Posts tagged "class"

The Soapbox: On The Sacrifices Expected Of Immigrant Nannies

I have a deep-seated resentment of White parents who specifically hire Black immigrant women or people of color as nannies. Whenever I go to the park or take a stroll through New York City on any day of the work week and see large groups of Black or minority women pushing strollers with little blonde…

By: Tiffanie Drayton / December 24, 2014

What Women Mean When We Call Each Other “Sluts” And “Whores”

It's no secret that women use the words "slut" and "whore" to describe other women. Now, a new study of college-aged women sheds more light on just why young women use these slurs. You might be as surprised as I was to find out what's really at play here: the slur is not meant to…

By: Jessica Wakeman / May 28, 2014

I Haven’t Had An Abortion, But I Would

It was a Tuesday afternoon and I was on my therapist's couch. I described for her an incident over the weekend when I felt sad, deeply sad, for seemingly no reason at all. I had felt reclusive and shy and wanted to stay in my bed; when my husband encouraged me to go to a…

By: Jessica Wakeman / February 26, 2014

Breaking News: You Can Be A Feminist And A Stay-At-Home Mom

I expected the worst when I heard that that New York magazine would be writing an article about "The Retro Wife," about how some liberal feminists are embracing retro lifestyles by staying-at-home. Well, I didn't expect the worst. But I expected your typical scoopfuls of women-don't-need-or-want-feminism-anymore BS, which, as Anna North at BuzzFeed Shift notes,…

By: Jessica Wakeman / March 19, 2013

Hitched: Beyoncé And The Luxury Of Playing “Mrs. Carter”

Like everyone else in the country with excellent taste and a belly full of adult beverages, I very much enjoyed Beyoncé's half-time performance at the Super Bowl on Sunday. I loved her all-woman band, particularly Bibi McGill’s spark-shooting axe. I loved the Destiny’s Child reunion. I loved that my Beyoncé half-time BINGO card included a…

By: Andrea Grimes / February 6, 2013

No Abortion Access? You’re At Increased Risk For Poverty

Denying women access to abortion services makes women more likely to fall below the poverty line in the subsequent years, according to a study out of the University of San Francisco. Which, if you think about it, makes sense: many women who have abortions are already mothers and choose to terminate a pregnancy rather tha…

By: Jessica Wakeman / November 13, 2012

The Soapbox: Why You Shouldn’t Intern At Anthropologie

My relationship with Anthropologie is love-hate. I love the company’s handpicked, one-of-a-kind eclectic look. I hate the fact that my loving this stuff only underscores the fact that I am in no way unique and that I have been corporate-brainwashed just like the rest of you ladies who just can’t get enough pencil skirts, ruffled…

By: Melissa Petro / September 20, 2012

What’s A “Stay-At-Home Girlfriend”?

Linkbait — (noun), an article written online for the sole purpose of trying to draw traffic. You've heard of stay-at-home-moms — now it's time to meet a "stay-at-home-girlfriend." Writing on the Brooklyn-based blog Brokelyn, blogger Quiana Stokes described how she recently lost her job and is now a "stay-at-home-girlfriend" in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, playing house and…

By: Jessica Wakeman / February 22, 2011