As someone who’s not a big fan of receiving oral sex, when a man goes down on me I tend to think about all the other things I could or should be doing: Did I email my editor? Will I have time to do laundry after this? I wonder if Law & Order is a […]
According to an article issue of Esquire, the blow job is all but becoming extinct in favor of cunnilingus. In an informal poll, conducted by the writer Geoff Dyer, eight out of 10 of his “more mature male friends” preferred “eating p**sy to having their dicks sucked.” And guess what? The two who preferred BJs were gay! […]
For many women, achieving an orgasm during sex with a partner is a complicated quest. What might be easy as pie when you’re alone becomes much, much, much more difficult when put in the eager, hopefully capable hands of another. This is something that understandably is probably a little hard for men to understand — […]
Back in 2011, Michael Douglas famously told a reporter that his form of throat cancer was caused by giving cunnilingus — but that cunnilingus was also “the best cure for it.” As you might expect, this is wholly inaccurate, and Douglas is now backpedaling, saying that he was trying to “make a public service comment,” […]
Welcome to the second installment of Lights, Camera, ACTION. Each month, Rachel Vorona Cote chooses an erotic scene from film or television and walks you through its quirks and kinks, particularly as they pertain to female lived experience. Darren Aronofsky’s “Black Swan” is the sort of film that scorns subtlety. Black, white, and a naïve, […]
My first thought upon opening my new LELO Ora Oral Sex Simulator was “How the hell does this thing work?” My second thought was, “Who cares how it works? This is the prettiest sex toy I’ve ever seen.” It could honestly pass for something Kate Middleton would use, because it’s gold and fancy and doesn’t […]
Editor’s Note After multiple women accused James Deen of rape and sexual assault in November 2015, The Frisky made the immediate decision to end our affiliation with the porn star and to cancel his sex advice column with the site. In addition to believing it would be inappropriate to continue publishing sex advice from someone […]
Going down on your partner can be very intimidating. We’ve all been there. The pressure is only on you and you’re trying your best to see if what you’re doing is working for them… Just kidding—straight women haven’t really been there because simply through the osmosis of our culture’s obsession with dick talk, we all basically […]
You really can buy anything on Amazon these days, even a pussy snorkel. And not just any pussy snorkel, but one that glows in the dark for those more intimate moments. Everyone take a break to spit out their coffee. The product is designed to allow a “man to continue breathing while performing oral sex […]
