Sex

The Nookie Know-It-All: Your Sexual Tool Kit

Sexpert Lindsay / April 4, 2008

My husband came into the relationship with some fun sex toys, but after awhile, I decided it was a little weird to play with toys someone else had used. Any advice on how to build a sex toy starter kit I can call my own? — Using Used Goods, Los Angeles, CA

After awhile??? More »


The Nookie Know-It-All: Back Door Business

Sexpert Lindsay / April 2, 2008

My boyfriend and I have decided to try anal, but I’ve heard it’s good to sort of ‘warm up’ first. Are there tricks to getting myself relaxed enough? I’ve heard porn stars have enemas or stop eating a day before. Do I have to go to all that trouble? What if it comes up moreMore »


Feature: A Not-So-Innocent E-mail Affair

Anonymous / March 31, 2008

When I think of virtual reality, I think of those goofy Star Trek-looking visor/headsets that people thought would transport them to their ultimate fantasy world back in the early ’90s. I certainly never thought the term would apply to my life. And yet, for more than a year, I was involved in what can only… More »


The Nookie Know-It-All: Going Down

Sexpert Lindsay / March 31, 2008

“Is there a secret to being awesome at oral sex? I’m not sure if I’m doing it well, and I’m not about to discuss my technique with my friends.” — Needing Lessons, Santa Fe, NM

The real secret to oral sex that nobody ever talks about is that you have to be into it! More »


FriskyScopes With Kiki T

Kiki T / March 31, 2008

For the week of March 31-April 6, 2008

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Your hotness heats up, so aim high. Don’t waste time on charity cases and borderline crushes. You know they only occupy mental space that then makes you waste time analyzing his actions when deep down you could care less. Break free of… More »


An Abacus For Your Menstrual Cycle

Catherine Strawn / March 28, 2008

A natural birth control method that involves keeping track of your cycle with a set of beads and abstaining from sex from day 8 to 19 was shown to be nearly as effective (when used properly) as the Pill and more effective than the diaphragm or condoms, according to a study of 1,646 women i… More »


The Nookie Know-It-All: Spicing It Up In The Sack

Sexpert Lindsay / March 28, 2008

“Lots of things about my relationship are great, but the sex is vanilla — my boyfriend is weirded out by my collection of sex toys, and isn’t willing to experiment. What should I do?” — In Need Of Spice, New Orleans, LA

I think this depends on what kind of toys you have. If… More »


Hey, What’s It Like Saving Yourself For Marriage?

Lucile Scott / March 27, 2008

New Jersey native Sarah Reilly, 25, gives The Frisky the dirt on why she’s waiting for wedding bells before she does the dirty. It’ll truly be a Snow White Wedding…

So when and why did you decide to save yourself for marriage?
Well, my dad is a pastor and when I was a… More »


The Frisky TV: Would You Rather Have Sex In The Same Position Or A Brand New Position Every Night?

Lori took to the streets with quite a conundrum this week — would you rather do it in the exact same position or in a brand new position (no repeats!) every night for the rest of your life? Honestly…we pick the former. We aren’t that flexible or creative. More »


Depressed Women Do It More

Simcha / March 26, 2008

Hold on to your Prozac, because women who suffer from depression have 1/3 more sex than their “normal” counterparts. Finally, some news to cheer up my sad sisters! A study of 107 women, published in the British Medical Journal, found that when you’re down, you put out — no matter whether you’re in a committed… More »


The Nookie Know-It-All: A Magnum Man

Sexpert Lindsay / March 26, 2008

“I am dating a new guy and I want to have sex with him, but he’s extremely well endowed. If I start having regular sex with him will I stretch my vagina permanently?” — Dating Mr. Big

Unless his penis is the size of a 9 lb. baby, the answer is “no.” Vaginas have… More »


Decode My Dream: Sleeping With A Beatle

Catherine Strawn / March 26, 2008

Have you ever dreamed that you slept with your father? Or rode a mechanical bull while a coworker watched? We have and were disturbed for months. Fortunately, dreams don’t always mean what you think they do, and having sex with your father is nothing to worry about, so long as it only happens in yourMore »


Just Lay Down And Die

Simcha / March 25, 2008

Ever had sex with a guy who just lies there? Well, it’s booooorrrrrrring! Who wants a lazy lover? Well, actually, female spiders do. According to researchers at the University of Aaarhus in Denmark, arachnid females are sorta natural necrophiliacs. Technically, if their male suitor just plays dead, they are twice as likely to get laid… More »


Pandas Get Sex Lessons From Handlers, Other Pandas

Catherine Strawn / March 25, 2008

Pandas are a bit shy when it comes to sex, and that’s not a good thing since the species is endangered. No sex=no pandas. It’s just that young, inexperienced pandas don’t really know what to do, and all pandas have low sexual desire. To help counter this, handlers at the Chengdu Research Base of Giant… More »


Vagenius: The Evolution Of Monkey Business

Simcha / March 25, 2008

While a lot of celebrities like to walk around with their cooters out, it turns out that just means they’re less evolved females. Big surprise! But seriously, evolution is to blame for all the problems men have reading women’s sexual signals — although it seems like the trade off was worth it. Back in the… More »


Crave: Sculpt Your Way To Better Lovemakin’

I took a Women’s Studies class in college where we had to make a clay model of the way we viewed our bodies. Mine was extremely misshapen. But clay models aren’t just for burgeoning adults exploring their political self identity — they’re also for horny couples looking to try the Kama Sutra! The “Sculpta Sutra”… More »


Top 10 Reasons You Don’t Need To Have Sex Tonight

Catherine Strawn / March 24, 2008

Sex can do a lot of things. It can get you knocked up, give you an STD, or make you feel glorious, and doctors and researchers just love spouting off the benefits of having a healthy sex life. Some of us, however, don’t have that going for us. Whether you’re just having a dry spell… More »


Down and Dirty Advice Straight From The Stars

Is your love life in a tizzy? Feeling trapped in a scandalous situation that only cosmic forces can pull you out of? Looking for answers that only fate can provide? If so, then you’ve come to the right place — right to the presence of Kiki T., the one and only Astrosexologist Extraordinaire and overall… More »


FriskyScopes With Kiki T

Kiki T / March 24, 2008

For the week of March 24-30, 2008

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Self-possession is 9/10th the way to turn on any object of desire. Remember you’re the sign of fearlessness and thrive on challenge. You’re a warrior and failure is never an option. Repeat this to yourself often, like putting on armor and then ready… More »


The Nookie Know-It-All: Makin’ A Break

Sexpert Lindsay / March 21, 2008

“What’s the best way to exit an awkward morning-after?” — Pullin’ The Slip in Akron, OH

Planning a hit and run? The best way to get out of dodge is usually the most obvious. Tell your boy-toy you’ve got plans. If it’s a weekday, tell him you’ve got an early work meeting. If it&#8217… More »


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