Category Archives: Sex

Sex tips and sex advice for women from our council of Frisky ‘Sexperts’ that will sexify your life!

Sex And The Sober Girl

Courtney Comes Clean
Love talks the cost of fame and her struggle with sobriety. Read More »
Nasty Habits
Addiction turned this woman into a hooker. Read More »
Teenage Meth Head
One woman's experience with "the nastiest drug of all." Read More »

The following piece was originally published on The Fix.

Since I was 19, I’ve worked on and off as a prostitute in New York City.  I learned a lot about men during my decade of escorting, from seeing the insides of their apartments and uncensored sexual requests, but it wasn’t until I quit drinking and using drugs three years ago that I began to notice that many of my clients shared a surprising characteristic: They were sober.

As soon as I was looking for the signs, it became obvious that I was seeing a disproportionate amount of recovering addicts. Eventually, I would start bringing up drinking just to test my own hypothesis. Over and over again, I would find out that the guys who were paying me to drool all over their junk had been sober for a decade or two.  

And most of them were married, too, of course. Keep reading »

5 Ridiculous Sex Myths Everyone Believes

What do you know about sex? Surely there aren’t many of you who would answer “nothing.” Even if you’re the most inexperienced or inept lover of all time (which we’ve been assured you are), you at least have some preconceived notions about sex based on the stories and anecdotes and stand-up comedy you’ve heard over the years.

But here’s the thing — even with all of that going for you, the real and correct answer is still probably “nothing.” Read more

Republican Woman Report Better Sex, But Democrats Have More Of It

Love & Politics
Why don't more online daters care about politics? Read More »
2012 Election
All of The Frisky's posts about the 2012 election. Read More »
Republicans and Democrats photo

Even though some conservatives only believe in sex for procreation, that doesn’t stop 53 percent of self-identified Republican women from reaching “the big O” when they get it on. A new study conducted by Match.com found that single conservative Republican ladies reported having more fulfilling sex lives than their left-wing counterparts. Keep reading »

Health Secrets I Learned From A Sex Toy Party

When my friend asked me if I wanted to accompany her to a “Passion Party,” I said “Absolutely!” Whether or not I was in the market for adult toys was beside the point—I’m always in the market for a good laugh.

But surprisingly, what we got was more than a case of the giggles, a taste of chocolate-raspberry flavored lip gloss, and a penis-shaped pen (which I should probably take out of my purse before it falls out and announces itself to my co-workers). We got a lesson in confidence, self-care, and even chemistry, too. Read more

Beware The Nympho Librarian!

Bad Library Books
The worst library books ever. Read More »
Fetish VIDEO!
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Erotica On The Rise
Erotic book sales are booming. Read More »

The Paris Review’s blog has an interesting article up right now about the long and complicated history of librarians and porn. Of all the titles mentioned, “Nympho Librarian” was definitely our favorite. And sure, this book might be fiction, but we’ll be keeping a close eye on our librarian friends from now on, just in case… [Paris Review Daily]

5 Insignificant Things That Determine Who You Have Sex With

If nothing else, this website is devoted to helping you find a mate … using science. After all, attracting a partner is still a thankless chore full of wearing pants and pretending to care.

Or is it? Turns out there are even more things that get people to consider knowing us in the biblical way, and they’re so subtle and random that pants-wearing just seems stupid now. Things like … Read more

This Week In Sex: Prosthetic Balls Are Finally Here & Why It’s Good To Have Sex With An Ex

Week In Sex
Last week's sexiest headlines. Read More »
Space Sex
Newt Gingrich thinks space sex is great. We don't. Read More »
  • Prosthetic testicles exist! They grow sperm and can even ejaculate! Yay science! [LA Weekly]
  • There’s a new kind of brain scan that will predict your partner’s faithfulness. I hope this doesn’t mean the end of lie detector tests. What will Maury Povich do? [The Stir]
  • This Valentine’s Day, don’t talk about love, talk about porn. Here are five questions to ask about his porn habits. [Your Tango]
  • New research says sex with an ex may be OK after all. Good, even. Really? If you’ll excuse me … I’ve got some Facebook messages to send. [Yahoo Shine]
  • How to value your vagina even more than you already do. If that’s possible. [Your Tango] Keep reading »

HIV/AIDS Ad Is So Clever, Yet So Tacky

Condom Commandments
The rules of condoms. Read More »

Clever use of Facebook Places, Finnish condom PSA! Too bad you had to resort to slut-shaming to do it. Twenty sexual partners might sound like a lot, but all you need is one roll in the hay with one person with HIV. The number of partners a person has really isn’t the point. (And FWIW, there’s also a male version of this PSA where the dude had 35 sexual partners. Point still holds true.) [Copyranter via Buzzfeed]

An Open Letter To My G-Spot

Failure To Squirt
Should you feel bad if you can't squirt? Read More »
My G-Spot Orgasm
One writer talks about having a G-spot orgasm. Read More »

Dear G-Spot,

Gee G-Spot, you sure know how to disappoint a girl. First you exclaim your existence to the world. Then you hide as my fellow ladies are poked and prodded in search of you. One day you promise earth-shattering orgasms, the next you disappear without a trace. A recent review of over 100 studies into your existence has come to the conclusion that there is no proof of it. That you don’t exist. But I don’t think this is the last we’ll hear about you, g-spot. You’ll lay low awhile and then pop back up again, taunting us. Why do you continue to play these games with our emotions? Do you find it humorous that millions of us ladies spend days and nights pondering where you are? Keep reading »

Meet James Deen, Porn’s Hot Guy-Next-Door

Guys ON IM: Porn
How do they really feel about porn? Read More »
Joslyn James' Porn
Of course Tiger's mistress starred in a porn called "The Eleventh Hole." Read More »

This is James Deen — or at least that’s the name he goes by in the hundreds of porn films he’s made over the last several years. Deen is an unlikely looking porn star, with an unlikely story — and he’s perhaps heralding in a new aesthetic into the porn scene, long dominated by ripped, buff, overly-muscled guys. Deen is a porn star with nerd appeal.

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