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Ricki Lake Tackles An Openly Gay Man Married To A Woman

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But do they have sex?

Everything I loved about Ricki Lake in the ’80s and ’90s is still present and accounted for in the updated version of her talk show. Drag queens, eye rolling audience members and her uncanny ability to ask uncomfortable questions. Like, for instance, if you’re an openly gay man married to a woman, are the two of you having sex? And is it good?

According to Josh and Lolly Weed, the mormon couple who appeared on the recent “When Gay People Lead Straight Lives” episode, their sex life is active and fulfilling. You might have read Josh’s fascinating blog post “In which I come out of the closet on our ten year anniversary,” which was making the rounds on the internet this summer. It’s certainly worth a read. He goes into much more detail about his marriage. Keep reading »

Only 1 In 6 Cuddle Sessions Lead To Sex

Horndogs looking for a quick cuddle-and-run, listen up. A new study from really smart scientists has found that the chances of a cuddle session leading to sex are only one in six.

Researchers at the University of Michigan looked at the methods, motivations and eventual outcomes of the average couple’s cuddling sessions, and the results show it usually only leads to conversation, not copulation.

Over 500 men and women in relationships were asked about the nature of their cuddling, defined as “intimate, physical and loving contact that does not involve sexual behavior and that involves some degree of whole body touching, not just hand to hand or lips to lips.” Read more…

11 Random Things On Food Network That Totally Turn Us On

Are you guys as obsessed with the Food Network as we are? We could spend hours watching enthusiastic chefs whip up culinary masterpieces and compete on ridiculous food-themed game shows. But sometimes while we’re enjoying a marathon of “Chopped” or “Cupcake Wars” we find ourselves getting a little, umm, excited. We thought it was time to pinpoint our specific Food Network turn-ons, so we made a list of 11 sexy chefs, desserts, and haircuts that really get us going. Click through to check ‘em out, and please add your own foodie fetishes in the comments!

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Dan Savage Feels For You, Straight Guys

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“It’s really straight guys who get the bum rap. The way straight people have redefined marriage, and the way they define sexuality, it’s really unrealistic about male sexuality … And reading letters from straight guys made me hugely sympathetic to straight guys. And I was already sympathetic to straight women, because men are pigs and I sleep with men so know what that’s like. I arrived sympathetic to straight women—I became sympathetic to straight men, reading these bat-shit letters from straight guys who were being terrorized and being driven crazy, because sex is scarce if you’re a straight guy.”

– Dan Savage on being a gay man giving sex advice to straight men. You can read some more really interesting excerpts from Dan Savage: The First Gay Celebrity, an e-book by Mark Oppenheimer here. I never really thought about sex being scarce for straight guys. I was too busy thinking about how sex was scarce for me. But I suppose that has been, for the most part, by choice.[The Atlantic]

How To Take Control Of Your Sex Life

Are you feeling a bit bored in the bedroom? Is sex with your spouse feeling awfully routine lately? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, relationship coach, sex therapist and YourTango Expert Moushumi Ghose explains that “in long term relationships, sexuality ebbs and flows. Sometimes the sex will be exciting and passionate and sometimes its going to be a bit of a lull.”

Moushumi suggests that “[i]t’s very important that you communicate your needs to your wife as well as asking your wife what her needs are and what needs that she might not be getting met.” To have a healthy marriage and sex life, “communication is key.” Read more and watch the video!

Rihanna Might Have Given Chris Brown A Lap Dance & Sex Positions Inspired By “Star Wars”

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  • Please let the rumor not be true that Rihanna gave Chris Brown a lap dance at a Halloween party. PLEASE. Somehow, the fact that she was dressed as weed and he as a terrorist makes it even worse. If that’s possible. [Pop Crush]
  • Here are some rules to follow if you should ever find yourself as the third wheel in a threesome. [Em & Lo]
  • So that measure that would force adult film stars in Los Angeles to wear condoms on set may be warranted. The stats say that more porn stars get STIs than sex workers. [Newser]
  • What guys really care about when they’re having sex. Hint: it has nothing to do with your choice of lingerie. [College Candy]
  • Hey hey! Sex positions inspired by “Star Wars.” One is called Jabba the Butt, people. Yes, it is. [Ask Men]
  • Get ready for the stupidest bit of information you’ve heard all day. Kim Kardashian is allegedly jealous of Khloe’s pointy nipples during her”X Factor” appearance. No comment. [Celeb Dirty Laundry]
  • Mustachioed hotties in honor of Movember. Wooot! [Tres Sugar] Keep reading »
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