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5 Ways Porn Created The Modern World

Looking back at all the progress humanity has made through the last century, it’s perfectly natural to feel a little bit moved by the power of human ingenuity and our thrive for constant improvement. It’s natural, but also totally wrong. Because if you really look into the history of our technological development, you’ll notice that the force driving us forward all this time wasn’t our need to better ourselves or seek out truth in all its forms, but rather our desire to see naked people touch each other’s junk. Keep reading »

The 3 Types Of Holiday Hookups, Defined

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Holiday hookups may be all the rage this season — you know, right alongside temporary boyfriends and desperate attempts to hang out under the mistletoe.

But before you take the plunge into Christmas sex, you might want to take some time to study the rules of such encounters. A new study, published in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, explored the various types of casual relationships among young people (ages 18 to 27) and their “codes of conduct,” so to speak. Keep reading »

This Week In Sex: Lindsay Lohan’s Leaked Playboy Pics & How To Have Sex In A Hot Tub

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  • Oopsie. First the cover and now all of Lilo’s nakey Playboy pics found their way onto the interwebs one week too soon. She looks heavily airbrushed to me. But all in all, not too bad. (Link is NSFW.) [LA Weekly]
  • We wish “America’s Best Girlfriend” was a real reality show. [Cracked]
  • A 31-year-old man texted naked pictures of his girlfriend’s teenage daughter to “teach her a lesson.” I wonder what the lesson was meant to be? [The Stir]
  • Finally, someone tells us how to know if we’re amazing in bed. Of course we are. [Shine] Keep reading »

4 Things Ladies Should Know About Blue Balls

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Whip 'em out, boys. We'll be the judge of that! Read More »

A very important question was asked of Dr. Joe DeOrio, the male sexuality expert on EmandLo.com. “What’s the deal with blue balls?” one reader asks. A very good question indeed. I’ve often wondered myself. Such a mysterious ailment, it seems to me. Dr. Joe describes it as a “discomfort in the scrotum/testes that occurs after prolonged sexual stimulation without ejaculatory release.” Yeah, I’m still not able to empathize. It must be a similar to a man trying to understand periods. After the jump, four things we should know about blue balls. Keep reading »

Anderson Cooper Demystifies Polyamorous Parenting

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...being polyamorous. Read More »
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Tilda Swinton is our polyamorous poster girl. Read More »
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In case you were curious about how polyamorous relationships work in practice, especially when a child is involved, Anderson Cooper got up close and personal with a triad on his show. Okay, follow me here: Jaiya Ma and Jon Hanauer have been together since they met at Tantric Yoga teacher training 10 years ago. At some point, Jaiya brought another man into the relationship, but things ended with a bad breakup. Jaiya’s tendency was to “connect” post-breakup, while Jon’s was to “retreat.” So, instead of breaking up, Jon encouraged Jaiya to find someone else. Eventually, she met Ian Ferguson in dance class and they had an instant connection. Jaiya became pregnant with Ian’s baby. Now the three of them live together with two-year-old Eamon. Interestingly, Jon (not the biological father of Eamon) does a good portion of the child care. You can watch an additional clip of Anderson’s interview with them here. Do I smell a sitcom here? Keep reading »

The “Sex In 7 Days” Regimen

5 Sex Moves
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Five sex moves women love in bed but can be too afraid to ask for. Read More »
Sexy & Unsexy Food
Which T-Day foods we're hot for -- and which we're not. Read More »

I don’t have much spontaneous sex; the sex I have is usually planned. Scheduled, even. While guys just change their T-shirt and they’re ready to go, I have to endure an entire prep-for-sex checklist. Isn’t it infuriating? Oh, the trials and tribulations of being female. When the prospect of sex comes around,  I try my best to set a date to do it. If that doesn’t work, I have to rely on my sexual premonitions. My psychic abilities tend to be correct about 70 percent of the time. I just enjoy sex more when I am prepared. If I don’t know I’ll be getting laid, I’ll eat more or less what I want, work out somewhat minimally and find myself totally ill prepared for the encounter. When sex is planned I’m like, “Oh my God! I am having sex next Saturday night! Starting tomorrow is sex-prep week!” Click through for my tried and true “Sex In 7 Days” regimen.

Nude Kate Moss, Bare Milla Jovovich & Tons More Sexy Ladies In The 2012 Pirelli Calendar (NSFW!)

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So what’s the difference between saying that the 2012 Pirelli calendar features a boatload of naked models looking smoking hot, and saying the 2012 Pirelli calendar features a crapton of nude models looking friggin’ sexy? Well, according to the art historian Kenneth Clark:

To be naked is to be deprived of our clothes, and the word implies some of the embarrassment most of us feel in that condition. The word “nude,” on the other hand, carries, in educated usage, no uncomfortable overtone. The vague image it projects into the mind is not of a huddled and defenseless body, but of a balanced, prosperous, and confident body: the body re-formed.

And all this is to say that though they may look naked, the girls in the 2012 Pirelli calendar — shot by Mario Sorrenti — are nude. But you don’t really care, do you? You just want to see what Kate Moss looks like without all of her clothes on. Well, fine, so do we. But beware, this gallery is full of boobs (so many boobs!), is pretty full frontal, and entirely NSFW.

Girl Talk: I Took Plan B

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Did you know any of the 10 bizarro facts on this chart? Read More »
EC On Drugstore Shelves?
FDA considers putting the morning-after pill on drugstore shelves. Read More »
Should Men Pay?
Should men help pay for the Pill? Read More »

Typically before heading into the office, I make a pit stop to get coffee. Yesterday I had to swing into the pharmacy instead—to get Plan B.

As I walked through the drugstore doors, I recalled the news from the day before: The FDA was considering allowing the emergency “morning after” pill to sell on drugstore shelves, to anyone, without a prescription. I envisioned myself snaking through the aisles and grabbing the box, stashing it in my bag at self-checkout, and resuming my life, waiting for my next period just a little less anxiously. But, as many suspected, only hours after my trip to pick up the controversial contraceptive, I’d learn that Plan B would stay behind the counter, and my daydream scenario would remain a fantasy for many women, not just myself. Keep reading »

Evening Quickies: Lindsay Lohan’s Playboy Cover Leaked!

Playboy On "Ellen"
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LiLo will formally debut her Playboy cover on Ellen Degenere's show. Read More »
Lindsay In Playboy
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Lindsay Lohan is posing nude for Playboy. Read More »
A Family Affair
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Little sis Ali tagged along to Lindsay's Playboy shoot. Read More »
  • Lindsay Lohan’s Playboy cover has leaked! LiLo is posed straddling a red chair in red lipstick and black heels, with the Playboy logo tastefully obscuring her ladybits. I guess you don’t have to wait for “The Ellen DeGeneres Show” for the big, awkward cover reveal after all. [The Insider
  • New couple: Jason Sudeikis and Olivia Wilde. Damn, he gets all the pretty girls! [Us Weekly]
  • A new French online dating site for women is set up like a supermarket where women put men in a virtual “shopping cart” and get “deals” on guys. I find this slightly clever, but mostly gross. [Jezebel]
  • Neve Campbell will star in an “Amish crime drama” on Lifetime, natch, about an Amish girl who leaves the community and then returns as a new police chief.  This will either be terrible or amazing. [NYMag.com] Keep reading »

Smoking Is Bad For Your Nipples

If fear of lung cancer or emphysema isn’t enough to make you quit smoking, do it for your nipples. Apparently, nicotine and carbon monoxide restrict blood flow to various parts of the body … like your nipples. According to plastic surgeon, Anthony Youn, M. D., smokers who undergo breast surgery are at great risk for having their nipples “turn black and fall off.” They just die. Guh! Youn once tried to bring a patient’s purple (about to turn black) nipples back to life by placing leeches on them.  “The leech drains the old blood, causing it to turn from unhealthy purple back to healthy pink. We place leeches intermittently until the body part grows new blood vessels to do the leeches’ work,” Youn recalled.  The image of this entire scenario is terrifying. [CNN]

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