Posts tagged "dating story"

Sex Fail: I Broke My Boyfriend’s Penis

One time, when I was 17, I broke my boyfriend's penis. We had been cooped up for days in his mother's basement which had a kitchenette and a bathroom and a TV, so we saw no reason to leave. This was summer in East LA, so the sounds that floated in our window were of chicke…

By: YourTango.com / July 27, 2014

Dater X: Of Course, It’s Too Early To Know If He’s The One

For the past 10 months or so that I've been sharing my love life with you as Dater X, my search for a soul mate has gone from a persistent, relentless hunt to a deeper understanding of myself and of what I'm looking for in a lifelong partner. It's not always easy to hop o…

By: Dater X / July 23, 2014

Dater X: A Great Date & An Epic Fall

It was only a day or so after things crashed and burned on my date with Jack when OKCupid emailed me a "match," alerting me that someone was interested. After checking out my match's lengthy profile, which was refreshing to see since lots of guys write the bare minimum, he seemed to have a lot…

By: Dater X / July 15, 2014

9 Tips For Taking On Jealousy

Of all the ugly emotions out there, jealousy has to be one of the worst. It can feel childish, petty and almost like a primal rage. But it's also inescapable; jealousy is almost like an epic equalizer, because everybody feels it now and then. On the path toward emotional growth, jealousy is one of the hardest…

By: Claire Hannum / July 11, 2014

Girl Talk: 5 Red Flags That Told Me To Leave

He seemed sweet at first. In fact, he had many sweet moments. But then there was the other stuff … Abusive behavior isn't as simple as we, as a society, want it to be. We often think that the kinds of signs that tell you a man could be abusive are very obvious. We imagine…

By: Meghan Murphy / July 10, 2014

Dater X: Three Strikes, You’re Out

Last week, I went on my first date with Jack, the young publicist I met through work. And after I tell you all what occurred on that date, I'm confident you will understand why my first date with Jack was also our last. After taking the initiative to ask Jack out, I figured I'd let…

By: Dater X / July 9, 2014

Dater X: My First Younger Man?

To give you all an update, my Stage Five Clinger is still clinging. After several days without hearing from him, which was of course the desired result from our very matter-of-fact chat, he sent me a message over the weekend that said "Hey, thinking of you and thought I'd say hi." I obviously completely ignored…

By: Dater X / July 2, 2014

Dater X: We’ve Got A Stage-Five Clinger, Folks

Like everybody else in America, I decided to jump on the World Cup bandwagon last week and headed to a bar after work to catch a game with friends. When one of my girlfriends showed up with a few of her co-workers, I noticed  that I'd caught the eye of one of her colleagues. Well…

By: Dater X / June 25, 2014

Girl Talk: Maybe I’m Just Not Cut Out To Have A “Fuck Buddy”

When I broke up with my ex about a month ago, I was determined to rebound as quickly as possible. No wallowing this time; it was over and I was moving on. It was almost too convenient that I was presented with an immediate distraction. Jack was someone I'd known for years; we were never…

By: Meghan Murphy / June 23, 2014

Dater X: Getting Back On The Horse

The first week after a breakup is always the most difficult. The rejection is fresh and the sting still burns, which makes it that much harder to remind yourself that the relationship is over, and that, despite how it feels at the time, things will get better. Those first few days are also crucial i…

By: Dater X / June 18, 2014

Dating Donts: Let’s Talk About The Rules

I was sitting with a couple of smart women that I respect when the subject of dating came up, as it tends to do. “I read The Rules, and it changed my life,” one friend told me, in complete earnestness. “I swear by The Rules. They really work.” I was taken aback, and for good…

By: Megan Reynolds / June 17, 2014

Dater X: A Breakup I’ll Never Forget

It went as perfectly perfect as a breakup could go, I suppose. Only a few days after my last Dater X post, when I told you all about my hopes of moving things forward with Andrew, he came over to my place to hang out and, without warning, dropped a bomb on me. As usual,…

By: Dater X / June 11, 2014

True Story: Unfriending My Ex-Boyfriend On Facebook Was One Of The Most Empowering Choices I’ve Ever Made

I did it. I actually did it. What may sound unsubstantial, I experienced with a great deal of deliberation ending in elation. I felt heroic even. What I had always imagined was simple for others felt practically impossible to me. Yes, I'm talking about the ex-boyfriend unfriend.

By: Meghan Murphy / June 5, 2014

An Open Letter To The Gawker Essayist Who Wrote About Dating White Women While Black

Dear Ernest Baker, In your recent personal essay on Gawker titled "The Reality of Dating White Women When You Are Black," you stated unequivocally that you are not a "sell out" because you are a Black man who chooses to seriously date only White women. As a 24-year-old Black woman with very similar life circumstances,…

By: Tiffanie Drayton / June 4, 2014

Dealbreaker: An Adult Who’s Obsessed With Disney

The day I realized that Kyle and I weren't going to get married was the day he told me how he'd always dreamed of honeymooning at Disneyland Paris. My family was into nature. Most of our vacations were spent hiking through national parks. But Kyle's family went to the same place every single year: Disney…

By: Rachel Brisk / May 30, 2014

Dater X: I’ve Got A Case Of The “What Ifs”

For the first time in a while, I feel like I'm entering into a relationship at a healthy, comfortable pace. Things with Andrew are exactly where they should be: we're becoming more open with each other emotionally and physically, we've met each other's friends (and I've even met some of his family members), we continue…

By: Dater X / May 28, 2014

Dater X: State Of The Union

I've always been told that true love will find you when you're least expecting it. I've always thought that was a load of bullshit. Like I’m supposed to believe that right after you, for example, decide to ease up on your hunt for a soulmate and embrace your single status, a guy who noticed you

By: Dater X / May 21, 2014

Dater X: Rethinking The Ex-Factor

To say I was shocked when I saw my ex-boyfriend Don's name pop up on my phone last month is an understatement. But since then, we've been casually chatting, exchanging text messages here and there and rekindling our friendship. As difficult as it was not having him around for a while, I can now sleep easy knowing…

By: Dater X / May 14, 2014

Dating Don’ts: To Swipe Left Or Right? Some Thoughts On Tinder

My first experience with Tinder was on the patio of my favorite bar one night last summer, sitting with friend. "You have to try this app," she told me. "You're gonna love it." I was out of a relationship, not interested in dating, but needed some sort of nudge to get me back in the…

By: Megan Reynolds / May 13, 2014

Life After Dating: A Relationship Is Not Bubble Wrap

We live in a culture that values coupledom and biological families over anything else. This is especially true for women, who are seen as more relationship-oriented than men. We hold romantic relationships up as the ultimate end goal, the prize, the be-all and end-all. We tend to believe this regardless of whether a particular pairing…

By: Jessica Wakeman / May 12, 2014
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