me, in complete earnestness. “I swear by The Rules. They really work.” I was taken aback, and for good…
By: Megan Reynolds / June 17, 2014

Dating Don’ts: How To Juggle Dating Multiple People At The Same Time

There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with. One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they…
By: Megan Reynolds / June 10, 2014

4 Ways To Spot A Narcissist Before He Becomes Your Boyfriend

A cute guy walks up to you in a bar. He's totally full of himself, but makes you laugh as he flexes his muscles while telling you he's the best. This guy is a narcissist, right? Not necessarily.
By: Carolyn Castiglia / June 9, 2014

Dating Don’ts: The Case For Being The Third Wheel

I am the only person in my friend group not in a relationship, a swinging single floating in the midst of the happily coupled. Nights out are often curtailed early. Someone’s boyfriend is tired, someone else’s boyfriend has the stomach flu. One couple stayed out too late and now has to go home to rest…
By: Megan Reynolds / June 3, 2014

Cosmopolitan Declares Techie Guys Are “Trending” — Here’s What I Know About Dating Them

Well, Mark Zuckerberg, you've finally made it: Cosmopolitan has written an article on the pros and cons — sorry, make that bros and cons — of dating a "start-up techie." You may not have had much success with girls at Harvard, but according to Cosmo, your type is now "trending" as "Hollywood It…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 19, 2014
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