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Lots Of People Got Knocked Up During Hurricane Sandy

Trapped!
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Sex And Weather
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Hurricane Sandy Baby Boom!
Hurricane sex leads to hurricane babies

So what were people doing without TV, internet and power during Hurricane Sandy? Those of us who weren’t gorging on non-perishable snacks, stalking strangers on Facebook and looking for their drag queen dopplegangers (I had power!) or confronting various existential life crisis were entertaining themselves the old-fashioned way. SEX.

According to the CityScape OB/GYN in Manhattan, there has been a significant increase in pregnancies originating at the time of Hurricane Sandy.

“We see around a 10 percent spike, so we’re anticipating a lot of business by the end of the summer,” said Dr. Luba Soskin.

Sounds like we should prepare ourselves for a Hurricane Sandy baby boom! Let’s hope these parents-to-be have the good sense not to name their children Sandy. That would just be wrong. [NBC New York]

You Can Buy Jennifer Lawrence’s Sweaty Bra & How To Prepare For An Orgy

Penis Size/Shoe Size
Sara Barron tested this myth with male porn stars. Read More »
My First Orgy
Scenes from Rachel Rabbit White's first-ever orgy. Read More »
Kink In The NY Times
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Kinky Sex piece featured in the New York Times piece wasn't all that bad. Read More »
  • The sports bra Jennifer Lawrence wore during the dance practice scene of “Silver Linings Playbook” is up for auction. Just me or is that kind of gross? Do you think it’s been laundered since she got all sweaty in it? [Huffington Post Style]
  • More Jennifer Lawrence, you say? OK! She’s allegedly acting as Bradley Cooper’s “pimp.” Pshaw. Like she needs the extra cash. [Celeb Dirty Laundry]
  • Best excuse ever for masturbating in public: my pants shrunk. [Tru TV]
  • Everything you need to know to prepare for your first orgy. Bring cheese and crackers! (I learned that from Jessica.) [The Gloss]
  • Let’s say you find a pornographic video that your boyfriend made and sent to another woman, is that considered cheating? The answer from a dude’s perspective. [A New Mode] Keep reading »

Teen Girl In Maldives To Be Flogged 100 Times For Premarital Sex

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Last week, a 15-year-old girl in the Maldives was sentenced to being flogged with 100 lashes for having consensual sex outside of marriage. Now the Islamic ministry and judiciary are being pressured to halt the public flogging or at least wait to carry it out until the youngster turns 18. If the criminalization of a woman’s sexuality is not bad enough (and yes, the AP confirms that it is usually the women who are flogged), it actually gets worse: the Muslim teen complained about sexual abuse by her stepfather and another man. In other words, she is allegedly the victim of sexual abuse by older men and now could be physically punished for having consensual sex. This is completely disgusting. [Seattle Times]

6 Ways The New York Times (Of All Places) Got It Right About Kinky Sex

"Kink" Trailer
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Watch the trailer for James Franco's doc about BDSM porn. Read More »
Fetishes 101
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What's a fetish? What's a paraphilia? This post explains it all! Read More »
First Time: Spanking Party
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This is what happens at a spanking party. Read More »
Fat Mike On BDSM
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NOFX's Fat Mike talks about his BDSM lifestyle and persecution for kink. Read More »

The New York Times Style section has gotten the memo: 50 Shades Of Grey is a book the ladies be readin’. Cue interviews with various and sundry New Yorkers who are involved in the kink scene, from sexual submissives to fire players. Actually, this article was written by a friend of mine named Matt and even if he wasn’t my bud, I’d still think this article about issues pertaining to kinky sex was a job well done.

Take note, other journalists who write about sex! Here’s six ways the New York Times actually got it right on kinky sex (or, as much as they could in one article): Keep reading »

Lisa Ling Explores Non-Monogamy In OWN’s “I Love You & You … & You”

Poly Parenting
Anderson Cooper demystifies polyamorous parenting. Read More »
On Polyamory
There's no good reason why we shouldn't have multiple partners. Read More »
Monogamy Is Unnatural
Even John DeVore admits monogamy is unnatural. Read More »
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The More The Merrier!

I’m cautiously optimistic about the next episode of “Our America,” Lisa Ling’s docu-series on the OWN network, in which she discusses families/couplings who are non-monogamous. I’m pretty psyched anytime that the mainstream media acknowledges alternative sexualities at all, bonus points for when it acknowledges we are “normal.”  Polyamory or even just being monogam-ish are more common than you think. This preview teases Ling’s show as answering the question “How many is too many?”, which is presupposing something is wrong with non-monogamy and that it is possible for there to be “too many” partners in a polyamorous union.  Yet everyone who gets screen time in this preview seems happy with their personal decisions — and pretty “normal,” too. As American as apple pie, you might even say. “I Love You & You … & You” airs next week, Tuesday March 5 at 10/9c on OWN.  [Oprah.com]

Experiment! In Which I Test The Penis Size/Shoe Size Myth On Male Porn Stars

Fave Male Porn Star
Amelia's new favorite male porn star is Manuel Ferrara. Read More »
GT: Penis Size
Why women should talk more about penis size. Read More »

I am a writer.

Having said that, I ask that you bear in mind how broad that category is. I call myself a writer, and so does Philip Roth. So does my personal public enemy #1, a young woman I met in college who writes lip gloss reviews for a living. My point is that being a writer can mean a wide variety of things, and this week, for me, it meant getting in touch with male porn stars. Or rather, trying and mostly failing to get in touch with male porn stars.

The story started as all good stories do: With a penis. Surely you’ve heard the saying that you can judge a penis just by looking at the feet. Well, the other day I was sitting around bored and aimless, trying to decide what to write, when I started thinking about penises. This happens often, but on this specific occasion, the penises I’d started thinking about were The Penises That I Have Known. (I used CAPS just then because when you write about The Penises That You Have Known, it is important to be respectful.) Anyway, there I was thinking about The Penises That I Have Known, and as I continued thinking about them, I wondered if maybe there wasn’t a story there, a story in investigating whether the saying is true.

Alas: Although I could bring to mind the penises, I couldn’t remember the feet. It occurred to me then that thing to do would be to prove/disprove the idea, not with reference to my own experience, but by using male porn stars. Their penises are available to view, of course, so all I’d have to do was find the shoe size. Keep reading »

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