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A Brief History Of “Boston Marriages”

“Boston Marriage” was a term used in the 19th century and early 20th century to refer to two single women living together, independent of men. The term was originally coined in Henry James’ novel The Bostonians, which told the tale of an intimate companionship between two wealthy, Boston women. Rumored to have been based on his sister’s relationship with a woman, James referred to the novel as “a very American tale.” Whether he was referring to the notion of homosexual relationships or the promise of gender equality is unclear. Interestingly enough, Massachusetts was the first state to legalize same-sex marriage in 2004. So perhaps Henry James was on to something.

David Mamet brought the concept to popularity again in the year 2000 with his play of the same name, “Boston Marriage.” According to the New Repertory Theatre’s notes on the Mamet play, “[Boston Marriages] potentially fostered rather than interfered with the heady and exciting new ambitions of the early generations of professional women … Most likely, the Boston Marriage was many things to many women: business partnership, artistic collaboration, lesbian romance. And sometimes it was a friendship nurtured with all the care that we usually squander on our mates.” Keep reading »

Gay History
These gay and lesbian couples were proud. Read More »
Gray-Sexual
What does it mean to be "gray-sexual?" Read More »

Some Theories About This Really Insane Picture Of Jon Hamm’s Balls

Jon Hamm's Advice
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Relationship advice from Jon Hamm for Rookie Mag. Read More »
"Mad Men" Dating Style
Are you a Joan? A Peggy? Or maybe you're a Trudy. Read More »

Important business to attend to! We need to discuss this crazy picture of Jon Hamm’s balls. While out strolling this weekend with Jennifer Westfeldt, there were some very interesting pics snapped of his junk. Some featured his incredibly sizable shlong. Not that we’re complaining. There’s never any issue with a devastatingly handsome man being well-endowed. BUT. THE BALLS. Granted, we’ve seen balls of all shapes and sizes. Amelia had a brief fling with a guy with “grapefruit-sized balls” — “Like Christmas tree ornaments!” she emphasizes — and I once slept with a dude whose balls were the size of Lindor truffles. I swear. But nuts, regardless of size or shape, are smushy. Sorry, but something about these moose knuckles just don’t look right to us. After the jump, some theories about what might have been going on Jon’s pants. Keep reading »

18 Celeb Fetishes

Kristen Stewart has a stinky little bedroom secret: she has an armpit licking fetish, otherwise known as maschalagnia. Right before news broke of her “fling” with Rupert Sanders, K-Stew told British Vogue’s Christa D’ Souza all about her kink. “My God, I’m so in love with my boyfriend. I wish he were here now. I think I want to have his babies. I love the way he smells. And him me. Like, he loves to lick under my armpits. I don’t get this obsession with washing the smell off. That smell of someone you love. Don’t you think it’s the whole point?” she said during an interview for the October issue of the magazine. Keep reading »

Sex Dolls For Cumberland Farms Coffee

It looks like Cumberland Farms convenience stores hired some new models for their farmhouse blend coffee campaign. I think it’s going to be a hit. [Buzzfeed]

Awkward Coffee Ad
Oh, the 80s. Read More »

The “Sexually Entitled,” Orgy-Loving Culture Of The Boston University Hockey Team & Soy Lattes Are Bad For Your Sex Drive

Ice Cream Porn
This porn company was sued for spoofing Ben & Jerry's ice cream. Read More »
Phone Sex Operator
A phone sex operator answers all of our dirty questions. Read More »
  • After two sexual assault accusations in three months, university officials decided to investigate the culture of the Boston University hockey team. Turns out they are “sexually entitled,” love orgies and don’t understand the concept of consent. Alarming. And also, I’m not shocked. [NYMag.com]
  • Sometimes people ask us to do really weird things in bed and we have no idea how to respond. Here are tips for dealing with that really potentially awkward moment when you have to say no clown role play. [College Candy]
  • Is anyone else sick to death of hearing about Fifty Shades of Grey? Let’s talk about the movie “Secretary” and how it was way, way racier. [Em & Lo]
  • Here are some tips for hot, post-baby sex. [The Stir]
  • We’ve spent too much time talking about our Presidents policies and not enough time talking about their sex lives. Let’s closer look at whether or not our Commander In Chiefs (present and past) are humping. I’m fairly certain the Obamas are. [Nerve] Keep reading »

Advice For Dudes: How To Call A Phone Sex Line

First Phone Sex
A dude tells us about his first phone sex session. Read More »
Escorts On Film
So many ladies have played call girls and escorts onscreen! Read More »
Red Umbrella Project
The Red Umbrella Project helps sex workers write their truth. Read More »

Phone sex expert Miranda Austin has graciously shared with us a chapter from her book Phone Sex: Aural Thrills And Oral Skills, available both on Amazon.com and Audible.com (oh la la!). Here she explains how a novice should make a phone call to a phone sex line.

In order to get the most from your phone sex experience, you as the customer have a few responsibilities. (Yes, yes, I know you’re paying, but you still have to help.)

First and most important, tell the operator what you want. It sounds simple enough, and for some people it’s easy. Some callers just go ahead and say, “Hi Kristi, I’d like for you to role-play that you’re Mother Goose and I’m a firefighter, and when I come over to put out the fire in the giant shoe, you recite nursery rhymes as I eat your pussy.” Keep reading »

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