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A Confusing Study About Having Sex Too Soon

FWB Study
Friends with benefits are the best at using condoms. Read More »
Sex For Salad?
No way! Here are some things we would actually give up sex for. Read More »

Brigham Young University has delivered a questionable study about the effects of having sex early on in a relationship. The study asked 11,000 unmarried people in steady or serious relationships to rate their relationships in the areas of satisfaction, communication and stability. Those couples who had sex within the first few weeks of dating rated lower than those who waited longer to get it on.

“The eventual mismatch between individual sexual expectations and actual rewards may undermine healthy couple formation processes,” theorized the researchers.

But wait! Before you impose a mandatory, three-week abstinence period, how soon you have sex might not make all that much of difference after all. Keep reading »

Today In WTF: Woman Breastfeeds Her Husband’s Monkeys

Breastfeeding Man
Meet the man who is determined to breastfeed. Read More »
Professor Breastfeeds
Breastfeeding professor brings sick baby to class, heads explode. Read More »

I am happy to say that this DID NOT happen in Florida. But, it’s still WTF worthy. As is the case whenever a woman feeds a non-human animal from her teet.

Jiao Xinzhen, the 27-year-old wife of one of China’s top professional monkey trainers, regularly breastfeeds the animals. And enjoys it. Keep reading »

Today In Sex: Sluttiness Is A State Of Mind

  • The question on everyone’s mind at the moment: is Courtney Stodden purposefully trying to look like a sex robot? Also, is this what she considers tasteful nudity? [Socialite Life]
  • Here are some tips for teaching yourself to orgasm. I like that “taking a bath” is one of the tips on this list, although I don’t know what it has to do with orgasms. [Em & Lo]
  • A new study done at University of Michigan found slutiness to be nothing more than a state of mind. I’m a slut for this study because I all over it. [NY Mag/The Cut] Keep reading »

Friends With Benefits Are The Best At Using Condoms

FWB Rules
Here are some rules to make your friendship with benefits work. Read More »
Condom Commandments
The rules of condoms. Read More »
Birth Control For Him?
Another male birth control option on the horizon. Read More »

Friends with benefits often get a bum rap. But I am happy to report that they are acing it in the condom department. An online survey, the results of which were published in the Journal of Sex Research, found that FWBs are the most likely to use condoms during sex. Of the 376 mostly twentysomethings who were questioned, about half said they were involved in a FWB situation. On the downside, the FWBers reported being less sexually satisfied and less able to discuss their sexual desires with their partners. No surprise there. Keep reading »

“Sleep Sex” Is Not A Real Thing, But Raping Someone While They Sleep Is

"Don't Get Raped!"
victim blaming
New Tumblr collects news stories that blame the victim. Read More »
I Was Raped
An account of sexual assault at Amherst College. Read More »
It Was Rape
jennifer baumgardner
Help fund a documentary about sexual assault survivors. Read More »

Advice columns bring out the worst in journalism outlets, I have found, and Nerve.com is no exception. Today, the website asked readers to play “advice columnist” and dish out advice to a woman who had written asking what to do about her boyfriend who raped her while she was sleeping. She had taken a sleeping pill while drunk, after coming home alone, and was so deeply asleep she didn’t even hear her boyfriend come home that night. But when she woke up in the morning, she realized he had raped her during the night. “Did we have sex last night?” she asked him. “Well, one of us did,” the boyfriend said, laughing. The woman then wrote in to Nerve.com saying she no longer trusts him and asks for advice on what to do.

And Nerve, for some reason, chose to title this post, “Please Advice: My Boyfriend Had Sex With Me While I Was Asleep.” Uh, come again? “Had sex” wit hher? FACT: a person who is asleep — not to mention drunk and on a sleeping pill — cannot consent to sex. Her boyfriend didn’t “have sex” with her. Her boyfriend raped her. Keep reading »

The 7 Best Kinds Of Kisses

kissing couple photo

As you pass through your teenage years via the valley of lost virginities and the college years of random sex, the simple act of kissing starts getting really underrated. It makes sense, I guess. When you’re 16, the make-out sessions aren’t leading anywhere (at least for me, I started kind of late) so you can just relax and get into it. Making out is EXCITING at that age. It’s fun, it feels amazing. But, when you get a little older, kissing turns into foreplay – a means to an end. Seriously, when was the last time you just made out for hours with a guy without him expecting more?

But kissing is awesome. No matter what, there are some kind of kisses that will always maintain that magical quality. Or, if they don’t anymore, people should revive that! ‘Just’ kissing is nice. Here are 7 of the best kind of kisses ever. Read more…

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