Posts tagged "advice"

“To Stay In The Closet Or Not To Stay In The Closet?” That Is One Bisexual Woman’s Question To Dear Prudence

How much should your family know about your sex life? Most straight people will probably say "not much," given how our heteronormative culture just assumes most of us are screwing opposite sex partners behind closed doors. But lots of other people — I'm talking gay, bisexual, polyamorous or kinky folks — may feel like openne…

By: Jessica Wakeman / August 27, 2014

Make It Stop: “My Friend Is A Charity Humble Bragger!”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, how…

By: Anna Goldfarb / August 21, 2014

Make It Stop: “My Roommate’s Girlfriend Is Disgusting!”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, how…

By: Anna Goldfarb / August 14, 2014

11 Pieces Of Advice I’ve Received About Grief Since My Dad’s Death

On the first Saturday of August, I woke up to a perfectly sunny sky and the news that my vibrant, youthful dad had abruptly passed away of a heart attack in the middle of his kitchen. There are lots of things to be said about the days immediately following that, but to put it lightly,…

By: Claire Hannum / August 14, 2014

Make It Stop: “Get Me Off My Friends’ Group Text Messages!”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, how…

By: Anna Goldfarb / August 7, 2014

Stephen Colbert Does Rookie Mag’s “Ask A Grown Man”

Okay, I love Stephen Colbert, but I'm not totally down with some of his answers for Rookie Mag's "Ask A Grown Man" series. While answering a question from a 19-year-old whose father won't let her sleep at her boyfriend's house because he's squicky about sex, Colbert suggests that maybe her dad just knows what's better…

By: Jessica Wakeman / August 4, 2014

5 Tips for Working From Home Without Going Insane

Working from home has all the advantages of supervillainy: You set the rules, no one can stop your monologues, and Internet access will cause your contempt for humanity to grow. Most online "tips for working from home" are softballing participation trophies for toddlers. Their idea of advice is "Remember to do some work" and "Try…

By: Cracked / August 3, 2014

Make It Stop: “Strange Men Won’t Stop Calling Me ‘Baby’!”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, how…

By: Anna Goldfarb / July 31, 2014

Make It Stop: “Should I Leave A Sign In My Office Bathroom?”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, we…

By: Anna Goldfarb / July 24, 2014

Make It Stop: “My Coworker ‘Negs’ Me On Social Media”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what’s up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject “Make It Stop.” She’ll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout’s honor. First up, we…

By: Anna Goldfarb / July 17, 2014

Make It Stop: “My Roommate Keeps Borrowing My Stuff Without Asking”

Make It Stop is a new weekly column in which Anna Goldfarb — the blogger behind Shmitten Kitten and Shlooby Kitten — tells you what's up. Want a fresh take on a stinky dilemma? Email anna@shmittenkitten.com with the subject "Make It Stop." She'll make it all better, or at least make you laugh. Girl Scout's honor. First…

By: Anna Goldfarb / July 10, 2014

4 Ways To Stay Positive When Shit Happens

I’ve had my share of unfortunate incidents. There was the time I visited a friend in Boston and within six hours was hospitalized with a stomach virus. Another time, while out dancing with friends, my hand collided with someone’s glass, shattering it and tearing my hand open.  The day before my summer internship in New…

By: Sophie Leon / June 29, 2014

4 Life Lessons I Learned While Burning The Candle At Both Ends

For three years, I woke up at 4 a.m. every day. I spent two days a week as a full-time student; one of those, I was at school from 8 a.m. to 10 p.m., and the other I split with one of my five weekly eight-hour work shifts. I did all of the driving i…

By: Rebecca Vipond Brink / June 23, 2014

The Pros & Cons Of Different Travel Partners

I believe that traveling is always a good experience (even a terrible vacation will give you stories to tell for years to come), but who you choose to travel with will make a big difference in what kind of experience you have. A cross-country road trip with your three best friends will be very different…

By: Winona Dimeo-Ediger / June 21, 2014

16 Tiny Changes That Make Life Easier

Sometimes I feel totally overwhelmed at the thought of how much I want to accomplish in a given day or week, or how much growing stands between me and whatever distant, self-actualized ideal I hope to someday be. On days when I wake up cranky, thinking about stuff like this creates a snowball effect and…

By: Claire Hannum / June 15, 2014

What Would You Tell Your 22-Year-Old Self About Life?

This month, LinkedIn rounded up over 80 influential business leaders and asked them what they would say to their 22-year-old selves about their working lives. The participants were asked what traits they found to be most important for 22-year-olds, and adaptability and resilience came out on top. What I find kind of sad and weird…

By: Claire Hannum / June 6, 2014

Dear Prudence Counsels Mom Who Found Her Daughter Masturbating With A Hand Mixer

I'm a regular reader of Slate's advice column, "Dear Prudence," which counsels letter writers on problems great and small. While the questions fairly often have to do with matters pertaining to sex, this is the first time I've seen Prudie advise a letter writer who caught a tween masturbating with a kitchen utensil. Which may…

By: Jessica Wakeman / June 4, 2014

8 Ways To Combat Your Inner Critic

Whether we notice it or not, we all face the occasional visit of a nagging voice inside our heads that questions whether we're good enough. You know the one -- it turns up when you're face to face with your ex, putting yourself out there creatively or just looking at yourself in the mirror. That…

By: Claire Hannum / May 16, 2014

27 Things I’m Glad My Mom Taught Me

For better or for worse, our first impressions of the world usually come through the people who raise us. Luckily for me, the women in my family were able to gently guide me through any situation, offering their priceless opinions and advice along the way. They conveyed much of their wisdom through words, but I…

By: Claire Hannum / May 9, 2014

It’s Time To Cry: Things Moms Want Their Daughters To Know

Mother's Day is still three weeks away, but the Internet is already getting started with weepy videos about our moms. And Buzzfeed's video, "Things Moms Want Their Daughters To Know," is up there on the weep-ster scale. From body confidence, fear of failure, and filling your life with love, the tips these mothers and soon-to-be-mother…

By: Jessica Wakeman / April 21, 2014
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