Tag: bdsm

The UK’s BDSM Ban In Porn And Cultural Condescension

UK’s Parliament has gone off the deep end with sexual regulation by amending their 2003 Communications Act to ban certain sexual acts in video-on-demand porn produced in the UK. The acts included are: Spanking Caning Aggressive whipping Penetration by any object “associated with violence” Physical or verbal abuse (regardless of  if consensual) Urolagnia (known as […]

A Woman Will Be On The Ten-Dollar Bill

Best: Hillary Clinton is pushing for businesses to develop paid apprenticeship rather than unpaid internship programs in order to create skilled jobs for young people who will then be able to move smoothly into the workforce. The internship industry has been widely criticized for exploiting young, unemployed workers for free labor. Unemployment for young adults […]

BDSM, Cuckholding & A Spunky Take On Hot Potato: Where Do You Draw The Line Between Kinky And Just Plain Nasty?

About three weeks ago, a very attractive man in his 30s sent me a message on Plenty of Fish, where I’d had recently created a dating profile, mostly for writing inspiration, but also with the hopes that I’d find a cool guy to hang out with upon my return to New York from traveling. Things seemed […]

Modern Love Tackles One Woman’s Spanking Fetish

The New York Times Style section usually emits more groans from me than cheers. Remember that piece about how bangs are “in”? And how women wear dresses? So I was ecstatic this week to see the Modern Love essay is by Jillian Keenan, a woman with a spanking fetish who is struggling to come out about it to her boyfriend. The […]

Channeling Anastasia: The Best Sexy Moves From ‘Fifty Shades Darker’ to Lay on Your Man

In 2011, bedrooms got interesting after women everywhere were introduced to a whole new way of sex. The Fifty Shades trilogy is like our bible when it comes to getting naughtier and exploring the world of BDSM. Now that Darker is out in theaters, we all have gotten full-on visuals and we now know what it looks like […]

People Share Their Secret Fetish and How They Found Out They Had It

A sexy surprise! People who choose to frequently watch adult entertainment online already know about the hundreds and hundreds of sub-genres of films available. Maybe someone stumbles into “pregnant midget” out of curiosity or their friend sends them a GIF of “DVDA” and it’s lightning in their loins. Experimenting sexually is awesome, but only if […]