Personally, I feel pretty damn good about my talent for cooking marinara sauce, my thick hair, my work ethic, and my dog mothering abilities. And you?

We’ve all had a dream about a celebrity at some point in our lives, but many women have been dreaming about President Barack Obama or the Obamas in general. What Obama dream have you had?

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and you definitely want to spend it with someone sexy. What’s the first thing you notice when you look at a man that really turns you on? Of course we want someone with a killer personality and the ability to make us laugh, but let’s get physical. What body part do you find most attractive?

Women’s Wear Daily commissioned dozens of designers to sketch gowns for Michelle Obama to wear to the Inauguration Ball on Jan. 20. Every designer is dying to dress this budding style icon, but some of the proposed gowns were downright fugly. So we culled our top 10 picks and decided to leave the decision to the people. This is a democracy, after all.

Italians believe it wards off bad luck.  Bad boy rappers use it as a status symbol.  Regular dudes claim they just have to do it too. Guys get away with grabbing their groin for many reasons and I’m jealous!  Back in the ‘90s, I thought Madonna looked fierce when she turned the socially acceptable male convention on its head, no pun intended, and started crotch grabbing.  And now, even Rihanna has been spotted clutching her cooch in concert and Giselle is grasping her snatch on the cover of Photo France this month!

Personally, I think it can be totally sexy or hilariously goofy. I decided to jump on the bandwagon and grab my crotch for effect in the heat of retelling a story to my girlfriends recently.  Unfortunately, I wound up insulting them—they found the mannerism so offensive, I didn’t even get a laugh for my story. Sniff. Is female crotch grabbing really so bold?

What, did you think I was going to live blog the debate? I’m Tivoing that nonsense so I can fast forward through the boring bits. Anyhoo, YES, I am going to give my first shot at livvvvveblogging by logging on giving away all the dirty details as they happen on the “Project Runway” season finale this evening. So, be sure to be reading The Frisky starting tonight at 9pm EST. In the meantime, who do you think is going to win the whole shebang?

In tonight’s 200-meter individual medley Olympic final, Michael Phelps and Ryan Lochte will have another swim-off—while Phelps won this race in the 2004 Olympics (and has been cleaning up the gold medals in 2008), Lochte won silver and will be his fiercest competitor in this rematch. But there’s a far more important stand-off to decide between these two teammates and friends: Who Would You Rather…Michael Phelps or Ryan Lochte?

Remember that poll we conducted about how often you use condoms? Well the result are in, and a whopping 46% of you don’t use condoms EVER. We were curious and wanted more info, so for those of you that don’t use condoms, please, oh please, tell us why.

I have never had a bikini wax. Something about it scares me. The only people I allow near my vagina is the boyfriend and my gyno and unless one of them decides on a second career, I probably will never have one. Or so I have always thought. Lately I have been considering giving the ol’ wax a try, if I can muster up the patience and itch-resistance to grow out what hair my pathetic attempts at shaving have removed. But before I do so, I am curious: how are your pubes maintained?

Kate Middleton, Prince William’s longtime girlfriend, quit her job as an accessories buyer at the end of last year to pursue a career as photographer. But for the past three months, she has been working for her parents’ mail-order company, photographing new stock for its website. While she’s technically working as a photographer, it doesn’t seem like a real job. You might be saying, “Oh, she’s 26 years old and trying to find herself,” but that’s not what a friend of hers told the Sydney Morning Herald. “It’s an easy number for Kate and basically something to fill her days while she waits for William,” the friend said. The Queen is not happy about Kate’s joblessness, as she thinks Kate should get a real job instead of biding her time, waiting for William to propose. Is the Queen just a meddling mother-in-law, or should Kate, possibly a future princess, actually get a job?

The battle of the vocal chords will come to an end soon, and either David Cook or David Archuleta will be named our American Idol. But we’re more concerned in what you think about their looks than whether you like their music.

The “Modern Love” column in this Sunday’s New York Times was about a woman who dates a musician who has a kid with a woman he briefly dated. The guy turns out to be a bit of a child himsef, but the whole piece got me thinking about whether I would be down for dating a dude with a kid (specifically if I didn’t have any kids of my own). I think I would be fine with it, considering I am such a sucker for the little ones, but what about you? If you were a single woman who didn’t have kids, would you date a guy who had a child of his own? [Modern Love: Was I On A Date Or Babysitting?]