Posts tagged "dating story"

Life After Dating: Cohabitating For The First Time In More Than A Decade

So you’ve finally found The One (or at least The One For The Foreseeable Future) and you’ve committed to a serious relationship. Now what? In our weekly column, Life After Dating, women discuss the unique joys and challenges of coupledom. When Jeff and I moved in together -- after six months of dating -- it wa…

By: Ami Angelowicz / March 10, 2014

Girl Talk: Finding Closure After A Non-Breakup

It’s really difficult to talk about the end of a relationship when you haven’t exactly had a breakup. “Well, how did it end?” someone inevitably asks. "Umm … I left him a heart-wrenching voicemail," seems too embarrassing an answer. I dated someone for more than eight months until he completely ghosted. I honestly thought this only…

By: AnnMarie Carson / March 10, 2014

Flashback: Revisiting The Post “Oops: A Guy Asked Me On A Date And I Laughed At Him”

Next week, I’m celebrating a BIG birthday: 30! In acknowledgment of the fact that I’ve spent over half of my 20s working at The Frisky, I’m going to reach down deep into to archives and revisit some old posts. I’ll examine what I wrote at the time and how that has or hasn’t changed. If

By: Jessica Wakeman / March 7, 2014

True Story: I Left Men For A Woman

“I’m really attracted to you, you know?” I sat in the middle of an Italian restaurant, frozen in disbelief at this audacious declaration. I sipped some wine and awkwardly laughed, my cheeks growing redder by the minute. Waiters and waitresses drifted past. I nibbled a tiramisu and drank another glass of rosé. But all I…

By: Victorine Lamothe / March 6, 2014

Dater X: There’s No Such Thing As The Perfect Guy…Or Is There?

Sometimes in life, opportunities come along that seem way too good to be true: a promising job offer that allows you to work from home with unlimited sick days, winning an all-expenses-paid trip for two to Bermuda, and in my case, meeting a man online who goes by the handle HoopTR46.  I opened his message…

By: Dater X / March 5, 2014

Dealbreaker: He Didn’t Tell Me He Was Engaged Until We Were About To Have Sex

Mike* added me on Facebook and struck up conversation the day after our mutual friend – who was under the impression that we were both single and searching – set us up. We hit it off immediately. I did all the relevant Google stalking research, watched YouTube videos where he discussed important things he learned…

By: Sarah Griffin / February 28, 2014

Dater X: Owning Up To My Dating Dealbreakers

Now that I've been single for a couple of weeks, I've been upping my online dating game in hopes of meeting some eligible bachelors. I spent a solid three hours this weekend updating my OKCupid profile, adding new photos of myself and just seeing what's out there, and I even created a profile on HowAboutWe.com.

By: Dater X / February 26, 2014

Girl Talk: It Isn’t Easy Dating Someone With OCD

At the beginning of our relationship, my now-wife “Charlotte” came over to my place for the first time and my room was immaculate. The pens and pencils on my desk were organized in straight lines. You could have bounced a quarter off my bed.  Even the photos and posters on the wall were a study…

By: Victorine Lamothe / February 24, 2014

Dater X: Missing Him Or Missing The Idea Of Him?

Well, I successfully made it through Valentine's Day without needing Xanax or calling an ex-boyfriend, so I'd say it was a great success. But before I headed out on February 14th for a singles' feast and game night with some of my favorite ladies, I heard from Officer Handsoming. Shocked to see his name appear…

By: Dater X / February 19, 2014

Dater X: Another One Bites The Dust

Officer Handsoming arrived at my apartment with a carton of chicken noodle soup in one hand and a greasy bag of french fries in the other, unsure which I preferred when nursing a hangover. How thoughtful, I said to myself while we plopped down on my couch to watch "Silver Linings Playbook." I cracked ope…

By: Dater X / February 12, 2014

The Ghosts Of Valentine’s Day Past: In Which Ami Cohabitates With Seven Cats

Whether you’re currently single or coupled up, it’s always interesting to ponder how different your life might look if you’d made different relationship choices along the way. What if you’d stayed with the wrong guy, settled for the good-enough guy, gone on one date instead of another, or said “yes” instead of “no” (or vice

By: Ami Angelowicz / February 7, 2014

Dater X: Love On Borrowed Time

In between his overnight shifts this weekend, my boyfriend (that's the first time I'm calling him that, and it's weird considering he might soon be my ex-boyfriend) called me to check in and see how I was doing. Around Wednesday, I found myself in a bit of an emotional funk, feeling unsettled in pretty much…

By: Dater X / February 5, 2014

Life After Dating: My First Coupled Valentine’s Day Is Going To Be Anticlimactic

So you’ve finally found The One (or at least The One For The Foreseeable Future) and you’ve committed to a serious relationship. Now what? In our new weekly column, Life After Dating, we’ll discuss the unique joys and challenges of coupledom. "What should we do for Valentine's Day?" I asked my boyfriend. He shrugged. I shrugged…

By: Ami Angelowicz / February 3, 2014

Dater X: I Was Worrying About The Wrong Thing

Officer Handsoming and I had "the talk." Well, sort of. I knew that if I didn't bring up our relationship status soon, my exclusivity limbo anxiety would bubble up inside of me and explode. So, I forced myself to ask. "I have a question," I started. "I want you to be honest. Are you seeing…

By: Dater X / January 29, 2014

Dating Don’ts: On Loving Someone With Mental Illness

For the majority of my last relationship, my partner was in the throes of a slowly unwinding nervous breakdown. He moved to New York at the same time I did, and lived for a brief period in a state of almost too much togetherness, bound because we loved each other, but also because we didn’t…

By: Megan Reynolds / January 28, 2014

Dealbreaker: He Kicked My Dog

I walked into a posh, new restaurant in Alphabet City and asked a guy in a black suit (amidst other guys in ratty chinos and un-tucked oxford shirts) about my reservation. Like a gentleman, he laughed and explained in a sexy Aussie accent that he wore a suit because he was a sharp dresser, not…

By: Valerie Singer / January 23, 2014

Dater X: Greetings From Exclusivity Limbo

There’s no worse feeling than not knowing. And after Patrick Bateman’s web of lies (which, let’s be honest, will probably haunt me for the rest of my life), I feel the need for constant relationship reassurance. I hate the unanswered questions, and I hate the unknown. Officer Handsoming and I are currently in that unknown,…

By: Dater X / January 22, 2014

The 6 Stages Of Discovering That Someone You Used To Date Has A Kid

Maybe I should be over this by age 35, when the vast majority of my peers are on the procreation train and it's just something I should be expecting, but I still feel a twinge of, I don't even know what to call the feeling, when I discover that a guy I used to date…

By: Ami Angelowicz / January 21, 2014

Dater X: Compatibility Is All In The Details

I’m happy to report that things are, for the first time in a long time, going well in my love life. In fact, they’re really great. Over the last month and a half, Officer Handsoming and I have hit upon pretty much every “getting to know you,” milestone appropriate for a six-week courtship, making thi…

By: Dater X / January 15, 2014

Dating Don’ts: Why Dating Younger Is Not For Me

I am the oldest of four girls, a pack of sisters who descend in age like uneven stair steps, from 31 to 29 to 26 to 23. As the eldest of this pack, I am a consummate older sister — bossy, with a tendency towards lecturing, and a fondness for teaching “lessons.” In the context…

By: Megan Reynolds / January 14, 2014
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