Posts tagged "bdsm"

7 Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Vanilla Girls

Are you ladies more kinky than you're admitting? Considering the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, the erotica book burning the laps of lady readers across the country, I’m guessing you gals might be a tad kink-curious. Of course, there is a difference between reading about kinky sex and actually doing it-- but both can be…
By: Rachel White / March 16, 2012

Dr. Drew Is Mansplaining Your Sexual Desires For You, “50 Shades Of Grey” Fans

Dr. Drew Pinsky is utterly clueless about about bondage, dominance, and sadomascochism in relationships and has no business discussing them on national television. That is my conclusion after seeing Dr. Drew brought in as an "expert," and yes those air quotes are intentional, on "The Today Show" recently to discuss the book 50 Shade…
By: Jessica Wakeman / March 14, 2012

First Time For Everything: Being A Dominatrix

Yes, I was nervous, but mostly I was excited. It was my first day as Mistress Darkness, a professional dominatrix. As a black graduate student in her 20s who had previously held down employment as a gym teacher and library assistant, I surprised myself when I answered  the ad on Craigslist. I needed a flexible, part-time…
By: Niki Drayton / February 2, 2012

Keira Knightley Wouldn’t Let Michael Fassbender Spank Her

"I actually said to him before we shot the spanking scenes, 'If you touch me I will kill you' and he did remind me that I was tied to a bed at the time and really I shouldn't be making any threats. ... [those scenes] weren't particularly easy."   — Keira Knightley, idiot girl, didn't want…
By: Jessica Wakeman / November 10, 2011

Dominatrix Suspended From New York Attorney General’s Office

Lawyers in the New York Attorney General's office are used to cracking down on bad boys. But in Alisha Smith's case, bad boys may have been paying her top dollar for a public spanking from "Alisha Spark," her dominatrix alter ego. There are also allegedly photographs of "Alisha Spark" on the internet posing i…
By: Jessica Wakeman / September 20, 2011

Crystal Renn Is Into Bondage

There is a magazine out there called Tush. That is the first important piece of business I would like to note. Also, model Crystal Renn looks surprised to be in a leather collar/leash type of thing, as photographed by Ellen Von Unwerth. Maybe she needs some S&M tips from Rihanna? [NYMag.com]…
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 8, 2011

Today’s Lady News: “In The Bedroom, Inequality Beats Equality”

"Men are aroused by being dominant and by submissive women, women are aroused by being submissive and by dominant men," writes Ogi Ogas, Ph.D. in Psychology Today. "In the bedroom, inequality beats equality." Those broad sweeping statements are fighting words, PT! Speaking strictly for myself, I agree with Ogi. But I wonder if other…
By: Jessica Wakeman / April 11, 2011

Rihanna Loves A Good Spanking

"Being submissive in the bedroom is really fun. You get to be a little lady, to have somebody be macho and in charge of your s**t. That's fun to me ... I like to be spanked. Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous. Sometimes whips and chains ca…
By: Jessica Wakeman / March 30, 2011

Rihanna Spanks Perez Hilton In Her New Video For “S&M”

You don't have to love S&M to love Rihanna's new music video for "S&M," but it certainly helps! The pop princess' ode to bondage, dominance and sadomasochism features bondage gear, pink latex, ball gags, and leather switches, and stars gossip blogger Perez Hilton lead around on a leash. (And yes, the fact…
By: Jessica Wakeman / February 1, 2011

The Top 10 Reasons Women Watch Porn

Recently, it was revealed that 17 members of the SEC were downloading large quantities of porn at work while the nation's economy was going down the toilet. The real shocker? While many who heard the story assumed -- unthinkingly -- all of those SEC employees were men, at least one of them was a…
By: Susannah Breslin / April 26, 2010

Frisky Q & A: Melissa Febos, Ex-Dominatrix And Author Of “Whip Smart: A Memoir”

A dominatrix: all of us know what one is. But let's be honest: few of us actually know a woman who earns her living as one (that we're aware of, anyway). But you'll become, ahem, intimately familiar with one after reading the recently published book, Whip Smart: A Memoir, by Melissa Febos.
By: Jessica Wakeman / April 21, 2010

Why Do Strong Women Like To Be Dominated?

Imagine a woman: She has a college degree and a job, she pays for her own house and car, and she's not intimidated by any man for any reason. She's smart, independent and strong. Isn't it a puzzle, then, that she has sexual fantasies of being dominated? Actually, researchers say, it makes perfect sense.
By: Jessica Wakeman / May 29, 2009

Doin’ It With Dr. V: Spanking

Hi, I’m Dr. V. I’m not a real doctor, I just play one on the Internet. What I am is a lady, a lady who is a fool for love! And I love nothing more than sex. My deepest desires have happily led me on many adventures in the sack, but they have also, sadly,…
By: Dr. V / January 9, 2009

Dominatrixes: Hit Hard, Hit Back

What could torture a dominatrix? Only a bad economy! It’s been a world of pain for the sex workers who have been complaining about the recession. While prostitutes are reporting record business and lay people are doing it like bunnies, the niche market has been beaten down.
By: Simcha / October 24, 2008

If Britain’s S&M Scene Is Secret, Why Are So Many People Commenting?

BBC News published an article on Britain's "secretive "S&M scene" yesterday, saying that Max Mosley's antics are really opening people up. (He had a sadomasochistic session with five prostitutes, with whom he engaged in a concentration camp scenario.) The comments in response to the story are great though, because many BDSM practitioners defend…
By: Catherine Strawn / July 15, 2008
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