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At The Boys’ Club: The SADD Effect

Over at AskMen.com, the guys are discussing a little thing called “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD, which happens when you watch an excessive amount of internet porn. Read on…

As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of this problem is just a click away — too much internet porn.

Just as people with ADD are easily distracted, guys with SADD have become so accustomed to the high levels of visual novelty and stimulation that comes from internet porn that they’re unable to focus on real sex with a real woman. As a result, guys with SADD often find it difficult to maintain an erection during intercourse, or they experience delayed ejaculation and can only climax with manual or oral stimulation. Read more… Keep reading »

Did Chivalry Kill Feminism?

In the 1950s, the rules of dating etiquette were clearer. A man knew it was not only acceptable but expected for him to open the door for his date, pull out her chair and pay for the meal. These days, the line between appreciated chivalrous acts and condescending behaviors is fuzzy at best. The feminist movement brought women the right to vote and earn equal pay, but it sure made the practice of dating more confusing in the process. It would be a dateless man indeed who didn’t acknowledge a woman’s right to make her own decisions when it comes to her life, her money, her body, and her mind — but how do you reconcile that respect with the kind of attitude a man is encouraged to project on a date? Read more Keep reading »

At The Boys’ Club: She Can’t Orgasm

Over at AskMen.com, the guys have spent some time considering why some women are unable to reach orgasm. Certainly, it’s a common question that Sex with Steph hears all the time. So if you can’t orgasm, you’re having trouble reaching climax, or your girl is challenged when it comes to scoring the big O, find out why. Keep reading »

At The Boys’ Club: Sexting Etiquette

Brett Favre has tongues wagging again, but this time it’s not alcohol issues, painkiller addiction or yet another retirement announcement. Favre has been accused of sexually harassing at least three employees of the New York Jets, including Jenn Sterger, a Jets sideline reporter. Lawsuits and marital infidelity aside, the aspect of this story getting the most attention is that Favre allegedly sent pictures of his penis to Sterger. Of course, these photos have been leaked to the public along with some pretty pathetic voice mail messages from Favre to Sterger. Read more Keep reading »

How The Male Brain Works

For the typical hot-blooded male, looking at attractive female shapes and body parts is as natural as breathing. And it’s perhaps just as necessary when it comes to keeping the human race going. Remember, the men who are alive today have been biologically selected over hundreds of thousands of years to be good at focusing on fertile females. Read more Keep reading »

Is Your Sex Life Boring? Find Out How To Spice It Up

When you’ve been in a relationship for a while, the passion can ebb for the simple reason that you both know exactly what’s coming. It could be the best and dirtiest sex anyone has ever had, but it doesn’t matter: it’s the same as it was last time. It doesn’t mean you care any less about your partner, or find them any less sexually attractive, it just means you need to break the spell of sameness, and break out of your stale sex routine. Read more Keep reading »

Survey Says Men Are Romantic And Cook At Home — Huh?

The results from AskMen.com’s second annual Great Male Survey are in, with more than 50,000 men between 18 and 34 weighing in on sex, dating, politics, and more. Some of the results surprised us since they go against what we’ve encountered among the men in our lives. After the jump, the most startling (and obvious) results. Keep reading »

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