Category Archives: Sex

Sex tips and sex advice for women from our council of Frisky ‘Sexperts’ that will sexify your life!

Jennifer Morrison Got Nude For Allure — Plus, Hot RILFs!

Boob Pardon
She committed a crime, but got off because of her boobs. Read More »
Men Included
Queerness can include having sex with men. Read More »
Male Fakers
How do men fake orgasms? Read More »
  • Jennifer Morrison, Naya Rivera and more famous ladies got naked for Allure. Amanda Seyfried, on the other hand, stayed fully clothed because her publicist told her to. [Socialite Life]
  • “Life is like a dick; when it gets hard, fuck it!” and other dirty pickup lines you should NOT use if you wish to get a lady’s attention. [Modern Man]
  • Someone wrote a book about the reasons why men fake orgasms. Thank God because that baffles me. [Gurl]
  • In case you’re sleeping with a faker, here are some signs that she had a real orgasm. For guy fakers, I guess we’ll have to read the book to know the signs. [Ask Men]
  • This study found just how deeply traumatized men are by childbirth. Can’t fake that. [NYMag.com]
  • Check out these super hot RILFs (Robots I’d Like To Fuck). Warning: you may have to power down and reboot immediately when you’re done. [The Gloss] Keep reading »

Refined Sugar: Paying For Love In 2013

When I published my second novel, Bought, I was anxious to promote it. The book was my attempt to fictionalize a lot of research I’d done for a magazine story about hookers and also a way to examine the lives of women who weren’t quite prostitutes because they didn’t, say, spread their legs for wads of cash but nevertheless allowed men to pay their bills. I was fascinated by the double standard that exists—the way women judge other women for pursuing such a lifestyle when nearly every female alive participates in this dynamic in some form or another.

It seemed, at first, a lucky break that my book release coincided with the economic crash of the late aughts, because women were turning to means of survival they hadn’t previously considered. Suddenly I started to hear about websites that actually connected these women with potential benefactors. So Bought got a lot of publicity, if not a lot of sales—who wants to buy books when they’re losing their jobs?—and in the process of promoting it, I came into contact with a number of these women. Keep reading »

Sexy Shoe Shines: Because Everything Has To Be Sexy Now

Men! Why get a shoe shine when you can get a seXXXy shoe shine? That seems to be the theory behind Star Shine NYC, a new New York City shoe shine shop in the Financial District. At the “Hooters” of shoe shines, as some have called it, for $7, a buxom woman in shorts and a tank top will lean over your shoes as she wipes off the dog doo and polishes them until you can see the reflection of underboob. That won’t appeal to creepy dudes or anything! “It helps that they are very pretty,” a man told DNA Info, refusing to give his name. (I wonder why!) “But the prices are a little high if you don’t get the discount.” Keep reading »

Girl Talk: My Queerness Includes Men & That’s OK

First Time: With A Woman
bisexual
Jessica hooked up with a woman for the first time. Read More »
Lesbian For Channing
Channing Tatum
Erika is a lesbian who loves Channing Tatum. Read More »
My Bisexual Marriage
Rachel Rabbit White on her bisexual marriage. Read More »

Jared’s* question came during a sex party a few months ago, after some steamy foreplay organically led to this discussion: “Can I fuck you now?”

It caught me off guard, but not in an unpleasant way. Men had asked me this question before, and I was half expecting to decline, like I usually did. But I’d been fantasizing about having sex with him for months. This was opportunity knocking.

“It’s okay if you don’t want to,” Jared continued, directing this at both me and my husband, Paul. “But it seems like the logical next step here.”

It was. “Are you okay with that?” I asked Paul. He nodded reassuringly, excited to watch me take this new step. I smiled. “Then, yes. Let’s give it a try.”

So we did. Jared became the second man I’ve ever had intercourse with, signifying a change I never thought would come: an interest in sleeping with men. Keep reading »

The Beginner’s Guide To Sexploration

One of the great things about being in a relationship is getting to relax and have more fun in bed. But if you’ve always had sex the same old way (missionary again?) — or you’ve never put your fantasies into words — it can be hard to imagine suddenly discussing your fantasies openly with your partner, no matter how solid your relationship. “Hey, honey, let’s try some role playing. You call me Sookie, I’ll call you Bill, and don’t bite me until I tell you to.” Rolls right off the tongue, doesn’t it?

But think about it: If you can’t express your private fantasies to the one person you’re most intimate with, then who can you share them with? Sexploration — indulging your naughty side by acting your sexual fantasies together — is one the best (and most fun!) ways to bond with your partner. It requires trust and openness, of course — plus a healthy dose of adventure. Read more on Your Tango…

Frisky Q&A: Sarah Erdreich On Her Book Generation Roe

Roe Vs. Wade
roe vs wade
Where do abortion rights stand today? Read More »
Ellen On Abortion Rights
"I want women to be able to choose," the actress says. Read More »
No Abortion Clinic?
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Will Mississippi become the first state without an abortion clinic? Read More »
roe vs wade protest

Forty years after the landmark decision, Roe v. Wade, which legalized abortion, a woman’s right to make her own reproductive decisions is still a hotbed of discussion in state legislatures and a target of lawmakers.  Outside of these state capitals, talking about abortion is still largely taboo.

Sarah Erdreich is trying to open up a larger discourse about reproductive rights and the next generation of women. Generation Roe: Inside the Future of the Pro-Choice Movement tackles the difficult issues of stigma, activism, pop culture and how to talk about abortion as not just a scary political battle but a more nuanced, personal choice for all women.

I had a chance to speak to Erdreich about the book and what she believes are the biggest issues facing the women who came after Roe and the right to choose. Keep reading »

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