Posts tagged "dater x"

Dater X: Rethinking The Ex-Factor

To say I was shocked when I saw my ex-boyfriend Don's name pop up on my phone last month is an understatement. But since then, we've been casually chatting, exchanging text messages here and there and rekindling our friendship. As difficult as it was not having him around for a while, I ca…
By: Dater X / May 14, 2014

Dater X: When Exes Intimidate

It's been a month to the day since I met Andrew, my surprisingly charming OKCupid run-in who recognized me and introduced himself out at a bar. We've been hanging out pretty consistently over the last few weeks, going on dates every few days, and continuing to get to know each other. I can honestly…
By: Dater X / May 7, 2014

Dater X: What “Happily Single” Means To Me

A few weeks ago, I abandoned my practice of ruthlessly hunting down a husband like a poacher on the hunt for ivory tusks in favor of focusing on my own personal growth and being the happiest single woman I can be. Since then, I met and have gone on a few dates with…
By: Dater X / April 30, 2014

Dater X: Height Or Flight? On Ditching My Dating Dealbreaker

When it comes to dating, I have a lot of preferences. I'd prefer to end up with someone who shares my religion, my political views and my musical interests. I'd prefer to find a man who has a college education, a job he enjoys and tight-knit family. But those are preferences— not dealbreakers. If I…
By: Dater X / April 23, 2014

Dater X: An Unexpected (And Surprisingly Pleasant) OKCupid Run-In

The other night when a number I didn't recognize flashed on my phone, I decided to answer the call and was greeted with a cheerful, "Hey there, it's Andrew." "Andrew?" I replied, clearly confused about who was on the other end of the line. "I'm sorry. Andrew who?" "From the bar on Saturday night. You…
By: Dater X / April 16, 2014

Dater X: Is It Really Possible To Be “Just Friends” With An Ex?

Just as I began to feel satisfied and confident with my relationship-free self, guess who came back to throw a wrench in things and screw up my single girl feng shui? My college boyfriend, and one of the few men I've ever really loved:…
By: Dater X / April 9, 2014

Dater X: Being The Happiest Single Woman I Can Be

A few years ago, feeling stuck in a dead-end job, depressed, and lost in love, a friend of mine suggested I see her psychic, Donna, to help guide me through my tough time. I believed, and still do believe, in psychic abilities,…
By: Dater X / April 2, 2014

Dater X: Adventures In Ghostbusting

On my fourth, excruciating day of not hearing from GQ, I was still racking my brain for possible reasons he could have ghosted. But I knew it was time to accept the fact that things were over between us. I knew I…
By: Dater X / March 26, 2014

Dater X: I’ve Been Ghosted And It’s Bringing Up All The Feelings

It's been two days since I've heard from GQ, and to be honest, I'm in an anxiety spiral. Although there's still a tiny part of me that's hoping for the best, it appears I've been ghosted. Last week, as I mentioned, I happily accepted whe…
By: Dater X / March 19, 2014

Dater X: So This Is What Easy Feels Like

When GQ and I met up at a trendy Italian restaurant on our second date, he immediately reminded me how different he is from other guys I've dated. He kissed me hello, opened the door for me, put his hand on the…
By: Dater X / March 12, 2014

Dater X: There’s No Such Thing As The Perfect Guy…Or Is There?

Sometimes in life, opportunities come along that seem way too good to be true: a promising job offer that allows you to work from home with unlimited sick days, winning an all-expenses-paid trip for two to Bermuda, and in my case, meeting a man online who goes by the handle HoopTR46.
By: Dater X / March 5, 2014

Dater X: Owning Up To My Dating Dealbreakers

Now that I've been single for a couple of weeks, I've been upping my online dating game in hopes of meeting some eligible bachelors. I spent a solid three hours this weekend…
By: Dater X / February 26, 2014

Dater X: Missing Him Or Missing The Idea Of Him?

Well, I successfully made it through Valentine's Day without needing Xanax or calling an ex-boyfriend, so I'd say it was a great success. But before I headed out on February 14th for a singles' feast and game night with some of my favorite…
By: Dater X / February 19, 2014

Dater X: Another One Bites The Dust

Officer Handsoming arrived at my apartment with a carton of chicken noodle soup in one hand and a greasy bag of french fries in the other, unsure which I preferred when nursing a hangover. How thoughtful, I said to myself while we plopped down on my couch to…
By: Dater X / February 12, 2014

Dater X: Love On Borrowed Time

In between his overnight shifts this weekend, my boyfriend (that's the first time I'm calling him that, and it's weird considering he might soon be my ex-boyfriend) called me to check in and see how I was doing. Around Wednesday, I found myself in a bit of a…
By: Dater X / February 5, 2014

Dater X: I Was Worrying About The Wrong Thing

Officer Handsoming and I had "the talk." Well, sort of. I knew that if I didn't bring up our relationship status soon, my exclusivity limbo anxiety would bubble up inside of me and explode. So, I…
By: Dater X / January 29, 2014

Dater X: Greetings From Exclusivity Limbo

There’s no worse feeling than not knowing. And after Patrick Bateman’s web of lies (which, let’s be honest, will probably haunt me for the rest of my life), I feel the need for constant relationship reassurance. I hate the unanswered questions, and I hate…
By: Dater X / January 22, 2014

Dater X: Compatibility Is All In The Details

I’m happy to report that things are, for the first time in a long time, going well in my love life. In fact, they’re really great. Over the last month and a half, Officer Handsoming and I have hit upon pretty much every “getting…
By: Dater X / January 15, 2014

Dater X: My Cheating Ex-Boyfriend Got Married

"Any Patrick Bateman news?" I jokingly asked my friends Rick and Beth. "Last time I heard anything about Patrick Bateman was right before his wedding," said Rick. I nearly choked on my water.  “HE’S MARRIED?! TO WHO?” He and Beth exchanged an “oh shit, we thought she knew" look. “That girl. The other one he…
By: Dater X / January 8, 2014

Dater X: The Ghosts Of Exes Past

Everything went swimmingly on date number two with Officer Handsoming. In fact, it was perfect. Much to my delight, he did not morph into a stage-five clinger, ask my breast size or give me any indication that we will ever end up on a…
By: Dater X / December 18, 2013