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Dater XY: How To Deal With Dating Fatigue

Dating. It’s a hard knock life.

You start out excited about the possibilities and hit the ground running. This excitement eventually fades to…

Dater XY | October 30, 2014 - 12:30 pm

Dater XY: How Long Will This Sexual Hangover Last?

Last Wednesday, The Chewer called to ask if I’d like to go on another date this weekend. I had been leaning against the “post-sex guilt”

Dater XY | October 23, 2014 - 12:00 pm

Dater XY: The Post-Sex Guilt Date

A woman I’ll call The Chewer (it’ll make sense soon) and I first messaged each other shortly after things ended with The Teacher over a two months ago. We hit…

Dater XY | October 16, 2014 - 1:30 pm

Dater XY: Check Yourself Before Your Misrepresent Yourself

Most of us tend to portray a glossed over picture of our lives online. We cherry pick what we share and make sure our lives look like the best thing…

Dater XY | October 9, 2014 - 2:00 pm

Dater XY: Did Chemistry Ghost Us?

They come few and far between but we all have them. You know, those first dates that make you think, Wow, is this the one? I had one of these…

Dater XY | October 2, 2014 - 12:30 pm

Dater XY: It’s In Her Kiss … Or Not

I mostly use Tinder to pass the time on the subway. But about three weeks ago, I matched with The Marathoner. Given the information provided in one’s Tinder profile, all…

Dater XY | September 25, 2014 - 12:00 pm

Dater XY: Fun Is More Important Than Sex

When I was younger, when it came to my relationships I was mostly concerned with sex. (I assume this is shocking to no one.) I definitely had meaningful relationships, but at…

Dater XY | September 19, 2014 - 1:00 pm

Dater XY: How Many Women Is Too Many To Date At Once?

It has been a few weeks since I called things off with The Teacher. Things just weren’t going in the direction I wanted, so I began my search again. Since…

Dater XY | September 11, 2014 - 12:00 pm

Dater XY: My Best Friend Is A Woman

My best friend is a woman. My best friend in college was a woman. In fact, a majority of my closest friends since college have been women. And this presents…

Dater XY | September 5, 2014 - 12:00 pm

Dater XY: I’ve Got A Booty Call Plus

Welcome to our new weekly column Dater XY! Our anonymous MALE dater will be revealing the adventures and misadventures of finding love from a dude’s point of view. Let’s give him

Dater XY | August 28, 2014 - 12:00 pm