P*rnhub and chill Plenty of women watch adult videos by themselves when they are needing to get off. There’s a small, but growing market of adult films targeted at straight women. I remember ten years ago I had to purchase DVDs of them, where the scenes are less agressive, the men are better looking, and […]
Spank you very much? Spanking in the bedroom is a curious thing. Once a source of punishment for many of us as children, it frequently becomes a turn on when we are grown and getting down. A few spanks as foreplay or during the act can be a nice unexpected surprise (if everyone is down […]
Recently, I’ve been talking to people in the BDSM community about the sexual assault allegations made against porn star James Deen by a dozen women late last year, and noticed that a number of the men I spoke with had a look of nervousness flash across their face when the subject came up. So, I started […]
From Zero to Hero Sometimes, life changes are slow and happen over time. Other times, you can point to a specific incident that sets you on a different path for the rest of your life. The latter was the case for this blogger after her first time in a kinky BDSM bar in Japan. You […]
Any tips on getting someone to unleash and act more dominate during sex? I want my boyfriend to fuck like you, but I don’t think showing him your work and saying “be more like him” is a good idea. I would love for you to be able to have awesome sex, and the type of […]
I lost my early 20s to depression. The most fun I had during that time was not wearing pants while frying bacon. I went from being a successful event promoter to being a shut in who only left the house for food and books. If you’re wondering how to put on 90lbs in under three […]
Are you intrigued about the erotic, consensual power play involved with BDSM, but aren’t sure you are ready just yet to make an investment in a full-scale dungeon? Well, we have good news for you: You can incorporate BDSM elements into your partnered sex life without needing to master dozens of various rope ties or […]
Let’s set the scene: I’m 23, drinking chai in a charming coffee shop. Sitting across from me is a gloriously burly guy in a leather jacket (and, as I know from his Fetlife photos, also in possession of two equally glorious full sleeves of serpent tattoos). Then the conversation veers from what we do for […]
Are you ladies more kinky than you are admitting? Considering the popularity of “50 Shades of Gray,” the erotica book burning the laps of lady readers across the country, I’m guessing you gals might be a tad kink-curious. Of course, there is a difference between reading about kinky sex and actually doing it– but both […]
